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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm totally inexperienced with regards to 3somes and over the years had many people offer them to me but never been tempted till now! The two guys are my type, don't need to explain what that is. Both have separate profiles but want to know if I'd be up for it. He said they're both straight and not bi so wouldn't be any crossed swords or sucking each other off or nothing just all attention on me, so this is MFM am I right saying that? Anyway how can you not want two guys, just dunno how these things pan out. I've used the search function for MFM but the threads are an established MF couple inviting a male to join them. Any experiences from single females meeting two guys that know each other, think the dynamics would be different to someone joining a MF couple.

Is it more risky like if there was something you didn't want to do because it's 2 of them would like animal instinct kick in and they do something they perhaps wouldn't do if they were alone.

Just putting some more fat on my breasts and fluffing my potatoes, will check back in a few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being blindfolded with mfm, the anticipation and not knowing whats going on, is electric, the feeling of two set of hands on me really turned me on xxxx just go for it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're comfortable with both guys go for it.

Clear up beforehand any do's and don'ts so everyone knows the limits. Such as dv, dp etc.... better to clear it up beforehand. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst MMF is the only thing left on my sexual bucket list, I've been reluctant because of the safety aspect. I'm pretty ballsy and could probably stand my ground with 1 guy but two that I don't know and trust freaks me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted a ffm some for ages. I got what i wanted and much prefer 1 on 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single woman all my 3sum meets have been with two single guys

Though if im honest all of them i met at least one of them alone, some i have met both of them for 1 on 1 before

Im not sure if i woukd meet two total strangers for a 3sum, because as you say they may not be respectful and if two guys decided you was getting something you said no to you wouldn't be able to stop them

Only time i have played with more than one person where i have never met any before is in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not do it with 2 men I had not met before, for safety reasons. Like you I have been tempted, like you I have not done it before. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two men who know each other a few times. It works for me because they know each other so there's no awkwardness. Straight mfm they learnt how to go about it so they didn't cross swords. The one time I found another man to join me and a male friend he was very nervous and things didn't go as well as they could have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from guys that know each other offering this & my gut instinct says noooo way.

I'd either find the 2 men myself or I'd meet a new guy with an established friend.

Both of my options aren't that easy to achieve!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Ive had a mfm meet off hre with 2 guys that knew each other (only oneguy had a profile on here) im not sure how the dynamics would vary from mf maybe just the fact that with a mf couple inviting a male in tge female is comfortable with her husband/partner to read things not sure. The guys i met with were very respectful though, i didnt have any issues with them regarding things i did/didnt feel comfortable doing. I would say it depends how you feel with them when you meet if not already

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun. "

I'd say it's likely to be more successful with guys that know each other and have had fun together... Two strangers meeting for fun for the first time I'd say was more likely to be unsuccessful, no matter what folk think guys can be nervous around ladies and even more so when there's another bloke in the mixing bowl, personalities need to gel x3 better body , bigger cock , who does what first , he makes her moan more than .. If the guys have met ladies before some of these concerns will have been sorted and figured out.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldnt wanna shag with my m8. Fab and my private life are just that. Private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always known one of the guys already...apart from the first time and that was in the middle of a house party so knew I was safe there... Hope ya get it sorted n have a blast lovely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy a 3 some now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun.

I'd say it's likely to be more successful with guys that know each other and have had fun together... Two strangers meeting for fun for the first time I'd say was more likely to be unsuccessful, no matter what folk think guys can be nervous around ladies and even more so when there's another bloke in the mixing bowl, personalities need to gel x3 better body , bigger cock , who does what first , he makes her moan more than .. If the guys have met ladies before some of these concerns will have been sorted and figured out.

Have fun "

personally from a safty point of view id rather meet two single guys than two guys that come as a package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun.

I'd say it's likely to be more successful with guys that know each other and have had fun together... Two strangers meeting for fun for the first time I'd say was more likely to be unsuccessful, no matter what folk think guys can be nervous around ladies and even more so when there's another bloke in the mixing bowl, personalities need to gel x3 better body , bigger cock , who does what first , he makes her moan more than .. If the guys have met ladies before some of these concerns will have been sorted and figured out.

Have fun

personally from a safty point of view id rather meet two single guys than two guys that come as a package "

I agree. 2 guys that know each other talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun.

I'd say it's likely to be more successful with guys that know each other and have had fun together... Two strangers meeting for fun for the first time I'd say was more likely to be unsuccessful, no matter what folk think guys can be nervous around ladies and even more so when there's another bloke in the mixing bowl, personalities need to gel x3 better body , bigger cock , who does what first , he makes her moan more than .. If the guys have met ladies before some of these concerns will have been sorted and figured out.

Have fun "

The guys are there for the lady not each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from guys that know each other offering this & my gut instinct says noooo way.

I'd either find the 2 men myself or I'd meet a new guy with an established friend.

Both of my options aren't that easy to achieve!"

This seema like the safe option, OP seems sensible to at least be wary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun. "

That's what I mean, it's the fact they both know each other and could egg each other on or plan something beforehand anyway.

I know I worked in a male prison and have training to protect myself in a riot situation and have p5 grade in Krav Maga and a 2nd dan black belt in kickboxing but I wouldn't be foolish enough to believe that if 2 guys really wanted to overpower me they probably could.

So what's the way to get round this, meet one of the duo first, I'd shag each of them on their own anyway and the one who contacted first said he would meet me 1 on 1.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I would be very wary of 2 guys that already know each other. I'd find 2 separate guys and even then there would be conditions.

Be careful. or. It might be fantastic fun.

I'd say it's likely to be more successful with guys that know each other and have had fun together... Two strangers meeting for fun for the first time I'd say was more likely to be unsuccessful, no matter what folk think guys can be nervous around ladies and even more so when there's another bloke in the mixing bowl, personalities need to gel x3 better body , bigger cock , who does what first , he makes her moan more than .. If the guys have met ladies before some of these concerns will have been sorted and figured out.

Have fun

The guys are there for the lady not each other "

I know, two guys who've never met each other will be very apprehensive, they might not even get on , I've said it before if I'm not comfy socially , it's going to be really awkward if we get naked.

two guys who've met and had fun with folk before will be less so.

If I'd have been invited to a mfm with a lady I'd not met and a guy and the lady hasn't met the other guy... I'd be very nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So what's the way to get round this, meet one of the duo first, I'd shag each of them on their own anyway and the one who contacted first said he would meet me 1 on 1. "

That's what I'd suggest

if you have met one before and established some kind of friendship if the other gets out of hand hes far more likely to back you up

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Arrange a social and public meet first, be clear it's a getting to know each other meet. Set rules and boundaries first then take charge. If your not comfy with them tell them no.

They should be respectful polite and look after your needs not theirs ( theirs will be met too tho )

Hope they realise what lucky nuggets they are lol

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For it to work well the guys have to click as well as clicking with you. Playing with 2 guys who know each other isn't necessarily a bad thing, at least you know they will work together to please you as there isn't any ego's to worry about.If it's a safety issue could you not arrange to meet them at a local club if there's any near you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

"

Just go with the flow of things no point trying to plan how it will work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

"

Just go with the flow. One of my wife's favourite bits was when I was fingering her from behind while he fingered from front. Another was when we were sucking a nipple each. Also me pushing her onto him as he doggy styled her. None of it pre planned, just go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

Just go with the flow. One of my wife's favourite bits was when I was fingering her from behind while he fingered from front. Another was when we were sucking a nipple each. Also me pushing her onto him as he doggy styled her. None of it pre planned, just go with it."

That sounds incredibly hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

Just go with the flow. One of my wife's favourite bits was when I was fingering her from behind while he fingered from front. Another was when we were sucking a nipple each. Also me pushing her onto him as he doggy styled her. None of it pre planned, just go with it.

That sounds incredibly hot!!

"

I'm sure I could organise the same for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming they're nice respectful chaps, what goes down then, like who goes where? It's ok I'm gonna have to watch some 1girl 2 guys porn!

"

It all goes fine. Even if the guys don't know each other it has done for me.

So long as the guys get that they might accidently brush each other and are comfortable with other naked men then there isn't any problems really.

Hope you enjoy yourself if you go for it, i love 3sums.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Wanting MFM was one of my main fantasies, and the reason I became a swinger. However, for a single lady wanting this, I would definitely recommend a swingers club - for the safety reason, and also because doing this with people who are already your friends would change your relationship with him/them.

At a swingers club on mixed nights, there are always plenty of guys, so you can approach the ones you find attractive. As to who does what to who and when, going with the flow is the best option. If you pick two guys who are already friends with each other, it's likely it's not their first time, so they will probably have something of a 'technique'. If you pick two guys who haven't played this way before, you might have to be a bit more assertive, in getting things underway. Personally, I've tried both, and I find the 'two friends' option is better, as they neither want to let the other down by being too selfish.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of it would be about trust, so I'd actually approach the men you might wish to have this with, preferably already known to you, and discuss who what where etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet two randoms who knew each other from a safety point if view. I've had a few mfm's but that has been with men I know and trust and always in clubs. Worse one I had was with my ex and his mate. Never again!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd put fat on your breasts while the other bloke fluffed your potatoes

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'd say if it were me I'd make it happen in a club for safety reasons. Either that or get to know both separately first if concerned x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I prefer a MM profile as I know they know each other and have sorted out their rules regarding 'crossing swords' etc. I prefer not to have to chase two separate blokes as one of them is likely to flake or chicken out last minute. A couple of guys who are well verified as providing MMFs to single women on here is definitely my preference.

As a single female who has often arranged her own MMFs and GBs, I prefer there to be someone who I have met before as one of the guys. If nothing else, he's more likely to be there and you have a guaranteed shag. More than that he can come in very handy at corralling the other blokes when my hands and, ahem, other things are full.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

It's all been said above...

A club is a good bet, there is nothing stopping you from arranging to meet the guys at a club.

If clubs aren't for you. Meet one or both of them separately for a social and then take it further if you are happy.

Arrange the meet for a hotel. You have still got people around for your safety.

You could also invite a swinging friend to act as support. Keep an eye on condoms being used etc... or at least be able to check in with a friend at set times...

Good luck, hope it works out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say if it were me I'd make it happen in a club for safety reasons. Either that or get to know both separately first if concerned x"

Not sure what the 'safety reason' thing is. Alone with a male most women are vulnerable, just as much with 2 males, in fact if one was dodgy the other male could be your rescuer. Careful vetting and good old fashioned common sense as with any meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id defo go with meeting at least one of them one on one first so you know you are sexually comparable and you know you can trust them. Also

Defo a social with them both first too. I only meet men who I've pre-selected from my socials now as this makes me feel safer. Also have you a male friend who could phone you when they first turn up to check your happy. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So what's the way to get round this, meet one of the duo first, I'd shag each of them on their own anyway and the one who contacted first said he would meet me 1 on 1.

That's what I'd suggest

if you have met one before and established some kind of friendship if the other gets out of hand hes far more likely to back you up "

I'd meet each alone for 1:1 then decide if I thought I could trust them.

I've only ever done MMF with a partner or 2 people I knew before. I probably wouldn't meet 2 strangers, but decide what works for you.

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