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An early rant.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding it a wee bit tough on here just now and whilst I know it's only a sex site sometimes it's difficult to understand such nastiness.

In the past 24hrs I have received a stroppy message, an abusive message and someone suggesting I was racist, whilst calling me 'colourless'! All these resulted in me getting blocked and unable to respond.

My profile is tongue in cheek but also very clear about what I'm looking for so I'm unsure why guys contact me if for example they can't accommodate, are married or live in Timbuktu etc etc. If I'm not attracted to someone, why be mean to me when I say 'thanks but no thanks' There will be many many guys not attracted to me but that's life. If someone suggests they have a really important job so they are nervous about sending a face pic but they would like to see mine, is that reasonable? If I didn't want to meet you 1 or 2 years ago, why would I want to now?

I've been on and off fab for many years now and met some truly amazing guys, some of which are friends now but I am sadden by the lack of manners and respect people show towards others.

A few hours ahead of rant Thursday - sorry - but I felt the need as its not something I can discuss with the girlies at work is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read, laugh and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, your pics are black and white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people cannot read or take note of your profile requirements just ignore

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am on here for my fun and fantasies, no-one elses. When it starts getting to me and making me angry I know its time to hide my profile and take a break. I come back refreshed and with hopefully some new victim....err....prospective meets.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore anyone who doesn't meet your criteria. Only you choose who gets to have sex with you. Block anyone with no guilt on your part. If people act like tossers, just block and forget.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Well, your pics are black and white "

Are you pissed, there's only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, your pics are black and white

Are you pissed, there's only one "
her profile pic and the other one, that's two

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am on here for my fun and fantasies, no-one elses. When it starts getting to me and making me angry I know its time to hide my profile and take a break. I come back refreshed and with hopefully some new victim....err....prospective meets. "

That sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore anyone who doesn't meet your criteria. Only you choose who gets to have sex with you. Block anyone with no guilt on your part. If people act like tossers, just block and forget. "

Thanks Steve, as a lurker I giggle at many of your posts and so often agree with advice you offer to others x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

More monochromatic than colourless

It's not nice but rudeness is a good filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, your pics are black and white "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it block and move on god forbid we have lives outside of fab x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Well, your pics are black and white

Are you pissed, there's only one her profile pic and the other one, that's two"

Ok, I'll give you that

I like tasteful pics and b&w seems to express that to me.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like your profile and if guys can't understand it, it's their loss.

Great legs too.

I had a similar experience too. It does piss you off when it happens though.

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