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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here's a question for the ladies.

Chatting with a lady here just this week, she told me that sexual satisfaction for her was gained through her vaginal walls and not via her clitoris. She also said that clitoral stimulation was 'horrible' and orgasm wasn't important.

Now for a guy whose taken years to find the clitoris in the first place and who is now pretty adept at clit-twiddling, and is totally committed to the female orgasm, that does come as a bit of a surprise to me.

What do you reckon girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need both.

Need to feel full and have clitoral stimulation.

I also don't need to cum though prefer to.

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By *igergirl31Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

I never come just from clit play..it has to be internal. .basically I only cum on top!

The orgasm is amazing. .personally I need a man who can keep it up more than I need a clit expert! We all different tho..loads of women only cum through clit play

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, you have learned an important lesson: women are all different.

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By *rednkatieCouple
over a year ago

orlando


"I need both.

Need to feel full and have clitoral stimulation.

I also don't need to cum though prefer to."

i second all of that.

Katie

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I adore clitoral orgasms, but I also adore gspot orgasms. Both blows my head off.....

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By *igergirl31Couple
over a year ago

Leigh


"OP, you have learned an important lesson: women are all different.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a question for the ladies.

Chatting with a lady here just this week, she told me that sexual satisfaction for her was gained through her vaginal walls and not via her clitoris. She also said that clitoral stimulation was 'horrible' and orgasm wasn't important.

Now for a guy whose taken years to find the clitoris in the first place and who is now pretty adept at clit-twiddling, and is totally committed to the female orgasm, that does come as a bit of a surprise to me.

What do you reckon girls?"

Clitoral play works best when I do it but much prefer internal...fingers or cock both make me cum easily...especially with my exclusive playmate....guess that is why he is exclusive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find penetration more satisfying than clitoral stimulation. For me the pleasure comes from a spot a few inches in and on the front wall. An average cock can reach there. I also get pleasure from pressure on my cervix,no idea why though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clitoral for me. Penetrative orgasms aren't nearly as satisfying

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"OP, you have learned an important lesson: women are all different.

"

This is all you need to know - never make assumptions about what turns a woman on, we're all individuals!

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ladies

Very educational. Sex is more complicated that I thought. Must try harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you ladies

Very educational. Sex is more complicated that I thought. Must try harder! "

No you shouldn't try harder. It's a 2 way thing- you should both make the effort. If she doesn't tell you what she likes why bother spending ages trying to be psychic?

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I need both.

Need to feel full and have clitoral stimulation.

I also don't need to cum though prefer to.

i second all of that.

Katie"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a question for the ladies.

Chatting with a lady here just this week, she told me that sexual satisfaction for her was gained through her vaginal walls and not via her clitoris. She also said that clitoral stimulation was 'horrible' and orgasm wasn't important.

Now for a guy whose taken years to find the clitoris in the first place and who is now pretty adept at clit-twiddling, and is totally committed to the female orgasm, that does come as a bit of a surprise to me.

What do you reckon girls?"

A couple of years ?

Was it via a deep, dark jungle expedition ? Mrs Clitoris, I presume?

I found it within the first few minutes myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have a spot in my vagina that sends me wild - I do not always need a clit rub to cum. Sometimes I don't manage to cum at all however, the pleasure of a good sized cock is emense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy meets where a man is 'totally committed to the female orgasm'. I'd rather explore our bodies, play together, and see what happens.

If he needs me to orgasm in order to feel like he's a sex god, I'll just fake it to get the whole thing over with.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Clit stimulation is good when I meet someone who is good at it and does it the way I like it. If not I use my toy.

I didn't used to care if I had an orgasm when I met someone until I got my desire luxury rabbit vibrator.

I think if she thinks orgasms aren't that important then she doesn't know what she is missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clit stimulation is good when I meet someone who is good at it and does it the way I like it. If not I use my toy.

I didn't used to care if I had an orgasm when I met someone until I got my desire luxury rabbit vibrator.

I think if she thinks orgasms aren't that important then she doesn't know what she is missing."

You are assuming that someone who isn't bothered to have orgasms on a meet doesn't know what an orgasm is.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can, occasionally, get really weak vaginal orgasms but they aren't satisfying.

So far at least, good orgasms have required specifically directed, strong clitoral stimulation. The position I'm in matters too. If I move much I lose the sensation and the build up.

I find it very difficult to reach orgasm though. I can do it myself easily enough, with a vibrator, but it's difficult with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't enjoy meets where a man is 'totally committed to the female orgasm'. I'd rather explore our bodies, play together, and see what happens.

If he needs me to orgasm in order to feel like he's a sex god, I'll just fake it to get the whole thing over with."

I'm the same! Especially if they 'need' to make me cum through oral. I'm just not a fan of it so fake it all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed we are all different. Bloody women. For me clitoral stimulation can be no fun at all if the guy is too heavy or rough. The gentlest of touches is all I need but then it takes a long while to get me to orgasm clitorally. Luckily I found a man who knows just how to play me. Vaginal orgasms are much more of a safe bet.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Thank you ladies

Very educational. Sex is more complicated that I thought. Must try harder!

No you shouldn't try harder. It's a 2 way thing- you should both make the effort. If she doesn't tell you what she likes why bother spending ages trying to be psychic?"

Some men don't have to be told though, they just seem to know, I prefer to meet them.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Clit stimulation is good when I meet someone who is good at it and does it the way I like it. If not I use my toy.

I didn't used to care if I had an orgasm when I met someone until I got my desire luxury rabbit vibrator.

I think if she thinks orgasms aren't that important then she doesn't know what she is missing."

They aren't that vital to me.

It's difficult to get there so I never expect to. If I do, it's a bonus.

I love the sensation of being fucked and being full of cock. I can give myself spectacular orgasms so I don't care if I have them during sex. I can't do the being full of cock, being fucked by myself though. Dildos don't feel the same and several vital (for me) components are missing.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I don't always enjoy fucking I think its boring i have met a few men who i enjoyed it with though.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Best of both for us, really strong, knees going weak type orgasms come from deep penetration grazing across G spot while the clit and surrounding area gets a good tongue lashing, ... In case you are now thinking wow a contortionist or that must be a long tongue, It's actually a 3 way, 4 if you count the other hubby with the camera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be fucked well by someone that listens to my body but NOT orgasm than have an orgasm dragged out of me by incessant clit rubbing like they are trying to start a camp fire. Some of my most memorable orgasms have occurred way before my clit has even been touched.

Mrs x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Dear O.P.

Men wank in different ways. Men use different techniques to cum. Men need stimulus in different ways.

Why should women have a cum button ?

Just a point that may aid understanding for some .....

Stop focusing on the end enjoy the journey.

I'd rather a great sex session without a climax than a shit sex session with a huge cum.

I'f I just want a massive orgasm I have my own tried and tested certainties.... ta.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Some girls are easily pleased. When a man is touching you and you aren't enjoying it does it bother him if you say shall i use my toy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a question for the ladies.

Chatting with a lady here just this week, she told me that sexual satisfaction for her was gained through her vaginal walls and not via her clitoris. She also said that clitoral stimulation was 'horrible' and orgasm wasn't important.

Now for a guy whose taken years to find the clitoris in the first place and who is now pretty adept at clit-twiddling, and is totally committed to the female orgasm, that does come as a bit of a surprise to me.

What do you reckon girls?"

Everybody is different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always manage to find my way down the right road. I was going to say ' it's not rocket science' but it is kind of isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both, but I've got a really sensitive clit that 90% of guys are far too rough with - please don't "twiddle" it, to quote OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit deflating I would think! Thankfully never suffered that snipe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the fact she is sexually confident to tell you this - love women who know whats what - such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couple of years/ to be clear to all - that was irony. Jeez!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why would he be wanting to be a sex God just because he wants to give you pleasure. Not all men are just about themselves. I like to give pleasure by whatever means and if a woman is that insecure that she has to fake an orgasm, then she needs to do some assertiveness training

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