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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother? They sound a right knobhead. I can't believe it took you THAT long to sort your awoken kids up? Xx

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

It didn't. Min they woke up was straight to them. They come first before any women or anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to justify yourself. In this case it sounds like a good result tbh.

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

In a lot of cases I don't think they have kids. So may not understand. When I get to have my kids they come first. Sod everything else x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

Why would you want to plead for forgiveness? It's not as if, you did anything wrong.

There isn't a time limit in that you must reply to a message.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Why would you want to plead with someone so intolerant? I rarely block, only people who harass me, or are rude or unpleasant. Or all three lol!

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

If someone blocks you because you didn't reply quick enough, then they are not worth the hassle or worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked because I am an asshole, yet I live it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why plead for forgiveness. By blocking you I just shows you what type of person they are. I mean do you really want to meet someone who is that impaitient and childish. Forget about it and move on

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I get blocked because I am an asshole, yet I live it well "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It didn't. Min they woke up was straight to them. They come first before any women or anything else"

And so they should!!! Just a shame they blocked u but prob a blessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah now, come on, what kind of man would you be going around pleading with strangers who clearly aren't worth it?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No way, life comes before fab!they just showed you why you are better off not meeting them.Miss.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Plead for nothing.

If they block you, you weren't compatible. Move on.

If they block you because you failed to reply quickly enough or to live up to other unreasonable demands, they're a pain in the arse. Thank your lucky stars you found out early and move on.

I don't chase people round and I wouldn't beg to be unblocked.

There have been a few times where I've been blocked when I realised I was in the wrong in one way or another, and on those occasions I'd like to be able to apologise. I'd still not beg to be unblocked though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

she probably had a list of do's and donts and a code word to put in your first message so chances are this particular lady had particular requirements you just missed the "must reply within 5 minute if I deemed to send you a message" So I agree with the majority of others you had a lucky escape my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, if people block me it's their loss, I'm not giving them a chance for redemption .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Dignity

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Did they say that was why they blocked you?

If somebody shuts the door in your face, don't knock again.

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

She put :I don't like chatting to someone then they suddenly go offline and not reply. Good bye

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No effing rhyme or reason to it.

The Doors - People are Strange

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3CHi_9sxj0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

I think I'd go for self respect over the desperation of pleading forgiveness

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

There are so many legitimate reasons for going offline suddenly. From dead batteries to knocks at the door to family issues and so much more. Anyone who blocks for that is an imbecile and not worth pursuing. Xx

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

When I put about pleading forgiveness I ment in general not just in this case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids always come first, even now me and ads still say the kids always come first on all levels, if the person was like that then leave it, not worth it

G x

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

My kids will and always do come first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

I know it's hard for single men on here , but Op . Please have some dignity. Don't beg anyone for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My kids will and always do come first x "

I think you have made your point there. Now you are getting boring.

So someone blocked you.

Get over it.

This post could be taken for trying to communicate with someone who has blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She put :I don't like chatting to someone then they suddenly go offline and not reply. Good bye"

Maybe she thought you went to make sausages.

Just a thought.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone blocks you because you didn't reply quick enough, then they are not worth the hassle or worth it."

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg


"She put :I don't like chatting to someone then they suddenly go offline and not reply. Good bye

Maybe she thought you went to make sausages.

Just a thought.

XXX"

U never know xx

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

And I wasn't trying to beg any1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block daily not always because of anything negative just yo avoid seeing profiles that we would never meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use an egg timer when chatting to someone on here.

If they don't reply by the time the sand has all gone through, an instant block

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"We block daily not always because of anything negative just yo avoid seeing profiles that we would never meet "

I really don't understand why you would need to block to avoid looking at profiles you would prefer not to meet.

After all you simply just don't have to look.

Or...have I missed the point?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I use an egg timer when chatting to someone on here.

If they don't reply by the time the sand has all gone through, an instant block "

Talk about over- egging it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. A block's a block in my _iew

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

How do you know that was the reason they blocked you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??"

No.

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??

How do you know that was the reason they blocked you?"

She said it. If u look bk on 1 of my comments I've put it

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"Peoples _iews?? I got blocked by somebody just because I didn't reply quick enough because I had to deal with my kids as they woke up. Should fab allow a plead for forgiveness option that you can use only once. And then it would be up to the blocker to decide??

How do you know that was the reason they blocked you?

She said it. If u look bk on 1 of my comments I've put it"

Well, at least she explained why! We have noticed that we have been blocked by some people we have never looked at let alone engaged in conversation with!

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By *ime for me21 OP   Man
over a year ago

skeg

I think some just block for no reason. But ha ho. That's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give people 5 seconds to reply and if they don't I get angry, and bombard them with a torrent of vitriolic bile, hatred and obscenities.

When they block me I simply register a new acc and carry on where I left off

Men, don't you just love us

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I give people 5 seconds to reply and if they don't I get angry, and bombard them with a torrent of vitriolic bile, hatred and obscenities.

When they block me I simply register a new acc and carry on where I left off

Men, don't you just love us

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"I really don't understand why you would need to block to avoid looking at profiles you would prefer not to meet.

After all you simply just don't have to look.

Or...have I missed the point?"

Quite a few people block profiles that they don't want to meet, so those profiles no longer appear in their searches. Not me (I rarely block except real assholes ), but for people who use the search function a lot, it's a reasonable way to run their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give people 5 seconds to reply and if they don't I get angry, and bombard them with a torrent of vitriolic bile, hatred and obscenities.

When they block me I simply register a new acc and carry on where I left off

Men, don't you just love us

"

That sounds hot as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give people 5 seconds to reply and if they don't I get angry, and bombard them with a torrent of vitriolic bile, hatred and obscenities.

When they block me I simply register a new acc and carry on where I left off

Men, don't you just love us

That sounds hot as fuck "

Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We block daily not always because of anything negative just yo avoid seeing profiles that we would never meet

I really don't understand why you would need to block to avoid looking at profiles you would prefer not to meet.

After all you simply just don't have to look.

Or...have I missed the point?"

We don't want to have the same profiles keep coming up and waste time reading profiles that are not for us! No big issue just get rid of them....no offence meant just how we use the site...

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