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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

what are people's opinions on single men in clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd look lonely so I'd want to comfort them and snuggle them all night.

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I go for the single men. If there weren't single men I wouldn't go.

I went on couples night once and felt like a spare part.

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

So it's not out the norm to see single men there then?

Never been but always been interested would be even better if I found a willing play partner to go with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for single men too but are never enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about this often. I'm not sure of any etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd look lonely so I'd want to comfort them and snuggle them all night. "

Cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd look lonely so I'd want to comfort them and snuggle them all night.

Cute "

Comfort them by putting my nipples in their mouth and my finger up their arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a night for single guys then nobody should make them feel unwelcome. Just go OP hardest part is the initial walking through the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd look lonely so I'd want to comfort them and snuggle them all night.

Cute

Comfort them by putting my nipples in their mouth and my finger up their arse "

Where's the nearest club in wales ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd look lonely so I'd want to comfort them and snuggle them all night.

Cute

Comfort them by putting my nipples in their mouth and my finger up their arse "

Less cute. But more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm....sounds like my fears are unfounded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men have every right to be there, we don't mind them at all if they are respectful. If they bother to try and get into conversation rather leap in they might even get a chance!!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Go and chill. The outlook is sometimes the night is boring sometimes it's fun and now and then bloodly marvellous

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"I've thought about this often. I'm not sure of any etiquette. "

Just use you common sense bro. Those that think with their big head do well those that think with their little head don't do so well or worse still get thrown out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense essential, but it does seem to desert men so easily!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've thought about this often. I'm not sure of any etiquette. "

Yes me too, I'd hate looking like the perv that I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of single guys go to clubs alone, just socialise and you never know what will happen, we had a mmf with a guy who was on his first visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If not why not man up lol go for it you may well like it and want to go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would anyone advise a single female to go alone or would I be better off finding a partner beforehand? x

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Single males can be fine and have fun in clubs if they're polite and respectful.

I've found that sometimes the polite ones seem to get shoved to the back as the grabby guys try to get all the attention. When I notice this I make an effort to encourage them over to play as I've found them more pleasant to play with.

So, be alert for any eye contact or smiles aimed at you and take that as an opportunity to ask if you may watch/touch - the worst that can happen is they'll say no, but they'll be happy you asked;)

I'm sure single ladies would be welcomed by most too;)

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So it's not out the norm to see single men there then?

Never been but always been interested would be even better if I found a willing play partner to go with "

Then you wouldn't be a single guy you'd be a couple.;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone advise a single female to go alone or would I be better off finding a partner beforehand? x "

Depends on how confident you are?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Would anyone advise a single female to go alone or would I be better off finding a partner beforehand? x "

Perversely, when I go on my own I get less attention and less play. If I go with a male friend then I'm almost as popular as sliced bread.

OP, I go to meet single men. If the single man is polite but flirtatious, able to hold off touching until invited and friendly then he will do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been and really wanna go to one.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've never been and really wanna go to one. "

Then go. You have clubs in your area.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Would anyone advise a single female to go alone or would I be better off finding a partner beforehand? x "

It's down to you and how comfortable you feel. Some women do go on their own.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like them in clubs and if someone is isolated or left out, it's someone else to have a laugh with, if nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have banter with most of the single guys. If you are chatty and friendly then people will chat back. You may not necessarily play but will enjoy the night x

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