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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first always , costas when you out shopping so not wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!! "

Lift your age limits.....older blokes don't let you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Lift your age limits.....older blokes don't let you down "

Except when they die, bloody time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your not the only one!! Have been let down several times now but don't let it get you down,there are lots of genuine people on here who im sure would happily jump thru hops to meet you so forget it move on and just remember it's there Loss

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!! "

Just switch to going to clubs it much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Just switch to going to clubs it much easier."

It's got to be the answer, but takes much more bottle

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Lift your age limits.....older blokes don't let you down

Except when they die, bloody time wasters"

I just inhaled my drink

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Just switch to going to clubs it much easier.

It's got to be the answer, but takes much more bottle "

I disagree. Going to a club is easier than meeting someone one-to-one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet arranged a few months ago...travelled over an hour..guess what..let down,no show.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Lift your age limits.....older blokes don't let you down "
. That's not really true ..I get let down lots and I only meet older guys

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Thank heaven's I can't be bothered meeting at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding that there are more and more timewasters on here than ever before!! Been let down nearly every time I arrange a meet and then being ignored!! Its getting beyond a joke now!! Deleting and blocking so many people lately!!

Lift your age limits.....older blokes don't let you down

Except when they die, bloody time wasters"

Personally would prefer not to be a time waster but alas death comes to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horrible. I had it a couple of weeks back. I've learnt from that to not concentrate on one person at a time but that gives me a whole other list of problems. I have two guys now in the running, I'll meet one tomorrow and one Monday but don't feel right splitting my attention between two people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our first meet arranged a few months ago...travelled over an hour..guess what..let down,no show."

Had this happen to myself was on the train half way thru a 2 hour journey only for the lady in question to message saying a family member was ill,wasnt till later that night when I logged back into fab that I noticed she had displayed a verification stating she had met someone the same day grrrrrrr and to top it off she messaged me the next day asking to meet with no apology for letting me down tut tut

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Our first meet arranged a few months ago...travelled over an hour..guess what..let down,no show.

Had this happen to myself was on the train half way thru a 2 hour journey only for the lady in question to message saying a family member was ill,wasnt till later that night when I logged back into fab that I noticed she had displayed a verification stating she had met someone the same day grrrrrrr and to top it off she messaged me the next day asking to meet with no apology for letting me down tut tut "

Did you tell her to f*ck off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our first meet arranged a few months ago...travelled over an hour..guess what..let down,no show.

Had this happen to myself was on the train half way thru a 2 hour journey only for the lady in question to message saying a family member was ill,wasnt till later that night when I logged back into fab that I noticed she had displayed a verification stating she had met someone the same day grrrrrrr and to top it off she messaged me the next day asking to meet with no apology for letting me down tut tut

Did you tell her to f*ck off?"

Lol well something along those lines

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm so slow at these things I wonder if they don't think I'm the time waster.

I do agree with others about keeping it fairly informal, where you're possibly not too put out.

If a few of the people are somewhat similar, I find it hard to remember their distinct details etc.

Some do meet more than once per day, so a same day veri may not mean it's confirmation that you were messed around.

Ensure they apprise you of their progress for a meet, so warning signs show early and you can make other plans.

The partnered cheaters can struggle to get away, so really do what you can to clarify if they're single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get let down "

Nor do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our first meet arranged a few months ago...travelled over an hour..guess what..let down,no show.

Had this happen to myself was on the train half way thru a 2 hour journey only for the lady in question to message saying a family member was ill,wasnt till later that night when I logged back into fab that I noticed she had displayed a verification stating she had met someone the same day grrrrrrr and to top it off she messaged me the next day asking to meet with no apology for letting me down tut tut "

OMG! That's really bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get let down

Nor do I "

Do you mainly meet more mature men?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't get let down

Nor do I "

I haven't...up to now!!! I'm sure everyone will at some stage,no-one can guarantee whether someone will turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let me down gently if you gonna let me down at all!!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

i go with gut feeling... and never been let down.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nearly 10 yrs on here and I've never been let down. Had a couple of cancellations yes, but got plenty of notice and the meet was rearranged

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

I had let down other week made promice that day as was only social in day but enjoy myself with hot chocolate then shop around but then I block reported move on.that alway the way.don't give up alway nice one about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get let down

Nor do I

I haven't...up to now!!! I'm sure everyone will at some stage,no-one can guarantee whether someone will turn up."

I pretty much can.

I don't meet that much, I meet men of similar ilk to me & by the time we get around to meeting we've been chatting on whatssap / kik for ages so we're both really looking forward to it.

A tried & tested method that hasn't let me down yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get let down

Nor do I

Do you mainly meet more mature men? "

I meet men who are mature but not necessarily age wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our primary reason for predominantly meeting people in clubs. If they don't turn up, there are often other options

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't get let down

Nor do I

I haven't...up to now!!! I'm sure everyone will at some stage,no-one can guarantee whether someone will turn up.

I pretty much can.

I don't meet that much, I meet men of similar ilk to me & by the time we get around to meeting we've been chatting on whatssap / kik for ages so we're both really looking forward to it.

A tried & tested method that hasn't let me down yet. "

Same for me,but it's still not guaranteed someone will turn up until they do no matter how much you've been talking prior. I'm just thankyou it has worked for me up to now,lucky I suppose...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't get let down

Nor do I

I haven't...up to now!!! I'm sure everyone will at some stage,no-one can guarantee whether someone will turn up.

I pretty much can.

I don't meet that much, I meet men of similar ilk to me & by the time we get around to meeting we've been chatting on whatssap / kik for ages so we're both really looking forward to it.

A tried & tested method that hasn't let me down yet.

Same for me,but it's still not guaranteed someone will turn up until they do no matter how much you've been talking prior. I'm just thankyou it has worked for me up to now,lucky I suppose..."

*thankful

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I don't get let down "

Me neither, but then I chat lots beforehand, and perhaps I've been lucky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first always , costas when you out shopping so not wasting time "

Definitely going to do this. Sorry guys but single girls on here are sought after. So if the guys interested he will fit around you. I once met a guy on my lunch at work. Told my friends who we on lunch with me & nearby and jumped into the passenger side of his car with the door open and in full public view. Wasn't my type so didn't waste

anything X

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