FabSwingers.com forum: Looking to get verified?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a kind man

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here. "

What a lovely idea. Good on ya matey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very nice offer sure someone will take you up on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What a lovely idea. Good on ya matey xx"

Still waiting to verify you Lizzy

Summer is upon us, bring your camper van down this way soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here. "

You're all heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet for socials to verify these days lol

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here. "

Seems like a very sensible idea. Pity more people won't offer.

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over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here.

Seems like a very sensible idea. Pity more people won't offer.

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what do you mean? We had a whole host of threads running for coffee meet verifications. I met 6 guys and 1 woman and i know others did as well

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool

If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here. "

Kind man indeed, you don't fancy moving to nth lincs, none like you here.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications "

Mr Marmite is offering to give new people verifications. Some people are reluctant to meet people with no verifications. Web cam veris could be anyone.....face to face veris are much more reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications "

Some people don't think the cam veri is very good, still doesn't show they are meeting people, they could just be keyboard warriors.

Most newbies are always asking to he verified, hence the offer of they are genuine.

Hope that clears it up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications

Some people don't think the cam veri is very good, still doesn't show they are meeting people, they could just be keyboard warriors.

Most newbies are always asking to he verified, hence the offer of they are genuine.

Hope that clears it up for you. "

Very true, I did this a few months ago, no one took me up on the offer though, strangely guys aren't so keen on a verification from a single guy, although I can't understand why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications

Some people don't think the cam veri is very good, still doesn't show they are meeting people, they could just be keyboard warriors.

Most newbies are always asking to he verified, hence the offer of they are genuine.

Hope that clears it up for you.

Very true, I did this a few months ago, no one took me up on the offer though, strangely guys aren't so keen on a verification from a single guy, although I can't understand why! "

I have no issue with my sexuality and honestly don't mind meeting other guys for a drink and a natter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't understand why men would not want a natter over coffee, it'd not like we are going to shag in the toilets at McDonald's or anything! Haha

Still, if they don't want to meet someone of the same sex to help them on their way, then they shouldn't complain that they can't get meets due to not being verified.

It's 2016... not 1969! Haha (See what i did there)

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here.

What a lovely idea. Good on ya matey xx"

Yeah, great idea dude, good on you...

I mean, giving a golden ticket to a stranger to enable them to access swinging events like... oh, I don't know... Swingfields...?.

Are you out of your frikkin' mind?

Wake up people!!!

Whilst, in a perfect world, helping newbies get that first little leg-up would be a good thing, we don't live in a perfect world!!!

Right now, there are press reporters prowling this site, making notes, gathering info, and looking for that "easy in".... and you are handing it to them on a plate ffs!

I'm sorry to say this, but right now you should be making it harder, not easier, for people to get that first veri, and it shouldn't be on cam, or for coffee... it should be at a club, where you saw them buried under a pile of other bodies, shagging, or being shagged.... and by others, not each other (in the case of couples)!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks like someone got out of the bed on the wrong side this morning!

Swingfields fiasco was down to poor organisation, looking at the VA festival of fun and they never have issues like that.

It's all down to how well a public venue is situated, and in a farmers field where anyone can get in was nit exactly the right way to do it.

Anyway, this is not about other venues etc.... if anyone wants to meet for coffee that's all that's being offered.

Please don't turn up with a hidden camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here.

Seems like a very sensible idea. Pity more people won't offer.

what do you mean? We had a whole host of threads running for coffee meet verifications. I met 6 guys and 1 woman and i know others did as well"

I didn't say, "No-one does it." Did I?

I merely said, "Seems like a very sensible idea. Pity more people won't offer."

More credit to you for being adventurous.

If more people were as outgoing as you obviously are we wouldn't have as many "I can't get verified" threads.

Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened? Sorry....clearly behind the times!?

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyway, this is not about other venues etc.... if anyone wants to meet for coffee that's all that's being offered.

Please don't turn up with a hidden camera "

Yes the shame of it!

I'd hate it if someone filmed me spilling my coffee down my shirt and then put it on facebook or such.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I alway's find this weird.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I need a veri from a busty redhead it's the only way I can carry on living so please apply within

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh well, looks like people just don't want the veris anymore eh?

Just to add, the last time i done this, a single gent also got to meet Mrs M too.

No veris were harmed in the making of this thread.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I need a veri from a busty redhead it's the only way I can carry on living so please apply within

If I got a veri from a busty redhead and she asked me to reciprocate, I'd not hesitate to give her one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your in such a rush for veris just use the cam option. However don't see the need in so many verifications

Some people don't think the cam veri is very good, still doesn't show they are meeting people, they could just be keyboard warriors.

Most newbies are always asking to he verified, hence the offer of they are genuine.

Hope that clears it up for you.

Very true, I did this a few months ago, no one took me up on the offer though, strangely guys aren't so keen on a verification from a single guy, although I can't understand why!

I have no issue with my sexuality and honestly don't mind meeting other guys for a drink and a natter "

Well a coffee / pint is always on offer for a fellow bearded gent, veri or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very kind OP. It's like killing two birds with one stone. As in if you're out shopping anyway, why not meet someone on your coffee break. There's no harm in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it was a coffee for ONE today, nobody around Colchester that needs a veri obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it was a coffee for ONE today, nobody around Colchester that needs a veri obviously. "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also available to help verify any attractive ladies in Hampshire this evening and I only charge a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also available to help verify any attractive ladies in Hampshire this evening and I only charge a blow job."

And people say chivalry is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also available to help verify any attractive ladies in Hampshire this evening and I only charge a blow job.

And people say chivalry is dead

*tips hat*

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm also available to help verify any attractive ladies in Hampshire this evening and I only charge a blow job.

And people say chivalry is dead

*tips hat*"

*thief alert, Lib has stolen ma hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone around Colchester that needs a little kick start to getting their first veri.... I (Mr) am in Colchester until 3pm.

Have offered this before, just a social to help others on their way on here. "

What a good idea!

We might pinch that idea of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I alway's find this weird. "

Personally I'm not keen on the idea but I can see why others are.

Seems like a way to Fastrack the system....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly pros and cons, but I think on the whole, great idea! You can always look at the persons profile to see what you think, and if you think they're a wrong un, don't veri!

Perhaps there should be a thread of people willing to veri in there areas, there's a nice indie coffee shop near me, be happy to oblige. Any gender

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I alway's find this weird.

Personally I'm not keen on the idea but I can see why others are.

Seems like a way to Fastrack the system...."

To me it all seems a bit crazy to wait for someone else to verify someone before you meet them. Are we not adults on here can we not make up our own minds as to whether someone sounds sane enough to meet?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I alway's find this weird.

Personally I'm not keen on the idea but I can see why others are.

Seems like a way to Fastrack the system....

I never read verifications as I prefer to form my own opinion. I don't display mine as I prefer people to have their own opinion of me.

That being said I think this is a nice gesture as people do seem to prefer a verified profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I alway's find this weird.

Personally I'm not keen on the idea but I can see why others are.

Seems like a way to Fastrack the system....

I never read verifications as I prefer to form my own opinion. I don't display mine as I prefer people to have their own opinion of me.

That being said I think this is a nice gesture as people do seem to prefer a verified profile.

Unfortunately its still a vicious cycle that's difficult to break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I alway's find this weird.

Personally I'm not keen on the idea but I can see why others are.

Seems like a way to Fastrack the system....

I never read verifications as I prefer to form my own opinion. I don't display mine as I prefer people to have their own opinion of me.

That being said I think this is a nice gesture as people do seem to prefer a verified profile.

They do so i understand the reasoning behind.

However I know how I meet & the effort that goes into it on both sides to make it a success so I wouldn't feel comfortable verifying just anyone on a speed veri session in Starbucks.

Each to their own I guess.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm also available to help verify any attractive ladies in Hampshire this evening and I only charge a blow job.

And people say chivalry is dead

*tips hat*

*thief alert, Lib has stolen ma hat

Oi Lib, can I have ma hat back please

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