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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Need advice people I never know what to say I'm a opening message advice would be appreciated

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Need advice people I never know what to say I'm a opening message advice would be appreciated "

To be honest, it doesn't matter what you say, without public pics a lot of ladies will simply hit delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Figure it out for yourself like the rest of us had to lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Tell em who you are and why you messaged them. What caught your eye. Why you think you fit what they are looking for. Refer to something in their profile of possible, or their photos.

Be yourself. Don't try to blow smoke up their arse. Don't be crude. Don't send a photo of your wang unless their profile asks for it. Send a face pic if you can.

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

I always add pics with the initial message

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Tell em who you are and why you messaged them. What caught your eye. Why you think you fit what they are looking for. Refer to something in their profile of possible, or their photos.

Be yourself. Don't try to blow smoke up their arse. Don't be crude. Don't send a photo of your wang unless their profile asks for it. Send a face pic if you can."

Yep. Do this !

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Figure it out for yourself like the rest of us had to lol"
he asked for advice not a smart ass immature comment

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Thank you

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Try bend over bbe im coming around to smash your back doors in' been told it works well

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Your profile states that if we like the look of you, to get in touch. But you have no profile pics. You need a profile pic as your avatar, as well as a handful of others. Torso, bum, muscles, tattoos, dressed at a distance. No need to be face or dick. But add some photos !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Figure it out for yourself like the rest of us had to lolhe asked for advice not a smart ass immature comment"
when you've used the forums as much as the rest of us you'll get bored of seeing the same posts over and over sweetie x

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Thank you "
just ignore people like that, sarcastic attempts at humour often indicate low intelligence

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Fair 1 I'll have to rectify that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Thank you just ignore people like that, sarcastic attempts at humour often indicate low intelligence"

Sarcasm is, it has been alleged, the highest form of intelligence, as it happens

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Figure it out for yourself like the rest of us had to lolhe asked for advice not a smart ass immature comment when you've used the forums as much as the rest of us you'll get bored of seeing the same posts over and over sweetie x

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no excuse for ignorance SWEETIE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Figure it out for yourself like the rest of us had to lolhe asked for advice not a smart ass immature comment when you've used the forums as much as the rest of us you'll get bored of seeing the same posts over and over sweetie x

no excuse for ignorance SWEETIE"

ok then sweatie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually read the persons profile and try to message them accordingly

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Thank you just ignore people like that, sarcastic attempts at humour often indicate low intelligence

Sarcasm is, it has been alleged, the highest form of intelligence, as it happens "
actually it is considered the lowest form of wit, when used at someones else,s expense

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm is great. Accept it!

Don't worry about what you put bin your opening introduction to them. Be yourself.

If somebody said they want to meet a circus fire eater, don't say your a circus fire eater if your not. You will be found out. If your a clown, tell them your a clown. And see if they like clowns.

Be yourself, but certainly don't be a nob

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Tell em who you are and why you messaged them. What caught your eye. Why you think you fit what they are looking for. Refer to something in their profile of possible, or their photos.

Be yourself. Don't try to blow smoke up their arse. Don't be crude. Don't send a photo of your wang unless their profile asks for it. Send a face pic if you can.

Yep. Do this ! "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Thank you just ignore people like that, sarcastic attempts at humour often indicate low intelligence

Sarcasm is, it has been alleged, the highest form of intelligence, as it happens actually it is considered the lowest form of wit, when used at someones else,s expense"

but the highest form of intelligence.

Like I said.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit"

And the rest of the quote says...?

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By *and5 Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Would like to thank everyone for there advice a lot of it was good and some shit but thanks all the same

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Tell em who you are and why you messaged them. What caught your eye. Why you think you fit what they are looking for. Refer to something in their profile of possible, or their photos.

Be yourself. Don't try to blow smoke up their arse. Don't be crude. Don't send a photo of your wang unless their profile asks for it. Send a face pic if you can."

This!

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Would like to thank everyone for there advice a lot of it was good and some shit but thanks all the same "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to thank everyone for there advice a lot of it was good and some shit but thanks all the same "

There's a running theme around here. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to thank everyone for there advice a lot of it was good and some shit but thanks all the same "
you're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could sign up for one of my seminars on how to construct an opening message. Free to attend just sign over 20% of future salary and the first born child of the next 100 generations

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Thank you just ignore people like that, sarcastic attempts at humour often indicate low intelligence

Sarcasm is, it has been alleged, the highest form of intelligence, as it happens actually it is considered the lowest form of wit, when used at someones else,s expense

but the highest form of intelligence.

Like I said."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump this thread..

So do couples like tho do the approaching or prefer being approached

And to the single ladies

I know as a single male i never know and struggle with the signs and reading them. Maybe just a little nervous for the initial ice breaker. And should you just flat out ask or try and hint hahaha and i've been to plenty of clubs etc but still find it unnerving

In clubs this to be aimed at x

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