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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else have problems with their neighbours.

I try to keep myself to myself but it's becoming harder and harder,this morning she was screaming and shouting and causing a fuss to wake everyone on the Culdi at 7am.

And when I went out just before I got screamed at down the Rd by her mother "thanks for nearly blocking her in"

How the hell do you nearly block someone in...the space her car had disappeared from could have got a bus into it well minibus at least!

Sorry having a rant I still can't understand how you nearly block someone in you either do or don't car gone so didn't.

Just wondering what's next with them and how long I can keep my cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - had to move house twice because of totally inconsiderate neighbours, their incessantly barking dogs and their vermin children. If you are a decent, quiet couple/family - it can make your life hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely lucky cos one side is my best friend and the other side is an elderly couple I've known for 35 years .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour treats his gardens like scrap yards, which has devalued my home and also made it impossible to sell

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

We have a street Facebook page and have a street party every year. We all talk to each other if there's a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone else gets on fine there are only 8 houses and each and every other house has had something with the one lot of neighbours.

If they were council tenants something would be done it drives me nuts.

From stupid banging whisky is being done obviously on purpose to screaming and shouting at eachother at all hours and the worse of it all fucking Celine dion on full blast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which not whiskey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top floor apartment of a refurbished listed building so the walls do a great job of blocking out unwanted noise, and neighbours are all pretty respectful. Don't envy people having to put up with selfish,inconsiderate people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old neighbour kept cockrels and hens in his front garden. The smell in Summer was awful and the fucking noise they made was not on, crowing from from 4:45am onwards sometimes. Was a residential area not rural.

I kept a video/sound diary and reported to the council and I also put a letter through his door. He eventually got rid of the cockrels and just kept the hens but by then I'd had enough cos everytime I saw him I just wanted to slap him for being an inconsiderate tossbag.

Keep a diary of any aggro if it's a regular thing OP. Make sure you put dates and times of any incidents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

these neighbours have posted themselves on youtube!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B1dakp4FT0w

nice to see them getting along

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Anyone else have problems with their neighbours.

I try to keep myself to myself but it's becoming harder and harder,this morning she was screaming and shouting and causing a fuss to wake everyone on the Culdi at 7am.

And when I went out just before I got screamed at down the Rd by her mother "thanks for nearly blocking her in"

How the hell do you nearly block someone in...the space her car had disappeared from could have got a bus into it well minibus at least!

Sorry having a rant I still can't understand how you nearly block someone in you either do or don't car gone so didn't.

Just wondering what's next with them and how long I can keep my cool "

I am on my last nerve with my neighbour, I have 17 months before I can think about moving, every passing month gets more and more difficult. Its just the shouting (they are of Turkish ilk and don't know how to speak) and added another child to their brood who is now 18 months old and even more noisy. couple that off with their 3 teenage daughters..... Constant BBQ's with their friends (their garden is outside my kitchen window) I just want to scream then cry the roll up and la la la

Breakdown over and breeeeeeeeeath

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Where we live now is great everyone is friendly to a degree some more than others and apart from having to ask next doors dog to stop jumping up and barking at us over the fence it's all good. Our previous neighbour was a nightmare think alcoholic wife with husband who had a propensity for throwing dog poo in our garden and putting sharp objects under our tyres.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I used to have a nightmare neighbour a few years ago. I lived on the first floor and they were on the ground floor of a converted house.

She was partying almost every night. Would start about midnight and go on until 5 am when they eventually crashed out.

After a while i discovered my floorboards were terribly loose and it became necessary to hammer them down almost daily at around 8 am

A couple of months later she moved out because she couldnt sleep and my diy ceased lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I did. New (rough) ones moved in 5 doors away. The noise was awful during the early hours until I'd leave for work, which they don't have to do. And on top of this they dumped old furniture etc in the back. I filled a complaint form out to the council. One for the rubbish & one for the noise. Rubbish cleared that day & been pretty quiet since.

So may be worth doing this as it's completely discreet too so they won't know it's you.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i love and am thankful for my field x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Buying a tent to live in the middle of a field is more and more attractive nowadays

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You can report anti-social behaviour to your local council. If they are actually being abusive, you can report it to the police as harassment.

If enough of you make formal complaints they should get the message.... Or a fine.

Nita

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I used to have a nightmare neighbour a few years ago. I lived on the first floor and they were on the ground floor of a converted house.

She was partying almost every night. Would start about midnight and go on until 5 am when they eventually crashed out.

After a while i discovered my floorboards were terribly loose and it became necessary to hammer them down almost daily at around 8 am

A couple of months later she moved out because she couldnt sleep and my diy ceased lol"

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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago

port talbot

My sympathies. Have you got in touch with your local council about the noise, keep a diary of all the goings on and you Can get an enforcement order against them.

My neighbour has 4 yappy dogs that bark at anything and he's a lazy bastard when it comes to walking and cleaning up after they shit everywhere. The smell in the garden is appalling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any problem with our neighbors at all as they are at least 400 yards away facing opposite direction lol other one is half mile. Away

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

According to another thread, it's just London women who are hard nosed and unfriendly.

As for neighbours, it's a dreadful time if you have poor ones - my complete sympathy for you op.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Don't have any problem with our neighbors at all as they are at least 400 yards away facing opposite direction lol other one is half mile. Away "

I'm envious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me, I used to live next to the Sh1t's from hell, upto a year ago. I sold up and moved after 10 years I couldn't stand it any longer. VILE VILE VILE nasty people. I dont know how some can live with themselves the way they treat others. Just remember that they are so unhappy with their own life they want to makes others unhappy. Just look at them you will see their faces dont smile, the sides of their mouth will be like this

Now I have the most wonderful neightbours

Move buddy trust me it was worth in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god i have houses either side of me that have been made into flats,they never stay long enough to get on me nerves,and a huge river opposite ,bliss

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Buying a tent to live in the middle of a field is more and more attractive nowadays "
many perks to the lifestyle x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Will confesss, I (he) had a bit of a meltdown last night, just as I'm off to bed at 12.15am the neighbour thinks it's great to blast her music to which I banged on the ceiling as shouted to turn that shit off!! She cleans to her music, puts the washing machine on as well as the diswasher then hoovers and this can go on till gone 4am. Don't think we'll be here for long which is a shame as we're not quite ready to move on yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine are shit. she is paranoid and he is a moron.

since i got some cheap cameras off ebay she has stopped causing damage to my garden and throwing rubbish in. she still slams her doors constantly, and unfortunately she is very severely mentally disordered and they both have leaning difficulties on top of that, and i have accepted she will never be right in the head so will have to put up with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my girlfriend's neighbours is a right nightmare. Most recently followed her down the street and accused her of using someone else's skip without permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are fine. But I am generally quite tolerant and don't get overly wound up by things that some seem to take exception too. Spoke to my last neighbours about how noisy their kids were and that solved it. Latest neighbour has spent months renovating his flat, didn't see a need to complain about the noise as it was unavoidable

Have lived in shared properties with some utter arseholes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Got a retired couple one side and a young Polish family the other side. All good no problems.

Although the Polish family might be moving out in a couple of years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone else gets on fine there are only 8 houses and each and every other house has had something with the one lot of neighbours.

If they were council tenants something would be done it drives me nuts.

From stupid banging whisky is being done obviously on purpose to screaming and shouting at eachother at all hours and the worse of it all fucking Celine dion on full blast "

Can I be honest, I was keeping an open mind, thinking "two sides to every story" and all that...

...but Celine Dion? Fucking hell. Can't the police do anything about that?!?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neighbours are lovely now but have moved in the past due to noisy inconsiderate neighbours. The mum was an alcoholic who let her teenage kids run riot, was a horrible time

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By *anxfrankMan
over a year ago

isle of man

My next door neighbour is such an Arse,bible bashing, God bothering happy clapping old bag, I can do do any work in the house as she phones the police or hse, she moaning like fuck if I wash the bloody Windows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had problem neighbours, music so loud ornaments literally shaking from it. At 3, 4 in the morning.

Tried police, environmental health, council....no use at all. What solved it? Good old fashioned violence, works like magic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my girlfriend's neighbours is a right nightmare. Most recently followed her down the street and accused her of using someone else's skip without permission "

That's feckin disgraceful behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight fire with fire!! People like them don't understand how to be reasonable. They seem to respond better to simple (but effective) things, like cricket bats and pick axe handles

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Anyone else have problems with their neighbours.

I try to keep myself to myself but it's becoming harder and harder,this morning she was screaming and shouting and causing a fuss to wake everyone on the Culdi at 7am.

And when I went out just before I got screamed at down the Rd by her mother "thanks for nearly blocking her in"

How the hell do you nearly block someone in...the space her car had disappeared from could have got a bus into it well minibus at least!

Sorry having a rant I still can't understand how you nearly block someone in you either do or don't car gone so didn't.

Just wondering what's next with them and how long I can keep my cool

I am on my last nerve with my neighbour, I have 17 months before I can think about moving, every passing month gets more and more difficult. Its just the shouting (they are of Turkish ilk and don't know how to speak) and added another child to their brood who is now 18 months old and even more noisy. couple that off with their 3 teenage daughters..... Constant BBQ's with their friends (their garden is outside my kitchen window) I just want to scream then cry the roll up and la la la

Breakdown over and breeeeeeeeeath"

"TURKISH ILK and don't know how to speak"???!! REALLY? You could have made your point without that bit. You should be ashamed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

"

I hope your cousin is in prison for a long time. He sounds like an animal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". What solved it? Good old fashioned violence, works like magic."

Are you proud of that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

I hope your cousin is in prison for a long time. He sounds like an animal"

Hence why I said "people get what they deserve" !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my neighbours is a bitch from hell. I personally rise above it and smile sweetly at her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". What solved it? Good old fashioned violence, works like magic.

Are you proud of that?"

Yes. These scum had made our lives a misery for two years. During that time they never worked a day. Being nice to them, asking politely.... nothing. Them waking our baby in the night from the sheer volume of their music. Me going to work absolutely shattered from no sleep. When I finally found what put an end to it I was very fucking proud indeed. So I do understand your implication that violence is nothing to be proud of and I agree with the sentiment and if you knew me you'd know I'm the absolute opposite of violent. Go through 2 years of that kind of hell and come back to me how you feel about it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the other things my neighbour did was throw nappies out of the window into their back garden. Dogs and cats etc ripped them up, the stench was awful, not to mention bits of nappy flying around in the wind. The council didn't want to know at all. Nobody did. The only language people like that understand is violence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since living in my house now for 11 yrs, 1 side was a little old lady who had very strong opinions about everything lol. She has since passed away and we have had 2 lots of shitty neighbours, drinking and drugs it even got to the point in the summer you couldn't open the windows because of the smell, and you felt very intimidated by 15/20 pissed up people inthe back garden. We now have fantastic neighbours who we laugh and joke with and our kids stop at each others houses.

On the other side at the beginning we had a lot of bother from the male as he liked to beat up female (even when she was expecting) so I used to call the police but after do many times of her not doing anything herself (the offer of help was there) I stopped. Even on 1 occasion he was stood at the other side of the street shouting abuse at me. So I place my 8 month old son in his play pen went outside shut the door and told this big clever bloke to come and try give me a beating like he did his partner, but he was too chicken to cross over.

As the yrs have gone on he has melode out and can be very pleasant he has also told me he knows he won win with me. And now we have drug dealers living a few doors away! Oh the joys I wish I could win the lottery x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". What solved it? Good old fashioned violence, works like magic.

Are you proud of that?

Yes. These scum had made our lives a misery for two years. During that time they never worked a day. Being nice to them, asking politely.... nothing. Them waking our baby in the night from the sheer volume of their music. Me going to work absolutely shattered from no sleep. When I finally found what put an end to it I was very fucking proud indeed. So I do understand your implication that violence is nothing to be proud of and I agree with the sentiment and if you knew me you'd know I'm the absolute opposite of violent. Go through 2 years of that kind of hell and come back to me how you feel about it then. "

I don't blame you tbh. I'm very pacifist but one time i dreamt i slit my neighbours throat and it didn't even feel weird or scary to dream that, it actually felt good. They can push you and push you and think they have that right to ignore your boudaries.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

I hope your cousin is in prison for a long time. He sounds like an animal"

I'm not saying what her cousin did was right by any stretch of the imagination,but I know how nightmare neighbour's can make your life hell. There have been times when I wished I knew a big guy to scare the shit out of my previous neighbour,not to hurt him but just to give a polite warning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

I hope your cousin is in prison for a long time. He sounds like an animal

I'm not saying what her cousin did was right by any stretch of the imagination,but I know how nightmare neighbour's can make your life hell. There have been times when I wished I knew a big guy to scare the shit out of my previous neighbour,not to hurt him but just to give a polite warning!"

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"I had a nightmare neighbour who would abuse me verbally every time he would see me leave the house, he was always pissed and didn't like women, the problem lasted a year and one night he threw a hammer through my car window whilst I was in it!

I reported him to the police countless times and the local council and guess what? They did nothing!

He no longer is a nightmare neighbour though as he is living in a care home after my cousin broke both the bastards legs and knocked half his teeth out!!

Sometimes people get what they deserve! I have a peaceful life, the scumbag is no longer a menace and my cousin is a guest of HMP

I hope your cousin is in prison for a long time. He sounds like an animal

I'm not saying what her cousin did was right by any stretch of the imagination,but I know how nightmare neighbour's can make your life hell. There have been times when I wished I knew a big guy to scare the shit out of my previous neighbour,not to hurt him but just to give a polite warning!

"

Oh, don't talk about neighbours. New neighbour been in less than a year, guts her secluded garden within weeks of moving in and then 3 months ago, takes down the ancient party hedge without a word to us. I goes out there to confront her twice, only to be told that she's not only to stop working in HER garden, says I'm jealous and heard that I'm a trouble maker. After several exchanges of recorded letters, she agrees to pay for a surveyor, who comes out, agrees with us where the border is, but because he's been away, she goes and marks the border with pegs and strings hersel - as if we came down in the last shower and not double check with the surveyor. Furthermore, the day after he came out, they hacked into the poor Liliac on the border, to hear from the surveyor that he told them it needed clearing for him to mark out the border! Grrrr. So after 3 months of stress, we now have to employ a solicitor! And this is from a lady in her 70s...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch been living on a farm wonderful 2 neighbours and o ly noise is the ducks! But now buyinv a first home on a estate and youot me scared!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will confesss, I (he) had a bit of a meltdown last night, just as I'm off to bed at 12.15am the neighbour thinks it's great to blast her music to which I banged on the ceiling as shouted to turn that shit off!! She cleans to her music, puts the washing machine on as well as the diswasher then hoovers and this can go on till gone 4am. Don't think we'll be here for long which is a shame as we're not quite ready to move on yet. "

House like that after 11.pm is illegal. Go.onto your council web pages, print it off and post in in her door. Keep a diary. Report it. House isn't allowed 11pm til 7am here, all councils gave their own times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* noise not house

Stupid autocarrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had problems with neighbours in the past..

a very young couple with a baby. she was only 17 and really quiet and shy..her boyfriend was a total nightmare, used to invite all his mates around all hours of the day and night, fixing cars out the front and fitting those really noisy exhausts to cars, and they were very disrespectful...total nightmare, but they have moved on now and an old man lives there so peace and quiet, thank god!

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Try having your cat kidnapped,your car vandalised, you dog teased to death, standing looking in at you through a bush, windows smashed, bass music etc etc etc...lol frikin animals....never human.

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

Oh dear i have a rented house next to me had lots of hassle over the years blocking up drains with nappies,wipes,condoms etc floating around on my back yard .Smelly bins not put out and rubbish piling up.I even resorted to putting out there rubbish just to get rid of the smell of rottin nappies.Ive just had new neibours move in i just hope there as nice as the previous young couple who bought my little dog a leaving prezzy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my old neighbour

Curvy blonde mum of 3. Big fake tits who often sunbathed naked. Often hear here getting a good seeing to off her ugly hubby

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely lucky, I have incredibly sound neighbours.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby


"One of my girlfriend's neighbours is a right nightmare. Most recently followed her down the street and accused her of using someone else's skip without permission "

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