FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have racists in your family

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone have at least one !

It's mainly due to your upbringing and mass media as well.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Probably, but not the family I see often.

I don't do anything about it, because I don't spend any time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't and if I did than I wouldn't speak to that family member

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Yes..my bloody Mother - She is also homophobic, I challange her all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your definition of a racist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents dislike some ethnic groups but mostly because of how they behave where they live. Otherwise not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My parents dislike some ethnic groups but mostly because of how they behave where they live. Otherwise not."

I am sure some countries must dislike us due to how our governments behave abroad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you OP?"

No.. Even though my grandparents were attacked in the 50s. They still love everyone. So that's how it is with me and all my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the race card get used so many times now no wonder no one ever talks anymore oh and before anyone jumps on me I only belive in one race and that's the human race just like theres only one sex and that is what ever you want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ,people are people whatever their race or colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

Yes my Dad was a racist... He hated all British people...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Do you OP?

No.. Even though my grandparents were attacked in the 50s. They still love everyone. So that's how it is with me and all my family. "

The utopian family life huh.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

Yes my Dad was a racist... He hated all British people...

Was your dad British?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum's cousins are vaguely racist, as in "yay Britain First" and they share that kind of dumb memes on Facebook. I've unfollowed them so it doesn't bother me anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the race card get used so many times now no wonder no one ever talks anymore oh and before anyone jumps on me I only belive in one race and that's the human race just like theres only one sex and that is what ever you want to be

Thank you for your comment. I believe it's such a scary subject to talk about now, which is why there are major problems.

There is nothing wrong with having _iews and opinions.

I will disagree with you with the "race card" though.. 96% of the time.. When a black person crus for racism. It usually is.

You shouldn't take that personally. I'm only staying my _iews.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

No racists at all in my lot, grew up with an Indian best friend and my only real interest was coming home from school to go and play and learn some Hindi, which just made her extra cool! Although there weren't many non white people in my schools, there was never any consideration given to any of it, by anyone in the schools from what I could tell, in the same way eye colour or hair length was treated, it never mentioned outside of a descriptor that may be used at times. A very naive upbringing in that respect, I can still remember the first time I met someone who was out and out racist. A blind date, my jaw literally hit the floor and the ginger temper came out! Nowadays I will either challenge their ideas, or take the mick out of them for having such ridiculous notions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My step dad is.

When we all went on holiday when i was 17 to domincan republic, i took a black man back to the room and there was a door linked between the mine and there room. So we used there bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels? "

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me? "

Many different forms. From out and out racism, through to the Brexit vote for instance, I.e 'taking our country back' slogan which is aimed at anyone who wasn't born British

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will disagree with you with the "race card" though.. 96% of the time.. When a black person crus for racism. It usually is.

You shouldn't take that personally. I'm only staying my _iews. "

I take nothing personally as I know where I stand all humans should be treated the same no matter of race or religion but we all know we live in a world where that don't happen and I will stand by the race card thing as we se it on here all the time just saying no to someone can make someone play the race card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know of. And if there are they hide it well. Especially from my family who are different cultures/races etc. If I knew one was I'd disown them as people who are racist turn my stomach!

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By *hanchan74Woman
over a year ago

London

My mother says some inappropriate things about Asian people sometimes. I would say she has racist prejudices and stereotypes but wouldn't discriminate because of race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have, and I do absolutely nothing about it. Their life their _iews, I'm not going try to change them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes..my bloody Mother - She is also homophobic, I challange her all the time. "

Same here. I despair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so, I've never seen or heard anything to make me think that they are. But my mum doesn't like gingers, but I don't think they're a race lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week "

Hein ????? I am not a native english speaker but it doesn't make any sense to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mother says some inappropriate things about Asian people sometimes. I would say she has racist prejudices and stereotypes but wouldn't discriminate because of race."

Yeah my dad is like this. He's in his 70's so hardly likely to change now. My main worry was him making comments in front of my 11 year old son but not so much now because my boy challenges him and says he's not going to talk to him if he's just going to say stupid things. Then my dad sulks! Love my boy

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By *hanchan74Woman
over a year ago

London

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week "

Just a fact check on the all black colleges in America. There are historically black colleges where 75%+ are black. However what you need to remember is they were established during segregation when black people weren't permitted or when there were severe barriers into admitting blacks into colleges. They are established to give them the smae opportunity to learn and have remained after segregation was abolished as a symbol of the education they fought for. There didn't need to be all white colleges establised because they already exisited.

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By *hanchan74Woman
over a year ago

London

They are established to give them the smae opportunity to learn"

They *were established to give them the *same opportunity to learn.

Gosh clumsy sentence! Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. What do I do about it? Mostly I argue with them. Usually around Thanksgiving and Christmas eve.

Their attitudes are largely irrational, though, so there isn't much I can do. My aunt married into a family of which many are racists...when we are together during the holidays political discussions become almost like a sport of mockery. I couldn't even describe the level of racism without probably getting put on the naughty step.

There isn't really much to do about it, though. Most of the racists in my family are old, so their influence is waning.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea tbh.

My gran used to dislike the Japanese though because of what they did in the war though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have older family members who are but I dnt think there are many people under 70 who aren't racist. People dnt like to admit they have racists in family. Racism can be against anyone. I get realy annoyed at people who make comments about travellers and gypsys calling them pikes etc. When it's pointed out to them it's a racist comment they go on the defensive xx marie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have discovered racism in my family over the last couple of years, against eastern Europeans generally but particularly Romainians, tried to argue against it but failed. have now given up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm half white African, I have racists in my family.

Do I agree with them, NO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I do. What do I do about it? Mostly I argue with them. Usually around Thanksgiving and Christmas eve.

There isn't really much to do about it, though. Most of the racists in my family are old, so their influence is waning. "

You raise a good point, you can't really argue with a racist person enough to change their _iew. They have fixed mentality and it won't change, all you can do is hope the next generation is better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Ignore it

They aren't worth my breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

You have asked this several times today

You haven't answered your own question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Ignore it

They aren't worth my breath "

My niece is married to an Asian lad

My sisters husband won't have him in the house. Neither will he be in his company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

You have asked this several times today

You haven't answered your own question though

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he did, read the thread again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have discovered racism in my family over the last couple of years, against eastern Europeans generally but particularly Romainians, tried to argue against it but failed. have now given up.

Did you fail because that would not meet the definition of racisim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have racists in my family yes

When we first came to England we suffered racism, because of the way people treated us my dad hated most English people to the point he went back home

So tell me OP what am I supposed to do about his racisum

What do you think I should do?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

My mum is quite racist. When I was a toddler she forbade me to paddle in a local fountain if Asian kids were in there as they made the water dirty.

Another time my dad was taking me to the same park and asked if I wanted to go and have a paddle. He was shocked at what I had been taught.

My mum is still racist, though not the type to join the BNP or anything like that...she is prejudiced.

Oddly before she met my dad she was engaged to an Indian doctor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

You have asked this several times today

You haven't answered your own question though

he did, read the thread again lol"

I know I spotted it to late I'm sure he'll slate me for it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah most of the family have a black dog or cat that i see

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I don't have close relatives that are racist.

My mum is 80. One of the things I'm most proud of is that she will quietly but firmly put across the opposing _iew when her friends talk about immigration in a racist way.

She worked in the health service in the 1960s and talks fondly about the first wave of Asian doctors and nurses who came here and were brilliant at their jobs.

She's not naive and she does question things like the levels of immigration, but there's something very positive about seeing an older person who is open-minded, questioning and prepared to see differing _iewpoints.

I love her very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

Yes my Dad was a racist... He hated all British people...

Was your dad British?

Yes he was. He moved us to America when I was 8 but the funny thing was he kept his British accent in America. He hated British culture but never gave up the accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me?

Many different forms. From out and out racism, through to the Brexit vote for instance, I.e 'taking our country back' slogan which is aimed at anyone who wasn't born British"

I think there are differing levels too. My parents are what I would call generational racists, have their _iews but still embrace their neighbours & get on with them well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have discovered racism in my family over the last couple of years, against eastern Europeans generally but particularly Romainians, tried to argue against it but failed. have now given up.

Did you fail because that would not meet the definition of racisim?"

I failed to convince them that people are just people, most are OK some are great and some are arse holes, what race they are has nothing to do with it.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Yes..my bloody Mother - She is also homophobic, I challange her all the time.

Same here. I despair.

What is it with mothers? Mines the same. She is very vocal in her opinions but at 84 you could argue until the cows come home and she still wouldn't understand why what she is saying is wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

Yes My 82 yr old Mother in Law.

Do you op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my dad especially hates muslims. I don't talk to him anyway because of personal stuff between us. He's not as aggressive with racism as he is about homophobia though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's not personal coz he hates everyone. Probably himself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to my knowledge.

If they were then they are smart enough to shut their mouth and know their role.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"My mum is quite racist. When I was a toddler she forbade me to paddle in a local fountain if Asian kids were in there as they made the water dirty.

Another time my dad was taking me to the same park and asked if I wanted to go and have a paddle. He was shocked at what I had been taught.

My mum is still racist, though not the type to join the BNP or anything like that...she is prejudiced.

Oddly before she met my dad she was engaged to an Indian doctor."
maybe she had her own reason for being like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

Anita's grandma (who wouldn't approve of being discussed on a swinging site) is quite racist, at 94 I feel it's a bit late to do much about it though.

We have had to explain to her that the optician may look Indian, but he's got a Geordie accent and is probably 2nd or 3rd generation British.

Although we never support her _iews and try to educate her when possible, she was born and raised in different era and her experience over nearly a century have warped her _iews.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have discovered racism in my family over the last couple of years, against eastern Europeans generally but particularly Romainians, tried to argue against it but failed. have now given up.

Eastern Europeans are white European Caucasians . Same ax your family appear to be. Ergo it's not racist . If you are specifically referring to Romania. Roma then they are a different race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???"

I don't think ginger is a race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my brother on a viral facebook video harassing muslims on their way to the mosque. I suspect my parents are pretty proud of him for that.

We don't talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race"

We had this debate recently. It is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes..my bloody Mother - She is also homophobic, I challange her all the time.

Same here. I despair.

What is it with mothers? Mines the same. She is very vocal in her opinions but at 84 you could argue until the cows come home and she still wouldn't understand why what she is saying is wrong

I get what you're saying but to her it's not wrong, they simply weren't brought up in the same world we have today.

And tbh when you reach your 80's you're probably more concerned making sure you don't put yer hip out of place, taking your meds to stay alive than worrying about being non PC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is a little bit racist, doesn't matter if your white, black, brown or yellow it's natural, humans hate each other wether they're the same colour or not always have always will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. "

Ok I hate him then

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not since my grandmother died, lovely, wobbly little old racist.

One Xmas we were reminiscing about the war, pea soup fogs and I asked if she wanted to go back to Balham.

"Oh no dear, it's full of nignogs."

I'm. Like NAN, YOU CAN'T SAY THAT. And besides, it's full of twattish hipsters.

Speaking of which, when she had a hip op, to her horror the doctor was Indian.

I took her aside and said, do you want to get better? 'Cos this man is a trained professional here to help you

Be civil.

Daft bat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bit racist, doesn't matter if your white, black, brown or yellow it's natural, humans hate each other wether they're the same colour or not always have always will.

I'm not racist and know plenty that aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bit racist, doesn't matter if your white, black, brown or yellow it's natural, humans hate each other wether they're the same colour or not always have always will.

I'm very racist.. I hate black people

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

And the outlaws, but they're so dim they've not noticed their grandchild has a very foreign name.

Last time they went to Greece I asked about the weather.

"22-25degrees" they said.

Oh, says I, best pack some spare winter clothes.

"Why?"

For the refugees, I sweetly pointed out. Cue argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is a little bit racist, doesn't matter if your white, black, brown or yellow it's natural, humans hate each other wether they're the same colour or not always have always will.

I'm not racist and know plenty that aren't "

I would like to think I'm not racist either

Sure there are people of all nationalities I don't like but that comes down to them as individuals not because of where they come from or the colour of their skin

Im a district nurse and I go into all people, different colours, different religions, immigrants you name it if they need medical care I go into them and everybody get the same level of care and understanding from me

I can't say that everybody I go into feels the same about who cares for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have discovered racism in my family over the last couple of years, against eastern Europeans generally but particularly Romainians, tried to argue against it but failed. have now given up.

Eastern Europeans are white European Caucasians . Same ax your family appear to be. Ergo it's not racist . If you are specifically referring to Romania. Roma then they are a different race "

We are All One Race HUMAN with different Nationalities at the moment I'm British until I'm Renounced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had rats under my shed.

I smoked them out. I'd probably deal with racists in the family much the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. "
I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

There you go, I'm not racist I've fucked a few gingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not since my grandmother died, lovely, wobbly little old racist.

One Xmas we were reminiscing about the war, pea soup fogs and I asked if she wanted to go back to Balham.

"Oh no dear, it's full of nignogs."

I'm. Like NAN, YOU CAN'T SAY THAT. And besides, it's full of twattish hipsters.

Speaking of which, when she had a hip op, to her horror the doctor was Indian.

I took her aside and said, do you want to get better? 'Cos this man is a trained professional here to help you

Be civil.

Daft bat."

I bet she waited until you'd left and then went over to reception and asked the nice white girl "excuse me but would be a trouble for you if I could get treated by someone that isn't a nignog?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be racist is to believe you have superiority over another/all races.

Hitler was a racist..

Nowadays the term racist is thrown about without the sound knowledge of the definition, its more likely somebody dislikes an architype or particular group of people, im pretty confident everyone hates ISIS and there extremist _iews but doesnt dislike all muslims and there belief system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are All One Race HUMAN with different Nationalities at the moment I'm British until I'm Renounced

Pretty much said it perfectly there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

The irony of you making that statement is astounding

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Not since my grandmother died, lovely, wobbly little old racist.

One Xmas we were reminiscing about the war, pea soup fogs and I asked if she wanted to go back to Balham.

"Oh no dear, it's full of nignogs."

I'm. Like NAN, YOU CAN'T SAY THAT. And besides, it's full of twattish hipsters.

Speaking of which, when she had a hip op, to her horror the doctor was Indian.

I took her aside and said, do you want to get better? 'Cos this man is a trained professional here to help you

Be civil.

Daft bat.

I bet she waited until you'd left and then went over to reception and asked the nice white girl "excuse me but would be a trouble for you if I could get treated by someone that isn't a nignog?""

It's a pathetic slur anyway.

Wotless bludclutt might have suited her better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not since my grandmother died, lovely, wobbly little old racist.

One Xmas we were reminiscing about the war, pea soup fogs and I asked if she wanted to go back to Balham.

"Oh no dear, it's full of nignogs."

I'm. Like NAN, YOU CAN'T SAY THAT. And besides, it's full of twattish hipsters.

Speaking of which, when she had a hip op, to her horror the doctor was Indian.

I took her aside and said, do you want to get better? 'Cos this man is a trained professional here to help you

Be civil.

Daft bat.

I bet she waited until you'd left and then went over to reception and asked the nice white girl "excuse me but would be a trouble for you if I could get treated by someone that isn't a nignog?""

People laugh but it happens

I've had loads of Asian people refuse me access to their homes and call and ask for an Asian nurse

It's the NHS love you can't pick and choose what colour treats you ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

You PC Bro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

You PC Bro? "
oh I'm PC bro, I'll throw down

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bottom line, ignorant, stupid, mean arseholes come in every wonderful shape, size and colour devised.

Isn't variety a wonderful thing, children?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

You PC Bro? oh I'm PC bro, I'll throw down "

I hope you're not just using it as a way to crush puss

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By *heekyslagWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham

My dad is racist and homophobic. He thinks he's hilarious when he tells me his racist jokes.. it's always made me angry but my dad is set in his ways and hardly listens to me. It still angers me now but I've distanced myself from him a lot as I've grown up. My sister says I should just accept him as he is and get over it but I can't.

He's puts on a good face to his friends but he's not a genuinely nice person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

You PC Bro? oh I'm PC bro, I'll throw down

I hope you're not just using it as a way to crush puss "
what an offensive thing to say, I'm triggered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am not sure it classes as racist but my brother calls me a ginger fucker all the time so you tell me is it racist???

I don't think ginger is a race

We had this debate recently. It is. I'm gonna fight racism against gingers by sleeping with as many red heads as I can

You PC Bro? oh I'm PC bro, I'll throw down

I hope you're not just using it as a way to crush puss what an offensive thing to say, I'm triggered

My kids are. They openly talk of their hatred of having to watch Formula 1. I simply tell them they have to be tolerent of every race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and they know my _iews, they're older generation and not my immediate close family. They won't change but they're in the minority in my family.

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over a year ago

"My kids are. They openly talk of their hatred of having to watch Formula 1. I simply tell them they have to be tolerent of every race."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes my dad he's a fucking wanker. What do I do about it well obviously not just for that but I've not seen or spoke to him in over 20 years. in fact I've no idea nor care if he's still drawing breath

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Everyone is a little bit racist, doesn't matter if your white, black, brown or yellow it's natural, humans hate each other wether they're the same colour or not always have always will.

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If we had been Neanderthals we would probabily being going around with clubs hitting one another if not for hunting mammoths and shareing the meat together chuck politics, race, colour into the mix and you,ve got the lot... when are the clubs comeing out....

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't know if my mother's engagement to an Indian doctor resulted in her racism. I think more likely it was living near Bradford when immigrants started moving into Lumb Lane. She still talks about it. It was also my mother who taught me the phrase "paki shop". While walking around said establishment, I asked her "Mummy, why is it called the paki shop?" only to be told to shut up and receive a clip around the ear.

She's also pretty homophobic and thinks very bad jokes involving Freddie Mercury are the height of sophisticated humour.

I have no idea how my parents remained married for 38 years and am grateful I take more after my late father.

Interesting that a poster mentions foreign doctors and nurses in the NHS. My mother was a nurse in the NHS from 1965-1985, rising to ward sister and did have nothing but praise for the foreign docs and nurses...but she's still racist. When I married an American, one of her comments was "at least he didn't bring a black girl home".

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over a year ago

"Bottom line, ignorant, stupid, mean arseholes come in every wonderful shape, size and colour devised.

Isn't variety a wonderful thing, children?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Sometimes I make a generalised opinion concerning a particular group of people based on their culture and up-bringing. If that is classified as racist, then I am one.

What I noticed is the issue of racist is usually being brought up by those who are.

Just my honest opinion.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I am shocked and outraged at some close relatives in America and what they are saying about Muslims. My oldest son has come back to the UK in protest at their disgusting attitudes. Luckily we are in London, but I have told him, there are a growing number of people over here who feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

Yeah, I rarely speak to them or associate myself with them. Only at family get togethers, even then contact is minimal.

I don't blame them though, they're uneducated and brought up in an era when racism was more socially acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.

I don't talk to them anymore. I just treat the world as if they don't exist.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I make a generalised opinion concerning a particular group of people based on their culture and up-bringing. If that is classified as racist, then I am one.

What I noticed is the issue of racist is usually being brought up by those who are.

Just my honest opinion."

Unless you hate another race or believe to be superior to it, what you're describing is stereotyping.

So for example Polish people love vodka and are slowly invading the word by immigration . (I'm Polish by the way it's okay just a joke).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got news for everyone....all races can and are very racist at times.Even more so in private.

Very rare does a caucasion come on here and complain about racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most racists i know of are not white

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes I make a generalised opinion concerning a particular group of people based on their culture and up-bringing. If that is classified as racist, then I am one.

What I noticed is the issue of racist is usually being brought up by those who are.

Just my honest opinion.

Unless you hate another race or believe to be superior to it, what you're describing is stereotyping.

So for example Polish people love vodka and are slowly invading the word by immigration . (I'm Polish by the way it's okay just a joke)."

Thanks. Exactly.

But I did get accused of being racist for that particular reason.

When I see people get shot, I see him/her as someone who get shot - not the colour of his skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Playing the race card" is a phrase used by the dominant (white) society in order to silence the _iews of those who are non-caucasian. It is not a good phrase. In fact, it's a pretty racist thing to even believe that there is such a thing as a 'race card'.

Racism shouldn't be compared to a card game. It's not fun.

Usually phrases like 'they pulled the race card' are followed by phrases like 'I only believe in one race, that's the human race'. Being 'colour blind' is ignorant and is itself part of a racist ideology. It encourages the idea that non-caucasian people just have to work harder and help themselves, because otherwise they'd be equal now. It ignores the fact that non-caucasians have been repeatedly shit on by white people in the western world. Being 'blind' to colour or gender ignores the things that make people them. It ignores shared and divided histories and prevents people from truly being themselves when their heritage/gender is an important part of them.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Most racists i know of are not white

I'm not white but that is true to my observation as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive got news for everyone....all races can and are very racist at times.Even more so in private.

Very rare does a caucasion come on here and complain about racism."

Racism is the systematic oppression of a a group of people based on their skin colour and/or heritage.

White people aren't systematically oppressed in the vast majority of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I make a generalised opinion concerning a particular group of people based on their culture and up-bringing. If that is classified as racist, then I am one.

What I noticed is the issue of racist is usually being brought up by those who are.

Just my honest opinion.

Unless you hate another race or believe to be superior to it, what you're describing is stereotyping.

So for example Polish people love vodka and are slowly invading the word by immigration . (I'm Polish by the way it's okay just a joke)."

I thought it was the Russians who love vodka lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week "

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

We don't need all white universities, we already have them. But an all female programme or an all african-american programme could really help to give a leg up in areas where people struggle to break into cultures/careers dominated by male/white individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me?

Many different forms. From out and out racism, through to the Brexit vote for instance, I.e 'taking our country back' slogan which is aimed at anyone who wasn't born British

I think there are differing levels too. My parents are what I would call generational racists, have their _iews but still embrace their neighbours & get on with them well."

There's a better word for people like your parents. It's called 'hypocrites'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism shouldn't be compared to a card game. It's not fun.

To be honest I think there is as much racisum from none while people are there is white people

Racisum comes in all colours and any colour can 'play the race card'

I don't get why when racism is mentioned automatically its assumed its by white people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive got news for everyone....all races can and are very racist at times.Even more so in private.

Very rare does a caucasion come on here and complain about racism.

Racism is the systematic oppression of a a group of people based on their skin colour and/or heritage.

White people aren't systematically oppressed in the vast majority of the world."

I'm white English and hated by Some Scots ,the irish , the welsh ,French, Australians, Aficans, Indians,Muslims,chinese etc ....systematic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

I don't understand how positive discrimination is a solution to anything. You don't need special universities or schools to break through male/white dominated careers. For people with correct attitude there are no obstacles that can't be crossed.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

But did your university have an admission criteria based on your being white? I think that was the point being made.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ive got news for everyone....all races can and are very racist at times.Even more so in private.

Very rare does a caucasion come on here and complain about racism.

Racism is the systematic oppression of a a group of people based on their skin colour and/or heritage.

White people aren't systematically oppressed in the vast majority of the world."

noun

the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.

"theories of racism"

prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.

"a programme to combat racism"

synonyms: racial discrimination, racialism, racial prejudice/bigotry, xenophobia, chauvinism, bigotry, bias, intolerance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

If a place is excluding people based on race or gender how is the correct attitude gonna help them get anywhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

If a place is excluding people based on race or gender how is the correct attitude gonna help them get anywhere?"

I'm sure that is not the only place in the world. People travel the world to do what they want because it is not available to them where they live. I understand what you're trying to say but there's always another way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

If a place is excluding people based on race or gender how is the correct attitude gonna help them get anywhere?

we don't have financial equality. travelling is not always an option.

because we created all this mess we have to do things to correct it. it's gonna take ages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

If a place is excluding people based on race or gender how is the correct attitude gonna help them get anywhere?

we don't have financial equality. travelling is not always an option.

because we created all this mess we have to do things to correct it. it's gonna take ages though."
the earth will be sucked into a black hole before humans learn to live in perfect harmony lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just having a conversation about this with a neighbour who I think is a tad racist and he said do I think the mobo awards are racist I have no idea was my response are they ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just having a conversation about this with a neighbour who I think is a tad racist and he said do I think the mobo awards are racist I have no idea was my response are they ???"

Try having a white only award ceremony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont like the human race in general

so maybe its me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with a woman who's a terrible racist

Some of the things he says is just shocking

Sadly I have no choice but to work with her

You just can't change some people _iews no matter how hard you try and some people don't appreciate you trying

She's always making rude references to me, even managed to get a few voting in the EU and foreigners digs in when asking how i voted

Luckily I have thick skin

Sadly we just have to accept its how some people are

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I was just having a conversation about this with a neighbour who I think is a tad racist and he said do I think the mobo awards are racist I have no idea was my response are they ???

Try having a white only award ceremony.

Like the Oscars?!

Also, it's music of black origin, you don't have to be black to record music of black origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just having a conversation about this with a neighbour who I think is a tad racist and he said do I think the mobo awards are racist I have no idea was my response are they ???

Try having a white only award ceremony.

Like the Oscars?!

Also, it's music of black origin, you don't have to be black to record music of black origin. "
didn't ed sheeran win something one year?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What about the poor jews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. What I do is try to stay well away from them as much as possible,or tell them that my I don't want to listen to their pathetic bollocks and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the poor jews"
are the rich ones not important then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week

It's funny, because I went to a university that was basically all white. And most universities in this country are almost all white.

If a place is excluding people based on race or gender how is the correct attitude gonna help them get anywhere?

we don't have financial equality. travelling is not always an option.

because we created all this mess we have to do things to correct it. it's gonna take ages though. the earth will be sucked into a black hole before humans learn to live in perfect harmony lol"

yeah probably.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"What about the poor jews are the rich ones not important then?"
i dont find that funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My uncle was a shocking racist, but I will be fair.

He actually didn't like anyone, so I don't think it was just a race issue. More of a people issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fucking French are about to get to the final of Euro 2016

Is that racist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me?

Many different forms. From out and out racism, through to the Brexit vote for instance, I.e 'taking our country back' slogan which is aimed at anyone who wasn't born British

I think there are differing levels too. My parents are what I would call generational racists, have their _iews but still embrace their neighbours & get on with them well.

There's a better word for people like your parents. It's called 'hypocrites'."

I'm not so sure about this. In our country people are entitled to their own beliefs. What they are not entitled to do is discriminate against or abuse people based on their beliefs. So my dad has a very negative _iew of muslims, encouraged by the crap press he reads and his brothers who are pro britain-first. We may find his _iews abhorrent. We can and should challenge them. But what it comes down to is they are his _iews and he is entitled to have them. Would he abuse muslims or refuse to serve them in his shop? No because A. he can act civilised and B. It would be illegal. Hypocrisy? Maybe. But I guess that's why discrimination and hate crime laws exist.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "
yes my sisters fella, whos black and constantly put her down for being white,has no respect for her whats so ever,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. yes my sisters fella, whos black and constantly put her down for being white,has no respect for her whats so ever,"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the poor jews"

Don't get me started on the Jews the cause of all war them Rothschild

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm glad this post has got people being open and honest.

What frustrates me is when people stay stay silent about it. Conversation is good.

Everyone is entitled to their _iews... It becomes a problem when the _iews stop you from sitting next to someone, or giving somebody a job.

It seems from the responses that the racists in the family are all over 70... Although I believe the average age is 45.

At the same time , if you live outside of a city, then it's inevitable you will be racist because there are no other races around. I don't blame them.

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

My heart goes out to the white people that really feel bad about what is happening and are getting lumped in with the racists. It's up to you to talk up and stand out...

Or continue as normal..

Am I racist?

NO.. Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm glad this post has got people being open and honest.

What frustrates me is when people stay stay silent about it. Conversation is good.

Everyone is entitled to their _iews... It becomes a problem when the _iews stop you from sitting next to someone, or giving somebody a job.

It seems from the responses that the racists in the family are all over 70... Although I believe the average age is 45.

At the same time , if you live outside of a city, then it's inevitable you will be racist because there are no other races around. I don't blame them.

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

My heart goes out to the white people that really feel bad about what is happening and are getting lumped in with the racists. It's up to you to talk up and stand out...

Or continue as normal..

Am I racist?

NO.. Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you are talking about racism are you talking all forms? All levels?

How many different forms are there.

Enlighten me?

Many different forms. From out and out racism, through to the Brexit vote for instance, I.e 'taking our country back' slogan which is aimed at anyone who wasn't born British

I think there are differing levels too. My parents are what I would call generational racists, have their _iews but still embrace their neighbours & get on with them well.

There's a better word for people like your parents. It's called 'hypocrites'."

Yeah you're probably right they are....

You could also look at it another way as well, that they keep their opinions to themselves, are good neighbours & they get on with others.

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over a year ago

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

Self defence racism

Well that's a new one on me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I work with a woman who's a terrible racist

Some of the things he says is just shocking

Sadly I have no choice but to work with her

You just can't change some people _iews no matter how hard you try and some people don't appreciate you trying

She's always making rude references to me, even managed to get a few voting in the EU and foreigners digs in when asking how i voted

Luckily I have thick skin

Sadly we just have to accept its how some people are "

I work with some people who are disgustingly racist. Due to nobody speaking up.. I think everyone is in it

Together.

I suggest you confront that lady and get her out... That's a good deed

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

Self defence racism

Well that's a new one on me

It makes sense.. Just think about it. Do some research as to where racism came from in the first place.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

Self defence racism

Well that's a new one on me

It makes sense.. Just think about it. Do some research as to where racism came from in the first place. "

so we have to take it as penance for what our ancestors did? you are saying some racism is ok as long as it is in retaliation to what has one before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

My father is a racist. The only man I've ever heard say c@@n. He knows I think his racism is disgusting.

He's also a homophobic, sexist, you name it, knobhead.

I'm very close to telling him how much fun I've had having my arse fucked by a variety of men and How I came close to falling in love with a black guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There be saying next the shooting in the us of a blackman by a white policeman was racist.....oh wait. They allready have

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Herds of sheep flock together as do most humans of different race, nationality , gender or sexuality . So in my opinion we are all racist to some degree?

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Herds of sheep flock together as do most humans of different race, nationality , gender or sexuality . So in my opinion we are all racist to some degree?"

This could be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

Self defence racism

Well that's a new one on me

It makes sense.. Just think about it. Do some research as to where racism came from in the first place. "

Why are black people racist towards Asian people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Herds of sheep flock together as do most humans of different race, nationality , gender or sexuality . So in my opinion we are all racist to some degree?"

Not really. Not now we have airplanes,boats and trains. Living amongst people who speak your language and have your culture is a comfort zone thing not because people hate other races.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good.

There is racist everywhere

Whether it's against blacks white Asians

Gays lesbian anyone and everything

But it always seems to be the white person that gets it in the neck

Go to America there is all black colleges and university's

Go to a Muslim are there will be all Muslim schools and such like

If there was an all white one it would be closed down in a week "

Racism = Race

Gay = Sexuality.

Muslim = Religion.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

No. There are no racists in my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and there have been many arguments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

yes I do but they are of a different generation..

I'm not saying that is an excuse but as far as I am concerned whatever I say isn't going to make them change their mind...it's ingrained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it? "

All of my immediate family are UKIP voters and very casually racist (to certain degrees).

I've argued it all to the death with them and now we've just learnt to avoid certain subjects - our time together is short and not worth the hate it generated purely from different generational _iews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?"

Don't be fucking stupid.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?"

Of course it is. Didn't you know that everyone is equal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

All of my immediate family are UKIP voters and very casually racist (to certain degrees).

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid."

I think he means no

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Unfortunately a couple of the Older generation are somewhat xenophobic. Not "actively" racist the in that they don't necessarily hate individuals for their nationality But xenophobic in that they do make remarks about nationalities as a whole.

It does make me cringe but There isn't much I can say to them as I think it's a generational thing, a knee her reaction to the multicultural and racial changes in society over a number of years.

Luckily I think the younger generation are a lot more tolerant in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid."

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

My stepdads mum,after listening to her slagging asians I asked if she would like to see a photo of my fiancee,when I showed her a pic of my indian lady, she shut up

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racist well Diane Abbott of labour one of biggest in the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If so , what do u do about it?

Uncomfortable question to answer, but conversation is good. "

am I a racist because I had black and I went back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xenophobic well it seems it's okay for scots and Welsh too have a go at English and that's just banter.

But try saying something about the amount of Eastern European and that's wrong.

#justsaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?

No. "

So in your opinion it is acceptable to dislike someone based purely on their beliefs. Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghandi was horribly racist, but he won a peace prize, so - love or hate?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?

No.

So in your opinion it is acceptable to dislike someone based purely on their beliefs. Interesting."

If their beliefs are based on outdated and incorrect assumptions then yes, its perfectly fine to dislike them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?

No.

So in your opinion it is acceptable to dislike someone based purely on their beliefs. Interesting."

I might not necessarily dislike them as a person but gotta say someone being racist would put me off wanting to know them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be racist is to believe you have superiority over another/all races.

Hitler was a racist..

"
EXACTLY!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is disliking racists a form of prejudice?

Don't be fucking stupid.

I do not understand your anger as its a legitimate question. Aren't we meant to be tolerant of all people regardless of their beliefs?

No.

So in your opinion it is acceptable to dislike someone based purely on their beliefs. Interesting."

I'm a little bewildered by your thought process.

There is an intrinsic difference - you are entitled to an opinion, you aren't entitled to respect because of it.

How you can even think of disputing this is... unsurprising given the state of the UK and the world in general.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Racism against white people ONLY occurs due to what's happened in the past and still happening now daily, kind of like "self defence".

Self defence racism

Well that's a new one on me

It makes sense.. Just think about it. Do some research as to where racism came from in the first place.

so we have to take it as penance for what our ancestors did? you are saying some racism is ok as long as it is in retaliation to what has one before?"

What I am saying is... Most races dislike white people because of the things done and are still being done to to this day...

Also who're people turning a blind eye because it doesn't effect them.

Have you experienced racism before?

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