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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been really struggling to get any kind of interaction on this site most messages go unread or deleted, anyone give me a few tips on how to be better at fabbing?? I'm totally new to this kind of thing

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be very respectful and have a tongue like a staircase carpet lol x

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Shag will be along later with his sage advice later I suppose

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up, you need to get yourself know as more than another flash in the pan kind of guy

By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

What sort of first message do you send? Do you send a face pic with it? Do you read profiles and only message people whose criteria you match, (all, or most, of their criteria, not just one thing)?

You've only been here 2 weeks, which is no time at all on fab.

What were your expectations when you joined? Are you sure you have a realistic idea of the people on this site and how it works?

Remember that this site is, at least in part, designed to facilitate the meeting of people seeking the same thing, (which is not necessarily sex). The women and couples on here are the same women and couples who exist in the "real world" and generally, at least initially, you shouldn't approach us any differently to how you'd approach us elsewhere, (say, a pub).

Start a conversation, don't just launch right in and ask to meet for sex. Show them what you look like. Show you see them as something other than an adequate set of holes.