FabSwingers.com forum: Am i really that ugly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if a single fem profile and not verified the reason probably is... he fired his load and had to get an 'out of jail' card.

or... they didn't fancy ya.

you will get praise for your body pics so you will need to take the rough with the smooth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww Tom

their loss hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

Stop whining - I'd do you!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

When I see ya face I'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont mind a " not my type" but they even block ya a min later

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

so don't you have your own "preferences" as well.....

its a bit hard live in that "glass house" upon the "moral high ground" if you do the same thing though.......

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But i would not block them a min later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now how could i say no to that Wooooo hooooooo will just get me coat

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I do block them after saying no thanks normally so they then mail me again in a few weeks/months time and go through the same again. It wastes my time them contacting me again. Blocking them makes it simple for me

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block em back and move on..

same advice given to all these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it make a difference if they block you or not

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I do block them after saying no thanks normally so they then mail me again in a few weeks/months time and go through the same again. It wastes my time them contacting me again. Blocking them makes it simple for me"

And that's the reason we block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone takes a great photo I know I dont I look shite on most photos of me I look much better in real life lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok ok you guys win i sort of see where your coming from now ...

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type"

Seen some beautiful cocks on here tho

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"But i would not block them a min later"

Then they would have nothing to start a thread about.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Not everyone takes a great photo I know I dont I look shite on most photos of me I look much better in real life lol

hahaha lol, I hate having my photo taken

Some would think the elephant man was reinvented

much more confident with personal meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv not blocked anyone yet got to say you all been lovely to me so far

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

look it happens you may be body beautiful but your not every bodys type like me i get knock backs all the time do i care saying that ive met some beautiful peeps off here and i mean that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

probably so you didn't question them as to why...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho "

.... and your reaction to that was?

Have a look and you may find the answer as to why so many people block people they have bothered to say no thanks to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Thank Q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok ok you guys win i sort of see where your coming from now ...

You ain't doing so bad... 4 months and two meets... Some guys don't get close to getting one in that time. You must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Thank Q

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oh your body pics are lush too heheheh!!!!!!!!1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom dont worry about it, or you could now block everyone on the site and noone would ever be able to do it to you again. Seriously come on why you bothered, im sure theres many ladies who'd say you're exactly their type

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Rejection......what a bitch that is.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

.... and your reaction to that was?

Have a look and you may find the answer as to why so many people block people they have bothered to say no thanks to."

And would you belive it a cpl who ask the same thing can i see you face pic have just sent me a pm but always say no thanks think its time to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho "

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tom dont worry about it, or you could now block everyone on the site and noone would ever be able to do it to you again. Seriously come on why you bothered, im sure theres many ladies who'd say you're exactly their type

Ok ok you guys are rite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!! "

I was going to say thanks for looking at me anyway

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!!

I was going to say thanks for looking at me anyway "

funny how we cant look at you whats going on there ?????? there are some strange peeps on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!!

I was going to say thanks for looking at me anyway

funny how we cant look at you whats going on there ?????? there are some strange peeps on here

Ha not nice is it

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!!

I was going to say thanks for looking at me anyway

funny how we cant look at you whats going on there ?????? there are some strange peeps on here

Ha not nice is it"

get a life and get out of your bubble

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Not everyone takes a great photo I know I dont I look shite on most photos of me I look much better in real life lol

me 2,i havnt seen a good pic i like of me yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its just the blocking thing that got me tho

Why would you want to be looking at their profile again if they have already said no to you?

I'm not trying to be horrible but we'd sooner be blocked by someone that had said no to us... saves us accidentally approaching them in the future and them telling us to do one again lol!!!

I was going to say thanks for looking at me anyway

funny how we cant look at you whats going on there ?????? there are some strange peeps on here

Ha not nice is it

get a life and get out of your bubble

M8 im only joking yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

Curious now...can i see a face pic

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

the opportunity to create a look at me thread......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

the opportunity to create a look at me thread......"

works tho lol

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

why i you so stuck up on this sassy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

the opportunity to create a look at me thread......

works tho lol

yup........ so it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why i have face pics on me profile lol

Cause im that fookin scary xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

Whilst our sexual preference may be opposite

We do have something in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

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shame that...... lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

Curious now...can i see a face pic

ffs.... if he's not your type you could be asking for trouble.... fingers crossed you're not the fussy type.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

I know the answer to this!

Apparently.... it is one of those throw-away comments which is meant to make people feel better about themselves whilst in an emotionally unbalanced state of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

It's good to know that some ppl in here know the answer to every thing lol..... oh to be perfect me thinks lol !!!1

I know the answer to this!

Apparently.... it is one of those throw-away comments which is meant to make people feel better about themselves whilst in an emotionally unbalanced state of rejection."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

It's good to know that some ppl in here know the answer to every thing lol..... oh to be perfect me thinks lol !!!1

I know the answer to this!

Apparently.... it is one of those throw-away comments which is meant to make people feel better about themselves whilst in an emotionally unbalanced state of rejection.

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It's good to know some ppl in here have the answer to everything.... oh to be perfect me thinks lol!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

It's good to know that some ppl in here know the answer to every thing lol..... oh to be perfect me thinks lol !!!1

I know the answer to this!

Apparently.... it is one of those throw-away comments which is meant to make people feel better about themselves whilst in an emotionally unbalanced state of rejection.

It's good to know some ppl in here have the answer to everything.... oh to be perfect me thinks lol!!

I am open to enlightenment.... please feel free to explain your use of the phrase and how this loss system works.

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester

"Thats why i have face pics on me profile lol

Cause im that fookin scary xx

having seen this guy u=in the flesh have to say he's telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

why i you so stuck up on this sassy

I'm seeking enlightenment for something I don't know. I keep asking in the vain hope a forumite would help: but alas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just count it as their loss. lots of nice ppl who will like you !!!!!

Sigh...I must be simple as no matter how many times I read it I still don't understand what someone has lost if THEY have decided you're not for them.

I know the answer to this!

Apparently.... it is one of those throw-away comments which is meant to make people feel better about themselves whilst in an emotionally unbalanced state of rejection."

Aaaah...I need ask no more: got it. Thanks Polo

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

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just someones personal choice, they either like the look of ya mug or they dont, im sure there are plenty that will, dont let it bother you

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Personal preferences and all.....

Can I jump in the bath with Soapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Tom.. im afraid its just a fact of life on here that some peeps are just rude and have no manners!!! If anyone is rude, nasty or abrupt to me i block them so it works both ways.. still i know what you mean .. all it takes is a "no thanks" and move on.. stay lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Tom.. im afraid its just a fact of life on here that some peeps are just rude and have no manners!!! If anyone is rude, nasty or abrupt to me i block them so it works both ways.. still i know what you mean .. all it takes is a "no thanks" and move on.. stay lucky"

So hold on a minute. The OP wrote that after sending a face pic he gets a message saying sorry not my type and you call that rude?!!

People are supposed to play with people they don't find sexually attractive now?!!

Personally I find the OP an arrogant baby: we will NEVER appeal to everyone. He actually gets a "no thanks" message but apparently wanted to know why.

He is the type of man that ensures we continue to delete and block without acknowledging as we don't want to go into the "why" we don't want to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats not exactly what i was meaning.. i understood that he had both.. messages and just blocks.. all i was saying tho is some peeps are rude on here.. im sure weve all come across them.. its nice to be nice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had that problem but then again my Mum says I am gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's you in a wig with a mirror that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's you in a wig with a mirror that is.

Shhhhhhhhh !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pinch someone elses face pic, it will work great until you have to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just wish you was local to me , lol x

jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least there gracious enough to reply I guess.

I have had it said to me loads but then I have said the same.I would never offend anyone... A pretty face doesn't mean your a great fuck !

I think there are some very ordinary people under the delusion that a George Clooney or a Kelly Brook is just on here somewhere ! Goodluck to them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always blame myself. That might go down better I feel.

"Thanks for the pic but I don't wish to take things further. Which says nothing about your appearance, just that I have a different taste in men. Hope you get a better match than me soon."

When they write back saying they like the match THAT's the time to block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well people obviously aren't going to hook up with you if they don't fancy you, are they?

You need a thicker skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the down side of not having your face on your profile, at least when you do you don't have to run the gauntlet of sending a pic and getting rejected.

We just get rejected without even knowing about it........much less painful.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if a single fem profile and not verified the reason probably is... he fired his load and had to get an 'out of jail' card.

or... they didn't fancy ya.

you will get praise for your body pics so you will need to take the rough with the smooth.."
my point exactly block newbies now for that same reason..to op i get the same to an from what other folk has said an tend to agree on most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go away you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not necessarily about looks though is it? I've met some handsome men but not felt any spark. I've also met some "plain" men that if it hadn't been a social setting I'd have jumped them!

I repeat...we're not going to appeal to everyone for whatever reason, and it's pretty pointless blaming the other person because our egos have been offended!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and you that jumped in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody hell.......AND SASSY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well people obviously aren't going to hook up with you if they don't fancy you, are they?

You need a thicker skin.

No, they need to get over themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bloody hell.......AND SASSY!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's the down side of not having your face on your profile, at least when you do you don't have to run the gauntlet of sending a pic and getting rejected.

We just get rejected without even knowing about it........much less painful.

XXXX"

Thanks for all the repliers my biggist point was them blocking me a min later i dont mind the " no thanks not my type bit " but i would like to have messages them back just saying thank for looking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not necessarily about looks though is it? I've met some handsome men but not felt any spark. I've also met some "plain" men that if it hadn't been a social setting I'd have jumped them!

I repeat...we're not going to appeal to everyone for whatever reason, and it's pretty pointless blaming the other person because our egos have been offended!

Nope its about what you see in the pic... thats why I said appearance...bad decor, unwashed dishes, fag in hand when they say they don't smoke, horrible clothes - it can be a multitude of turn offs not just faces....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your original post mentions nothing about blocking, only you having the huff against the 'beautiful' people.

Plus a lot of people don't have the time to message everyone back who looks at their profile or messages them, there is a big wide world outside of cyberspace, you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ok you guys are rite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok ok you guys are rite "

They often are lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not necessarily about looks though is it? I've met some handsome men but not felt any spark. I've also met some "plain" men that if it hadn't been a social setting I'd have jumped them!

I repeat...we're not going to appeal to everyone for whatever reason, and it's pretty pointless blaming the other person because our egos have been offended!

Glad that isnt just me, if someone has a pic and their house is a tip/looks dirty or they have some random sruffy clothes on it really turns me off i cant help it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's the down side of not having your face on your profile, at least when you do you don't have to run the gauntlet of sending a pic and getting rejected.

We just get rejected without even knowing about it........much less painful.

XXXX

Thanks for all the repliers my biggist point was them blocking me a min later i dont mind the " no thanks not my type bit " but i would like to have messages them back just saying thank for looking.. "

Don't let that offend you too much, some people block as soon as they reject someone, on the off chance that person messages back giving them grief.

There are many who won't take NO for an answer and can't handle rejection.

We don't think it was anything personaly aimed at you.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's the down side of not having your face on your profile, at least when you do you don't have to run the gauntlet of sending a pic and getting rejected.

We just get rejected without even knowing about it........much less painful.

XXXX

Thanks for all the repliers my biggist point was them blocking me a min later i dont mind the " no thanks not my type bit " but i would like to have messages them back just saying thank for looking..

Don't let that offend you too much, some people block as soon as they reject someone, on the off chance that person messages back giving them grief.

There are many who won't take NO for an answer and can't handle rejection.

We don't think it was anything personaly aimed at you.

XXXX"

Thanks for that guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom don't worry about it. It's something that quite frequently happens on these sites. To all of us. Chalk it down to experience. I know what you meen with the block thing too. Go to send a polite message back and your blocked. I hate ignorance but you got to get thick skinned to it on here. I bet they just don't like us Yorkshire blokes lol .. Get ya bike out n blow away the cobwebs like I do. Clear ya head n carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tom don't worry about it. It's something that quite frequently happens on these sites. To all of us. Chalk it down to experience. I know what you meen with the block thing too. Go to send a polite message back and your blocked. I hate ignorance but you got to get thick skinned to it on here. I bet they just don't like us Yorkshire blokes lol .. Get ya bike out n blow away the cobwebs like I do. Clear ya head n carry on. "

Who are the 'they' you are referring to and why wouldn't I like yourkshire men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only answer for myself - even if you did have a picture of your face, with that body, I wouldnt look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up, Tom...! Honestly, there are some downright rude, selfish and ignorant people on here... Theres nowt wrong with you mate, you have a well toned torso that a lot of guys would be proud of. Im a big muscular guy and Id like to be as toned as you. I bet, if you tried chatting similar fems up in pubs etc, you would have loads of interest. I aint toby jug ugly either, but I have only had one meet off this site so far, and been turned down loads of times. There are simply too many guys and not enough girls.

And if anyones wondering, I'm 100% straight. I just want to offer support to my fellow brethren...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom ..you must have had to politely refuse because you simply didn't fancy someone...we can't all be matinee idols so don't worry about it and just keep looking but be polite ! At least you look after yourself and you have had plenty of posistive comments from ladies on this sthread so far !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all.

My personal favourite is when I'm asked to show my "handsome face" which when I do put my mug on cam (sometimes

) leads to either no thanks or the lady (rudely) turning off the cam. I just say "I obviously got mixed up and showed my ugly face, I won't contact you again."

Don't take it personally and move on - we're all here for fun - life's too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see the face pic but bod look great. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only answer for myself - even if you did have a picture of your face, with that body, I wouldnt look at it

Someone messaged me about this and I had to smile because she read it a different way to what I meant, and reading it back, it sounds terrible, I do apologise.

What I mean is, looking at your pics, with that gorgeous body (especially the second picture in your profile), I wouldnt care what your face looked like. I wouldnt be looking at your face, my eyes would be wide, my mouth falling open, at the sight of that toned gorgeous body. Sorry to everyone who thought I was being really rude, it was the total opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cant see the face pic but bod look great. x"

sometimes the bod is all that matters !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a couple of messages from a very nice guy but after seeing his face pic i just couldnt......he looked exactly like my son!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cant see the face pic but bod look great. x

sometimes the bod is all that matters !"

So you shag um with a paper bag over their heads ?? hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i had a couple of messages from a very nice guy but after seeing his face pic i just couldnt......he looked exactly like my son!! x"

lol oh my god - you know what thats called dont you Sod's Law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only answer for myself - even if you did have a picture of your face, with that body, I wouldnt look at it

Someone messaged me about this and I had to smile because she read it a different way to what I meant, and reading it back, it sounds terrible, I do apologise.

I knew what you meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only answer for myself - even if you did have a picture of your face, with that body, I wouldnt look at it

Someone messaged me about this and I had to smile because she read it a different way to what I meant, and reading it back, it sounds terrible, I do apologise.

I knew what you meant!

So did I!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Don't you just hate it when people ask for a face pic then say sorry not my type whats up do i have two heads ...

Maybe all the beautiful people should start there own site !!!!

Beautiful swinger.com try that Ha !!

Hey, it happens to the ladies, too.

Also, it does not mean you are ugly - it just means your face is not their cuppa and that has more to do with a certain "designer" look but with unconscious things that attract us to sexual partners.

Dont let it worry you at all.. there are plenty of people who "d do you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that why doggy style is so popular...you dont have to look at them?

Or a gimp mask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i was on here for a year and left has all i got was woman laughing at me and swearing at me when then saw my face i have just come back again thats why i have no pic up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt that why doggy style is so popular...you dont have to look at them?

Or a gimp mask!

What a sensitive woman you are????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt that why doggy style is so popular...you dont have to look at them?

Or a gimp mask!

What a sensitive woman you are????

That is a vicious rumour and I would thank you not to spread such lies! lol

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