FabSwingers.com forum: Double Standards

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

god bless him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go with the classic line 'it's just their preference'

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

he maybe doesn't want to risk meeting a woman who has met the guys who spit roasted him in the local gay sauna

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

or he believes bi guys are a higher risk

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Don't let it bother you move on ratio of single men on here you can be fussy they can't just shout NEXT and choose again

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

It is double standards... But I guess I've also got double standards... I'll watch ff porn.. Or real thing if I'm lucky... But I won't watch mm... I know it doesn't Answer your question... But it's a messed up world... X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double standards.... From humans!!

Who's have thunked it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"he maybe doesn't want to risk meeting a woman who has met the guys who spit roasted him in the local gay sauna"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I come across a profile saying "... and if you've ever slept with a bi man pass us by!" I block them. I'd block them even if I hadn't have had sex with a bi man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it."

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its hypocrisy, pure and simple, but its practiced on here by the majority of men and quite a few women, so best thing to do is just shrug, hope he treads on a plug one day, and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do "

Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I come across a profile saying "... and if you've ever slept with a bi man pass us by!" I block them. I'd block them even if I hadn't have had sex with a bi man.

Hypocracy and narrow mindedness! You'd have thought that somewhere like should would show a more inclusive liberal group of people...as if!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it."

Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion? "

How would he know?

It's his choice at the end of the day but unless all of his meets keep meticulous records of who they fuck he would never know for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion? "
m

I'd say he's a numpty!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do

Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."

Why do you feel they are different? Less risk or are you simply thinking of the different genitals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.

Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "

I wasn't quoting you OP, apologies if it seemed that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do

Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."

For me the classic double standard on this site is from people who will not reply to messages if you don't have a face pic but when you look to their profile they have no face pics. Sometimes no pics at all and may even have hidden their entire profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.

Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards

I wasn't quoting you OP, apologies if it seemed that way."

No problem

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think it's double standards, it's a preference that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do

Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same.

Why do you feel they are different? Less risk or are you simply thinking of the different genitals? "

This is what I'm trying to gather let's be honest men whether straight bi or gay like anal. Is this more unsafe than two women "tribbing" thread up and running. Safe sex or not we're all at risk if we don't play safe so what makes a bi man and bi woman different. Bi women if they do this can't play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.

Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "

Yes I do think it is, the assumption of increased risk from bi guys supposes an awful lot of what ifs, unless of course he's just a bigot. But I guess that is his choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not related but I always chuckle when I see profiles from couples saying they won't meet bi guys, then you look at some of the Veris and do a little diggin and guess what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is different think about it.

Its up to him isn't it.

Yes it's up to him

My question is do you think it's double standards. I'm trying to gage if people think bi men and bi women are different. I don't but seems some do

Sorry no I don't think its double standards and of course bi men are different to bi women. How could they be the same."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he maybe doesn't want to risk meeting a woman who has met the guys who spit roasted him in the local gay sauna"

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"

I'm guessing the former

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are it's their choice but they should mention it before fucking me,not in the car on the way home.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yep I've come across a few of them...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"

I'm now disease ridden!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"No I don't think it's double standards, it's a preference that's all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"

Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Why do people bother to insult other people for their preferences.

If he had such preference its up to him, why the need to insult him for it.

Read again. I'm asking if you consider it double standards "

what if a woman had been with a bi guy but on here he said he was straight..?? i would say the guy is being unrealistic in his thinking that girls who like guys, dont ever go with bi men, known or unknown...i would say hes shortening his odds quite considerably..

as for double standards...any preference is a preference on here..doesnt make sense to me, but im sure he has his 'reasons' x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that's ever had sex is 6 degrees of separation from fucking a bi guy.

To think otherwise is ridiculous.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion? "

I'd say you had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk"

It will no doubt be that ..... Clinics do make a point of saying bi guys are the riskiest group .

We used to pay heed to this advice until about a year ago , then relaxed our rule . Started meeting bi guys and TVs and we've never had so much fun !

And still sti free

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk

Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX"

You don't know really whether you have met a bi guy or not,so many don't advertise it trust me!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

having been in the swinging world for a long time I have met people in gay saunas who swing and their partners know nothing about their love of the cock, I have shagged the wives of people who declare 'no bi guys' in a club environment. So no insults from me as there will be a vast amount of possible reasons and only he knows which one. I gave 2 examples.

but it is his choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk

Exactly what I was going to say, truthfully Bi guys are higher risk than Bi ladies. I don't meet Bi guys or anyone who has met them. Personal preference XXX"

Surely risk is down to the individual

I'd say a bi guy who always practice's safe sex is a lot lower risk than a woman who fucks a straight guy who does not always practice safe sex

Thing is you just don't know who does and who does not use condoms so you could meet somebody who never has any contact with bi guys but like the odd bareback session and give you something

The trick is to realise every single person you meet has the potential to have something so just protect yourself the best you can

I've met loads of bi guys and never cought anything of any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or he believes bi guys are a higher risk

It will no doubt be that ..... Clinics do make a point of saying bi guys are the riskiest group .

We used to pay heed to this advice until about a year ago , then relaxed our rule . Started meeting bi guys and TVs and we've never had so much fun !

And still sti free

I agree with this

My best sessions have always involved bi guys

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I haven't read all posts.

Bi men are different from bi women.

They differ 100% in terms of genitals.

The rest of the connotations are too many to contemplate.

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion? "

Maybe he is scared of catching the male version of gay second hand, where as everyone knows the female version can't be caught by men xxx

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion?

Maybe he is scared of catching the male version of gay second hand, where as everyone knows the female version can't be caught by men xxx"

Are you sure men can't catch second hand gay from women?

When I was younger I kissed a girl who had kissed a girl and I've liked kissing females ever since!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion?

I'd say you had a lucky escape "

From what?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion?

I'd say you had a lucky escape

From what? "

From a guy with different attitude to the one which the lady who posted has so not an ideal match for sex

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I recently talked to a guy who wouldn't meet a woman if she'd been with a bi guy. However 2 of his verifications are from bi women. He said that's different.

What's your opinion? "

People are just strange

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