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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestly just a simple question what do you see in guys?.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Do you mean what attracts us? How we decide which men we're interested in? Just on here or in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean what attracts us? How we decide which men we're interested in? Just on here or in general?"

Turns out it wasn't a simple question after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always wonder ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The exact same thing men see in women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny

Bit of a bad boy

Kind

Generous

Beautiful

Nice teeth

Can hold a conversation

Thinks I'm a goddess

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Do you mean what attracts us? How we decide which men we're interested in? Just on here or in general?

Turns out it wasn't a simple question after all "

Well most of us are generically designed to like men. At least some men. I doubt that was the answer wanted though!

What attracts me here and what attracts me off here can be very different. I need to know what I'm answering or the answer won't help.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm opaque

Nothing to see here, move along

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The exact same thing men see in women?

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Probably not. I think men and women have different priorities, even where NSA sex is concerned.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm opaque

Nothing to see here, move along"

What makes you think we're looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good question OP.

The way my mind works and my interpretation of attractiveness I do that typical man thing and think 'if I was a woman I'd be a lesbian'

But I guess that's just my biology - I see ladies swooning over some guys and think 'No. Just can't see it. What DO they like about them?'

For some men I can see why they're popular. Beckham for example - or Tom Hiddlestone. But for most - well, no.

Just as well we all like different things hey?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sometimes see lists of qualities that women like in men and I get about 3 out of 20.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's a good question OP.

The way my mind works and my interpretation of attractiveness I do that typical man thing and think 'if I was a woman I'd be a lesbian'

But I guess that's just my biology - I see ladies swooning over some guys and think 'No. Just can't see it. What DO they like about them?'

For some men I can see why they're popular. Beckham for example - or Tom Hiddlestone. But for most - well, no.

Just as well we all like different things hey? "

This is a man thing, thinking it's all about looks.

Sometimes it is but often there is far more to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly just a simple question what do you see in guys?.

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Height body type face to start then charm conversation and giggles get me to meet

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"It's a good question OP.

The way my mind works and my interpretation of attractiveness I do that typical man thing and think 'if I was a woman I'd be a lesbian'

But I guess that's just my biology - I see ladies swooning over some guys and think 'No. Just can't see it. What DO they like about them?'

For some men I can see why they're popular. Beckham for example - or Tom Hiddlestone. But for most - well, no.

Just as well we all like different things hey? "

There is a big lesbian joke in there somewhere but don't look at me to say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The all-round package for me . Not just one thing

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I like the way some men smell, the smell of their skin makes me horny and the way their skin feels to touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met men that I wouldn't class as good looking but they still have that charm and just something about them.

But generally I want somebody who can hold a conversation, not fat, has a job, has dreams and ambitions, looks ok, and makes me feel like the most important thing in their world as though they would do absolutely anything for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a well turned out, distinguished guy.

Good manners, that smell of freshly showered, and fresh smell.

Can hold a good and intelligent conversation, and who is kind and respectful.

Then when in play, are not afraid to have their fill, and when back dressed, the gentleman again

(I also like tall guy's )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience there is no 'one size fits all' guide to what ladies like. There is a more general, toned, handsome, funny, etc look that many like, but there are others that like different looks. The only one rule seems to be confidence

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Honestly just a simple question what do you see in guys?.

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A dustbin putter outer lol joking guys luv u really

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Honestly just a simple question what do you see in guys?.

A dustbin putter outer lol joking guys luv u really "

Did you used to live in Essex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming the guy is tall and not overweight, first I see their face then I like to see their penis. If I dig deeper and am really honest, the guys I end up liking are arrogant and unobtainable!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Funny, the OP's question just didn't make me think of 'What do you find attractive?' which most everyone has answered.....

'What I see in men' I would answer as more a vibe, a soul connection, a potential playmate in every sense of the word.......there is just something about interacting with the male vibe that excites, thrills and fulfills me in a way that interacting with women, even good friends, never can. Nearly all my friends are guys anyway.

Plus sometimes their bodies drive me wild with lust.....

I was watching the Coldplay video from Glastonbury and I could not take my eyes off Chris Martins shoulders, I just wanted to touch him haha! But someone like Tom Hardy for instance, it's all about the vibe not the body at all, that vibe is just utterly mesmerising, I just want to connect with it, get totally lost in it........

Oh where IS my 24/7 primal dom???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a good question OP.

The way my mind works and my interpretation of attractiveness I do that typical man thing and think 'if I was a woman I'd be a lesbian'

But I guess that's just my biology - I see ladies swooning over some guys and think 'No. Just can't see it. What DO they like about them?'

For some men I can see why they're popular. Beckham for example - or Tom Hiddlestone. But for most - well, no.

Just as well we all like different things hey?

This is a man thing, thinking it's all about looks.

Sometimes it is but often there is far more to it."

Oh yes, I know that for sure. Likewise with what I find attractive in women. I didn't articulate that very well I know.

But even with 'the whole package' I still often can't see what the attraction is. Even with my other half liking me for example. I don't get it but then I guess I'm not programmed to be attracted to men. Just the way we're wired I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of it is in the dna and pheromones apparently. If I woman smells a guy that is genetically compatible she's going to be attracted to him whether he is her usual type or not.

Of course that is of no help at all on a site like this unless they introduce scratch and sniff

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have an aura about them. Some I'm attracted to,some I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not women, as a heterosexual female that's all good in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for sex? good looking, fun, unselfish.

for more? good looking, fun, unselfish, interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks wise

Tall, broad, hairy chest, beard, tattoos, good thighs, nice teeth

Personality wise

Dominant, funny, happy, outgoing, kinky, ambitious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy is shorter than me, I won't even get past the starting block.

After I've measured him to make sure he's to my exact specifications, a cheeky smile and nice eyes.

I like strong arms, someone who could pick me up and give me a lassive cwtch!

But personality matters a lot. There has to be lots of banter and sarcasm, I can definitely be laughed into bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my men to have big strong ARMS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny, the OP's question just didn't make me think of 'What do you find attractive?' which most everyone has answered.....

'What I see in men' I would answer as more a vibe, a soul connection, a potential playmate in every sense of the word.......there is just something about interacting with the male vibe that excites, thrills and fulfills me in a way that interacting with women, even good friends, never can. Nearly all my friends are guys anyway.

Plus sometimes their bodies drive me wild with lust.....

I was watching the Coldplay video from Glastonbury and I could not take my eyes off Chris Martins shoulders, I just wanted to touch him haha! But someone like Tom Hardy for instance, it's all about the vibe not the body at all, that vibe is just utterly mesmerising, I just want to connect with it, get totally lost in it........

Oh where IS my 24/7 primal dom??? "

LOL a wonder the vibe ? it has to be

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