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By *issnaughtypants87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leigh

Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some diamonds here:just have to find them. Can take a while but worth it when you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them what their favourite musicals are, that should give a good indication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some amazing men . Just takes time and lots of chatting . Although , some still have turned out to be arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics

Yes men lie about their preferences as they think saying they're straight will get them more meets. I personally wouldn't mind meeting a bi guy so don't understand it myself

And there are a lot of single people who are really in relationships. Just stick to your preferences and don't apologise for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

You say your straight in your details but then in your text you say you want to meet a woman?

Aren't you doing exactly what you are complaining about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people on here are happy to be deceptive to get what they want, this could also include manipulating you so that you think there is something wrong with you for having standards.

The whole internet is like this tbf but more so on sex sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

I have no valuable input to this problem. Give me about ten minutes to perv and then my brain will kick in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey you !

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By *issnaughtypants87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leigh


"Ask them what their favourite musicals are, that should give a good indication "

I don't get it? ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them what their favourite musicals are, that should give a good indication

I don't get it? ha ha"

The sterotype that gay men like musical theater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is some absolute gems of single men on here. It's a case of going with your gut instinct when you think that someone isn't "quite right" on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no one else has read the ops profile and noticed the hilarity?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No way of knowing if a bloke is straight or not. But if he has a veri from a bloke which reads he sucks cock like a pro - the chances are he is Fab Straight.

Cheating guys - accept it. You have no way to know for sure if he is cheating or not. If you fuck strangers you won't know their relationship status.

Do you lecture them about their cheating and immoral ways when you turn them down, or just say sorry you aren't for me?

Because In the 6 years I've been here I've never had that kinda message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no one else has read the ops profile and noticed the hilarity? "

Yes, but be good

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By *issnaughtypants87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leigh


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them.

You say your straight in your details but then in your text you say you want to meet a woman?

Aren't you doing exactly what you are complaining about?"

I'm not complaining I'm asking females for advice. If you read correctly with your brain you would note I have put something I would like to try. Thanks for your valuable input though xx

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

you may find out they are bisexual if you see their name on another mans profile page otherwise no way of knowing. just assume they might be.

you don't have to meet married men but you don't have to explain why to them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/oavMtUWDBTM

Tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things I look for in a man's profile. If they can't meet why not? If it is only weekday daytime meets why? In pics are there any female things in the background. Esp in bathroom pics.

Not foolproof by any manner but helps me out some of the most obvious cheaters.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Someone said it on here already but go with your gut instincts, you have them for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid on a site such as this deception is rife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

Believe us when we say there are far more guys who lie and say they are bi just to get a meet with a couple who are really straight then visa versa most ( not all) please note NOT ALL will say anything to get a fuck as we've found out tonight when a straight guy messaged us when we pointed out we are only interested in bi guys he said he's only bi when meeting couples

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no one else has read the ops profile and noticed the hilarity? "

What ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Men generally distort their stated sexual orientation because they know that some women and couples won't meet guys if they're not straight. Plus if someone has tried something and not liked it, such as bi fun, then they feel it's confirmed that they're straight.

If there weren't people who had discriminating tastes over orientations them and if it wasn't so hard for many guys to get meets, then profiles would probably be more accurate.

Know what you want and pursue it.

There's no test, like a litmus test, that can be ran to find out if others have considered other forms of alien life for sex.

Getting to know people rather than the label likely means you'll find others that you get on with.

Your judgement improves with experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no one else has read the ops profile and noticed the hilarity?

Yes, but be good "

What?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

Ignore em hunny, don't trade in ur own values for potentially a two minute fumble with a random gut off here who will have forgot ur name by next week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

Check my verifications out. They're lovely guys & I'm sure they'd love a message off you if you like any of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still no one else has read the ops profile and noticed the hilarity? "

Not really as she's saying what she's into? I think her point is about guys hiding their preferences

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"There are some diamonds here:just have to find them. Can take a while but worth it when you do."

Never a truer word spoken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could allways try a gangbang

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hi, this is a question of the women.

I'm new to this site but struggling to work out a few things that I consider important (in my opinion).

How do you work out who is a straight male off here?

I find the majority of men say straight but aren't. If you're gay, bi whatever that's fine but why the deception on such an open site.

Should I be offended when all I get are men that are doing the dirty behind their wives backs or should I just expect it and move on if I don't like it?

I'm getting the whole "you think you're better than us" speech when I tell people that's not what I'm into when I'm just being honest with them."

It's the internet.. folk tell porkies. Take a lot of what you're told with a pinch of salt.

If you're not comfortable meeting guys in a relationship, move on, your preferences should remain true to you.

There are some great guys on here, It's said before they're the guys who are already out there having fun.. search them out they're worth the effort.

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