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"Was the character Victor Meldrew based on you OP?" Pmsl | |||
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" a civic amenity centre . " Isn't that where they hold the weight watchers classes, should have told her to use the tip instead (hope there was some serious finger wagging too) | |||
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"I was hoping that the thread title was some distasteful metaphor, disappointed... " Married but cheating | |||
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"I was hoping that the thread title was some distasteful metaphor, disappointed... Married but cheating " | |||
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"I live in New York City dumping in someone's garbage is a sign of respect Op I live next to a bar.. I wonder what you would do if you saw people having sex in the alley " Install hi Def cameras and sell the films online | |||
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"I live in New York City dumping in someone's garbage is a sign of respect Op I live next to a bar.. I wonder what you would do if you saw people having sex in the alley Install hi Def cameras and sell the films online " I like that | |||
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"I was checking the oil and water on my car when I noticed a lady walking down the road with a can of paint and some cardboard in her hand . This was subsequently dumped in a skip belonging to a builder . On the second occasion I followed her to the skip and without me saying a word she tried to justify her actions by stating that it was a commercial skip hired by a builder and that she would never dream of doing it to one hired by a private individual.id. Is this your chat up line pmsl While not wishing to get involved in an argument with her , I did politely advise that I considered her actions to be unfair and that there was no reason why she could not have taken the items to the council tip in her car . She appeared to further attempt to justify her actions by stating that everyone was doing it Personally I consider dumping rubbish in a skip that does not belong to you as bring no different to theft . In the past I have paid for three skips to remove fly topped rubbish from the neighbourhood and have no sympathy for those who are too bone idle to take their rubbish to a civic amenity centre . One one occasion I watched a taXi driver fly trip an ironing board and other rubbish behind a wall.After seeing me staring at him , he threatened to cut my ear of. He was of course all talk and no action. I still have my ear . No one should ever feel embarrassed about either reporting or taking action against a fly tipper . " | |||
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"I was checking the oil and water on my car when I noticed a lady walking down the road with a can of paint and some cardboard in her hand . This was subsequently dumped in a skip belonging to a builder . On the second occasion I followed her to the skip and without me saying a word she tried to justify her actions by stating that it was a commercial skip hired by a builder and that she would never dream of doing it to one hired by a private individual.id. Is this your chat up line pmsl While not wishing to get involved in an argument with her , I did politely advise that I considered her actions to be unfair and that there was no reason why she could not have taken the items to the council tip in her car . She appeared to further attempt to justify her actions by stating that everyone was doing it Personally I consider dumping rubbish in a skip that does not belong to you as bring no different to theft . In the past I have paid for three skips to remove fly topped rubbish from the neighbourhood and have no sympathy for those who are too bone idle to take their rubbish to a civic amenity centre . One one occasion I watched a taXi driver fly trip an ironing board and other rubbish behind a wall.After seeing me staring at him , he threatened to cut my ear of. He was of course all talk and no action. I still have my ear . No one should ever feel embarrassed about either reporting or taking action against a fly tipper . " | |||
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"I was checking the oil and water on my car when I noticed a lady walking down the road with a can of paint and some cardboard in her hand . This was subsequently dumped in a skip belonging to a builder . On the second occasion I followed her to the skip and without me saying a word she tried to justify her actions by stating that it was a commercial skip hired by a builder and that she would never dream of doing it to one hired by a private individual.id.Is this your chat up line While not wishing to get involved in an argument with her , I did politely advise that I considered her actions to be unfair and that there was no reason why she could not have taken the items to the council tip in her car . She appeared to further attempt to justify her actions by stating that everyone was doing it Personally I consider dumping rubbish in a skip that does not belong to you as bring no different to theft . In the past I have paid for three skips to remove fly topped rubbish from the neighbourhood and have no sympathy for those who are too bone idle to take their rubbish to a civic amenity centre . One one occasion I watched a taXi driver fly trip an ironing board and other rubbish behind a wall.After seeing me staring at him , he threatened to cut my ear of. He was of course all talk and no action. I still have my ear . No one should ever feel embarrassed about either reporting or taking action against a fly tipper . " | |||
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"If it's not your skip then it's none of your business....nosy fucker " Exactly this. Op sticking their neb in...and following people to confront them is frankly weird. | |||
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"Perhaps if Councils went back to emptying household bins once a week people would not need to dump their rubbish" Ours are collected every week. Then again our council is run by a local independent association. You don't HAVE to vote for the main parties. | |||
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"If it's not your skip then it's none of your business....nosy fucker Exactly this. Op sticking their neb in...and following people to confront them is frankly weird." I did not confront her. She starting trying to justify her actions before I even spoke. | |||
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"If it's not your skip then it's none of your business....nosy fucker Exactly this. Op sticking their neb in...and following people to confront them is frankly weird." I prefer to keep the neighbour where I live clean and tidy and that includes moving verges or picking up rubbish . If we all decided it was none of our business the whole system of law and order would fall down. | |||
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"Was the character Victor Meldrew based on you OP?" I prefer to keep the neighbour hood clean and tidy . Having spent about £800 pounds removing fly tipped rubbish , those who choose not to use the council re cycling centres get no sympathy from me . | |||
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"If it's not your skip then it's none of your business....nosy fucker Exactly this. Op sticking their neb in...and following people to confront them is frankly weird. I prefer to keep the neighbour where I live clean and tidy and that includes moving verges or picking up rubbish . If we all decided it was none of our business the whole system of law and order would fall down." The whole system of law and order would fall down?? It's only a skip mate, some perspective is needed I think | |||
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"its a funny coincidence but we watched our neighbour putting rubbish in a builders skip this morning While I agree that it isn't fair to use a skip that someone else has paid for and that fly tipping is a huge problem I would advise against following women to remonstrate with them." She was neighbour and spoke to me first in an attempt to justify her actions without me saying a word . | |||
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"its a funny coincidence but we watched our neighbour putting rubbish in a builders skip this morning While I agree that it isn't fair to use a skip that someone else has paid for and that fly tipping is a huge problem I would advise against following women to remonstrate with them. She was neighbour and spoke to me first in an attempt to justify her actions without me saying a word . " But if she hadn't you clearly were going to challenge her weren't you? | |||
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"Personally speaking as a builder what gives anyone the right to throw their rubbish in a skip I have paid for without my consent I spend thousands of pounds a year on skips on jobs and frankly I get fed up of people fly tipping there rubbish at my expense it may seem petty but over the course of a year it can add up quite considerably especially when most of the time I they were just to ask me if it was ok to put something in id probably turn round and say yeah sure no problem. Dont take the piss people ask first " "Like" | |||
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"OP at the point you decided to follow this woman and get all self-righteous and challenge her, how did you know she hadn't asked the skip owner and they'd agreed it was fine for her to use it?" That's a good point as I've let a friend use mine who lives a couple of streets away. Glad she wasn't followed with her pieces of carpet. Anyone seen Miss Marple? | |||
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"My housing association hires a skip every bank holiday weekend for the estate I live on. It fills up in an afternoon. " That's great,there used to be one near my mum once a month as well until they stopped | |||
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"All you people having a go at Pat, if it was your skip that you had paid, wouldn't you want someone to challenge them? What if it had been a mattress or old sofa? I think the op did the right thing. " I was joking with him. I have skip like sense of humour | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want?" I hope you are joking... | |||
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"Putting stuff in other people's skips is theft... Taking stuff out of other people's skips is also theft... Technically either could see you in court..." How can it be theft if your giving them something for nothing | |||
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"Putting stuff in other people's skips is theft... Taking stuff out of other people's skips is also theft... Technically either could see you in court... How can it be theft if your giving them something for nothing " Maybe you're stealing their space in the skip and denying them the opportunity to fill it themselves. | |||
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"Putting stuff in other people's skips is theft... Taking stuff out of other people's skips is also theft... Technically either could see you in court... How can it be theft if your giving them something for nothing Maybe you're stealing their space in the skip and denying them the opportunity to fill it themselves. " If you put stuff in the skip, you are stealing space... If you take stuff out, you are stealing the property of the skip company... | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want? I hope you are joking..." No, I'm not joking. People saying taking things OUT of the skip is theft but if it's stuff you're throwing away and don't want, why would anyone care if someone else took it and made use of it? | |||
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"Personally speaking as a builder what gives anyone the right to throw their rubbish in a skip I have paid for without my consent I spend thousands of pounds a year on skips on jobs and frankly I get fed up of people fly tipping there rubbish at my expense it may seem petty but over the course of a year it can add up quite considerably especially when most of the time I they were just to ask me if it was ok to put something in id probably turn round and say yeah sure no problem. Dont take the piss people ask first " Couldn't agree more. Skips are expensive. It is tantamount to taking money out of someones pocket. Working for a small builder I was ouside the site when an old guy pulled over and opened the back of his car. He got out a cut up roll of carpet and put it on our skip without saying a word. As he walked back to get more rubbish I took it off the top of the skip, walked past him and put it back in his car for him. Out of kindness I then gave him directions to the local amenity centre where he could dump it for free. Ungrateful bastard didn't even say thankyou. Yet if he'd asked I would have said yes and helped him. | |||
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"I caught two guys with a van taking the stuff out of my skip at 5am, I opened my bedroom & asked them nicely to put it back when they didn't I shouted 'put my shit back (couldn't think of another word!) & get off my land' A little over dramatic but I didn't like the idea of them sneaking around, had they knocked & asked like others did later then they could have taken the lot." Wowsers .... What were you putting in thru skip? Your old diamond-encrusted bathroom suite? | |||
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" If we all decided it was none of our business the whole system of law and order would fall down." You stick to your guns Pat, might only be a bit of cardboard today but it's the slippery slope to a 2CV tomorrow. Incidentally just how long were you poised waiting for someone to stroll by? | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want? I hope you are joking... No, I'm not joking. People saying taking things OUT of the skip is theft but if it's stuff you're throwing away and don't want, why would anyone care if someone else took it and made use of it? " Many skip companies make money out of recycling a percentage of the stuff thrown into the skip... | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want? I hope you are joking... No, I'm not joking. People saying taking things OUT of the skip is theft but if it's stuff you're throwing away and don't want, why would anyone care if someone else took it and made use of it? Many skip companies make money out of recycling a percentage of the stuff thrown into the skip..." my ex used to search skips - i used to walk on and leave him to it - but he did get a huge scooter for the kids - a longer length hedge cutter that needed a new switch - and countless bits of wood that i guess he will still have | |||
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"She probably had knitting needles too...you know what these types are like " One of the best threads ever to grace the forums | |||
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"Perhaps if Councils went back to emptying household bins once a week people would not need to dump their rubbish" | |||
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"I was checking the oil and water on my car when I noticed a lady walking down the road with a can of paint and some cardboard in her hand . This was subsequently dumped in a skip belonging to a builder . On the second occasion I followed her to the skip and without me saying a word she tried to justify her actions by stating that it was a commercial skip hired by a builder and that she would never dream of doing it to one hired by a private individual. While not wishing to get involved in an argument with her , I did politely advise that I considered her actions to be unfair and that there was no reason why she could not have taken the items to the council tip in her car . She appeared to further attempt to justify her actions by stating that everyone was doing it Personally I consider dumping rubbish in a skip that does not belong to you as bring no different to theft . In the past I have paid for three skips to remove fly topped rubbish from the neighbourhood and have no sympathy for those who are too bone idle to take their rubbish to a civic amenity centre . One one occasion I watched a taXi driver fly trip an ironing board and other rubbish behind a wall.After seeing me staring at him , he threatened to cut my ear of. He was of course all talk and no action. I still have my ear . No one should ever feel embarrassed about either reporting or taking action against a fly tipper . " Not sure where I stand on the 'small items in someone elses skip' issue,,,on one hand it is tantamount to theft but a skip is just left out in public,,,,anything unattended is likely to be abused or nicked (what would you expect) but,,,,,,on the more serious subjects of littering and fly tipping,,,if they ever bring back capital punishment,I would like to see those two crimes against humanity added to the list of things that will lead to someones neck being stretched. I hate litter,,,,I really, really hate it. (you may have gathered). | |||
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"I'd rather they used a random skip than a hedgerow or field gate" I would rather they used their bin or their own skip | |||
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"We've had a skip for almost a week now , outside our house . We filled it up with what we wanted to get rid of over the weekend , and on Monday morning it was clear a lot of the crap had been taken . Happy days ! So we cleared the shed , and the next day - more had been removed . So we cleared the garage of crap we weren't gonna need . And yes , next day still more had gone including the old lawnmower we put in which hadn't worked for a few years . So we still have space , but no more crap . Put a sign on it saying anyone wanna fill it , feel free . It goes tomorrow morning and there's still room as more seems to be taken than put in ! Funny old world isn't it ? " Do you think it was the gypsy's? | |||
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"OP at the point you decided to follow this woman and get all self-righteous and challenge her, how did you know she hadn't asked the skip owner and they'd agreed it was fine for her to use it?" I was uncertain as to whether I should challenge her but as she spoke without me saying a word the issue did not arise but one that I was aware of | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want?" Yes but you still be prosecuted for taking it as it does not belong to you. Items in a skip might be packed in a certain manner to maximise use , I am fairly certain that those rifling through them do not repack them with this thought in mind . | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want?" not if you paid to hire it, paid for the permit to have it there and someone else thinks theyre justified in using it without asking. | |||
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"I'm confused. Isn't a skip used to put rubbish in that you don't want?not if you paid to hire it, paid for the permit to have it there and someone else thinks theyre justified in using it without asking. " I was asking more about people taking stuff from the skip rather than putting stuff in it. | |||
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"Putting stuff in other people's skips is theft... Taking stuff out of other people's skips is also theft... Technically either could see you in court..." It's not actually, taking stuff out of a skip is theft but not putting stuff in one. Although I think it should be, I wrote about this as part of my training years ago, in order for it to be theft you have to dishonestly appropriate property belonging to another with the intention of permanently depriving the other of it. My argument was that as you had paid for an empty skip so you could fill it with your rubbish then the space in that skip ought to be classed as property as ultimately that's what you had paid for. As it stands tho it isn't theft to put stuff in someone else's skip I'm afraid. | |||
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"I'd rather they used a random skip than a hedgerow or field gate I would rather they used their bin or their own skip " Yes so would we! | |||
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