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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you still wear all the trapping gear underneath your clothes?

Or when you meet socially, is it just that and you dress just as you would if you were meeting anyone socially?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

God no... I shave my legs just in case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go prepared - i.e. shaved legs etc - but just wear "nice" underwear as opposed to anything toooo naughty - just in case xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm always dressed, geared and ready, as you never know what can happen, even if you're just out and about and someone gets your attention. If it's a social meet from here, then there's a likely higher chance that others are going to be open to some sexual fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear all the gear underneath for two reasons.

Firstly, just in case something does happen... I'd hate be caught out wearing my boring everyday underwear... not sexy!

Secondly, it makes me feel sexy... I like feeling that way in front of potential playmates x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol."

Always a good move never to play on the first meet but sometimes it just seems right to , the anticipation is always part of the overall experience ,unique way of denying yourself though if you don't have the will power .lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol.

Always a good move never to play on the first meet but sometimes it just seems right to , the anticipation is always part of the overall experience ,unique way of denying yourself though if you don't have the will power .lol "

Can I ask why you think it is never a good move to play on the first meet?

To the OP...yes, always go dressed for it, as if we all still want to after meeting, we normally play on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I could'nt hide my play gear under my normal clothes

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol.

Always a good move never to play on the first meet but sometimes it just seems right to , the anticipation is always part of the overall experience ,unique way of denying yourself though if you don't have the will power .lol

Can I ask why you think it is never a good move to play on the first meet?

To the OP...yes, always go dressed for it, as if we all still want to after meeting, we normally play on the first meet "

yep i like to take the pressure off a potential meet and give them time to mull it over.its a case "for me" of removing any pressure.however as i said sometimes the chemistry is so obvious and mutual then ,you both go for it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol.

Always a good move never to play on the first meet but sometimes it just seems right to , the anticipation is always part of the overall experience ,unique way of denying yourself though if you don't have the will power .lol

Can I ask why you think it is never a good move to play on the first meet?

To the OP...yes, always go dressed for it, as if we all still want to after meeting, we normally play on the first meet

yep i like to take the pressure off a potential meet and give them time to mull it over.its a case "for me" of removing any pressure.however as i said sometimes the chemistry is so obvious and mutual then ,you both go for it "

Ah, so what you mean is " for you" it is never a good idea to play on a first meet

I can understand the pressure thing and half agree but......we have a deal with our meets that either party can walk away no questions asked if neither party want to go through with it, so it takes the pressure away a bit.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I could'nt hide my play gear under my normal clothes

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Yeah but those clown outfits are not easily hidden are they, especially the nose

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I could'nt hide my play gear under my normal clothes

Yeah but those clown outfits are not easily hidden are they, especially the nose "

They do get an idea though when I turn up in my car and the doors fall off as I pull up

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i did then when i first started meeting people, they turned up casual but smartish, so now i dont

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I like the time between meeting socially and then meeting to play, so wear normal day to day wear....that way there is no chance in hell, even if I wanted to drag them kicking and screaming to the bedroom it is going to happen. lol.

Always a good move never to play on the first meet but sometimes it just seems right to , the anticipation is always part of the overall experience ,unique way of denying yourself though if you don't have the will power .lol

Can I ask why you think it is never a good move to play on the first meet?

To the OP...yes, always go dressed for it, as if we all still want to after meeting, we normally play on the first meet

yep i like to take the pressure off a potential meet and give them time to mull it over.its a case "for me" of removing any pressure.however as i said sometimes the chemistry is so obvious and mutual then ,you both go for it

Ah, so what you mean is " for you" it is never a good idea to play on a first meet

I can understand the pressure thing and half agree but......we have a deal with our meets that either party can walk away no questions asked if neither party want to go through with it, so it takes the pressure away a bit."

yes i see that, i just adopt a different mindset and say either come over for ,or lets go for a chinky and a chat ,it tends to put fems at ease.

i find as there is no "expectation" they are relsxed, i am relaxed as i am not worried they are nervous and therefore i am not over compensating to put em at ease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

I always have a social meet during my lunch hour or straight after work. I don't meet in hotels, car parks, on top of grassy knolls etc so it would be pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could'nt hide my play gear under my normal clothes

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You mean the old yo-yo knickers can't hide themselves hee hee ..

I'm always commando anyway except for at hatches, matches and despatches so unless I've arranged a first meet at a wedding, funeral or christening I'm always ready to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I could'nt hide my play gear under my normal clothes

You mean the old yo-yo knickers can't hide themselves hee hee ..

I'm always commando anyway except for at hatches, matches and despatches so unless I've arranged a first meet at a wedding, funeral or christening I'm always ready to go! "

Cheeky fooker!

Those yo yo knickers cost a fortune,they snap back up so quick they'll have your hand off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheeky fooker!

Those yo yo knickers cost a fortune,they snap back up so quick they'll have your hand off"

Like a Venus Fly Trap ~ beware all who enter!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i normally meet social on first meet as not always attracted to play with them and for single fems it is advisable to meet socially for a first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prepared cos yer never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never divulge. I never answer on the who would you what would you would you threads either. Nor the do you like xyz threads.

It's all the one clan here and i NEVER forewarn a vict..... i mean potential meet.

So SaintlyKnightly to say 'fems' are put at ease. Imagine the trembling soon to be mustarded assholes of males that Sassy meets ... ( she will comment im sure )

I always put males at ease by saying ..... 'it's a social meet first' Shame they can't see me winking ( not a typo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't play on first meet so wear bridget jones's and woolly tights and a vest, and uggs......just in case either of us are tempted..... too too kinky to show that gear on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOl I always have shaved legs and nice matching underwear.... all day, everyday! Well, I never know when I'm gonna "get lucky", on my way to a social-only meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never divulge. I never answer on the who would you what would you would you threads either. Nor the do you like xyz threads.

It's all the one clan here and i NEVER forewarn a vict..... i mean potential meet.

So SaintlyKnightly to say 'fems' are put at ease. Imagine the trembling soon to be mustarded assholes of males that Sassy meets ... ( she will comment im sure )

I always put males at ease by saying ..... 'it's a social meet first' Shame they can't see me winking ( not a typo) "

Tee hee...oh Granny, indeed, I'm always as cool as a cool thing that's cool and as at ease as an easy chair...my potential playmates, buttocks clenched - well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the venue for a social meet allows peeps to dress up or down, then I would do so, and that usually means squeezing myself into a corset or fancy dress etc...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

If its just asocial meet, I never prepare "Just in case". I've found in the past some to be judgemental with that "Oh, so you're hoping something happens when we've agreed just a drink have you?" and ultimately blown my chances.

That way if nothing happens, I'm not disappointed, and if they wanted more then they could have said so in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this is easier for M than F anyway?

Always wear nice pants cos as Mum says " You never know when you're gonna get run over by a bus?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do 'just social meet'

Thats not to say i shag everyone i meet lol

I always meet new people for a drink first to see if we like each other, but i meet on the understanding that if we do like each other we will play that night, if not we go home, i see no point in meeting someone and going home to arrange play another time if you get on, there for i always go dressed to play just incase lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Easiest way to meet "socially" is at a social. That way everyone can walk away with their dignity intact if no chemistry, or take the plunge if in agreement.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Easiest way to meet "socially" is at a social. That way everyone can walk away with their dignity intact if no chemistry, or take the plunge if in agreement."

defo agree with that

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Easiest way to meet "socially" is at a social. That way everyone can walk away with their dignity intact if no chemistry, or take the plunge if in agreement.

defo agree with that"

agreed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont meet socially, they always come to my house, i have spoken to them until i feel comfortable. Ive seen photo's and by getting to know them via msn and phone have an idea of their personality. The only thing that would stop me playing is poor hygene but thankfully ive never met such person.

If however, i was to do a social meet i would still have nice underwear on as that is what i would wear for any social meet.

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