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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are your thoughts on profiles that have a lot of do's and don'ts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good idea, you are more likely to get what you want

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

They are just an extension of the interests really so not a problem having them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What are your thoughts on profiles that have a lot of do's and don'ts?

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i like to know what people are looking for so a few ill read, a 'lot' signifies drama to me, so i avoid x

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

It makes no difference ... I only lookat the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the tone of the profile, if it's getting ranty then it's a big no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't appeal to me but if they do the job then i wouldn't worry what others think. Many are against lazy people who can't be bothered to fill their profile out. It works for me though. We all have our own way and style of doing things...it's what attracts some (and repels others)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of them but at the same time understand why some do have profiles like that.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

If you don't ask you don't get. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why people have them but they always seem a bit negative and off-putting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how the do's and don'ts are written. Some profiles look really good while others are off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's not ranty, then I'm generally ok with it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't usually fit their target audience anyway. Being bisexual shuts many doors, being married shuts even more, being unable to accommodate shuts a lot more. I'm usually a non starter before the list even starts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes no difference ... I only lookat the pics "

Yes then I send a fancy a fuck message with a few cock pics. Who has time to read a profile?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Depends on how it is written and whether it is balanced out by the 'looking for' section

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

They can crack on with their thing and I'll crack on with mine. It doesn't affect me other than to act as a quick 'avoid' filter on the really ranty ones. In which case it's possibly useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like the dos and donts, I was reading someone yesterday and it was down to the point and that was actually rather good, stops anyone on their tracks really

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on profiles that have a lot of do's and don'ts?

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We ignore those types of profile .

It's about fun for us and too many dos and dont's makes it all too much like hard work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see why people have them but they always seem a bit negative and off-putting to me."

Yes I agree. Some of them you think ffs get over yourself.

A lot of people don't bother reading them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just laugh and avoid like the plague. Usually it's people who have over inflated egos or just plain deluded by the attention they get in fab land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with it ....it wouldn't put me off a profile with them on .....but if it said don't give blow jobs id be off quicker than a black adder "quip"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm ok with it ....it wouldn't put me off a profile with them on .....but if it said don't give blow jobs id be off quicker than a black adder "quip" "

Sorry but had to say

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

In the immortal words of Dionne Warwick....

I walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has them, there just lying to themselves if they think they don't. Not everyone is gonna wanna do everything.

For example, I'm sure if I was to ask to take a dump on some guys chest 99.9% of the time it would be a don't, are those saying they don't do them would let anyone do this?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"In the immortal words of Dionne Warwick....

I walk on by"

That's stranglers that are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that the longer I'm on here the less I care about anything anyone does.

They can do their thing, but we'd not message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few on here, put far too much on by the time you've read it you think WTF. Lost the will too live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles have text now?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. I have a few on mine. Do I come across as a right bitch

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We don't mind them, but if it gets a bit too prescriptive, or a bit ranty, then we give them a swerve.

Its supposed to be fun for everyone, if we think its all about them then its adios amigos lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh. I have a few on mine. Do I come across as a right bitch "

I think your profile is fine....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Their profile their choices...

If it works for them and it attracts the folk they're seeking they've succeeded..

Personally if there are too many or rants ..it's a swerve from me.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i move on.... they seem to be way too clinical and there are better and more friendly ways of talking about do's and dont's than bulletpointing them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get my goat if too prescriptive and haughty. If written with humour and style, I can forgive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. I have a few on mine. Do I come across as a right bitch "
no just saying what ur into and like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all have things that we do like and those we don't. Personally, I dislike facials. I don't have this as a 'no' on my profile, I tend to broach that subject if it looks like a guy is prepping up to do one! I try to make my 'no' list a little light-hearted, then someone p's me off and I get a rant-on. Then later, I'll repent and remove the rant and get all warm n fluffy again, until the next time. I do like to know what I am letting myself in for, but any list that means I have to scroll down to read, does put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on profiles that have a lot of do's and don'ts?

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at least it got detail some people got like 2 lines how u supposed to know what there like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few on here, put far too much on by the time you've read it you think WTF. Lost the will too live"

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By *weetdick500Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

i agree with u.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Rather see a profile that says what they do want rather than a long list of don't or must not be this and that blah blah blah, so negative and off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usualy very uninformative about the actual person and a huge list of don'ts bores me so i pass it by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles have text now?! "

Personally i think it's a wasted effort

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"What are your thoughts on profiles that have a lot of do's and don'ts?

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next......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you suggesting we are meant to read profiles?

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