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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington

Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend....

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I wouldn't post about my friends on here. Hope others can advise you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate if you ask yourself if it is normal for her to do that, well I understand how she can do it.

You have to set your boundaries with her.

Are you happy to do those tjings for her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things*

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy

different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend.... "

Could be using you or could have become too attached. What kind of favours? Anything involving money and I would be very wary. How did she cope for lifts and things before you came along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't any experience of a FB but maybe she does what more best thing to do is ask her I guess

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington


"I wouldn't post about my friends on here. Hope others can advise you."
she ain't on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

see it depends how you view it

some call it a fuck buddie, some a friend with benifits, maybe she sees the relationship as the later and as such thinks as a friend you won't mind helping her out

maybe shes just a user

who knows

personally i would dump such a person as i see it as the former

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say your heading for the friend zone

I have never asked a fbuddy for anything other than a chat or sex i thought they were just an occasional sexual partner that you kept in touch with had a chat /laugh with

If i had known you can use them as a chauffer i could have saved hundreds in taxi fares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy

different perception of whata fb is i would say..you are her boyfriend.... "

Haha boyf..more like dogsbody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

If you think you are being taken for a ride, you are being taken for a ride.

If it talks like a duck and walks like a duck ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can try say 'no' and see if she calls the FB agreement off. You'll have your answer then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you want really

I see a fuck buddy as just that, some one you meet for sex and nothing else

Friend with benefits, as above but doing other social stuff too

Maybe you have one view and she has the other. Either way you need to talk to her and establish your ground rules!

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington

Thanks all

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I wouldn't post about my friends on here. Hope others can advise you. she ain't on here"
maybe this is the problem,, you in your eyes may have found a FB..maybe shes never heard of the term..either way your expectations of each other dont match up so like it or deal with it..

would she appreciate being called a fb?..out of interest? maybe she feels shes dating you..is my point..

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That's more than a fb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

I would say that as you are asking the question, you are doubting her motives yourself. It could be that she sees this as quid pro quo, she gives you sex occasionally and you do other things for her. I have had FWBs that have offered to do all sorts of things outside the bedroom for me, car serviced, lend me money when I was really short. I didn't ask, they offered, as it was something they wanted to do. I came home from work to see my friend and the traffic was bad, so I was late, found him mowing my lawn naked! I never took advantage, most of the time I said 'no', as I was more interested in getting their trousers off! It is up to you, if you don't want to do those things like lifts etc, don't do them, refuse politely and see how she reacts. You have to trust your gut, if it feels wrong, then it most likely is. Good luck.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just say no if you dont want to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

Sounds like friend with benefits but with not so much in the way if benefits.

You're not happy so tell her or walk away

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington

We both agreed from the beginning it was just sex then the lifts etc came in just last week

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You're her DB....

That's Drive Buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're her DB....

That's Drive Buddy."

Quick call delta...can I Ave a dB to tingyo please ! How much ????? Err I'll nosh him once a month if he gets here quick lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We all make our own rules and have different needs from relationships. I don't do 'normal'. It's up to you op how you decide to live and relate with others.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"We both agreed from the beginning it was just sex then the lifts etc came in just last week"

Be careful you'll be doing all her decorating next and taking the kids to school

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you feel like you're being taken for a fool then you are. This is something you need to talk to her about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy is just that. You meet , you fuck , you go home until next time.

If it's not mutially beneficial and equal to both involved I'd walk the other way

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington


"We both agreed from the beginning it was just sex then the lifts etc came in just last week

Be careful you'll be doing all her decorating next and taking the kids to school "
she has no kids lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"We both agreed from the beginning it was just sex then the lifts etc came in just last week

Be careful you'll be doing all her decorating next and taking the kids to school she has no kids lol"

Just the decorating then

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington

Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run as fast as u can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy"

Out of interest how much sex were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take what you can get

You are now her bitch

Chill/relax and think if you are happy with this arrangement or not

Xxx

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills"

Agree, but only if she fucks you first. Better still, she and her mate agree to a threesome. If she doesn't acquiesce, dump her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills

Agree, but only if she fucks you first. Better still, she and her mate agree to a threesome. If she doesn't acquiesce, dump her."

Yep good plan.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Cheeky mare,tell her to do one!

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby


"Final nail in the coffin just had a text saying can I take her to her mates (43 mile round trip) so they can come back go out for the night then take them back tomorrow as they are both going back and she is there for the week. Hahaha I think it's time to run for the hills"
You,ve woke up at last.. over the hills and far away is the right move..

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By *orthantsfun2013 OP   Man
over a year ago

poddington


"Hi all I have found myself a fuck buddy and the sex is great but she seems to be ringing me for lifts and favours everyday yet as for sex it's only been 3 times yet we have been fuck buddy's for around 6 weeks is she just using me or is this the normal thing for a fuck buddy

Out of interest how much sex were you expecting? "

When we first started talking about becoming fuck buddies it was going to be around 3-5 times a week

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