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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Yours sell some lovely dresses and there are several online shops too x

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yours sell some lovely dresses and there are several online shops too x"

Oo, never heard of them, I'll have a look.

Thanks x

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Yours sell some lovely dresses and there are several online shops too x

Oo, never heard of them, I'll have a look.

Thanks x"

They're online and have shops too so you can see what they are like 'in real life' x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got mine from Jasper Conran, Gok at Sainsburys, Next, New Look, and if you're strapped for cash check an app called Ali Express. Bought a few from there. Same as eBay but lots cheaper as middle man is cut out. Just takes a while to arrive. I'm size 18 & XXXL-XXXXL fit me.

Have a fab time x

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I find the Ali sizes really small xx

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yours sell some lovely dresses and there are several online shops too x

Oo, never heard of them, I'll have a look.

Thanks x

They're online and have shops too so you can see what they are like 'in real life' x"

Ah that's useful, thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x "

There's no way id just wear a little black dress, im not built for such clothes and im awear of that, in all honestly if i wasnt allowed to wear what i felt comfortable in i wouldnt go but not everybody is like me so my suggestion would be to buy a nice wrap to go over your shoulders that you can pull round the front and cover the bits you dont like

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I've got mine from Jasper Conran, Gok at Sainsburys, Next, New Look, and if you're strapped for cash check an app called Ali Express. Bought a few from there. Same as eBay but lots cheaper as middle man is cut out. Just takes a while to arrive. I'm size 18 & XXXL-XXXXL fit me.

Have a fab time x"

Brill advice, thank you so much.

I'm 18/20 so that gives me an idea where to start. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at Pepperberry. Not cheap but amazing fit. All dress sizes come in a curvy, very curvy of super curvy option. Fits lovely and really shows off curves in the best way xx

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

There's no way id just wear a little black dress, im not built for such clothes and im awear of that, in all honestly if i wasnt allowed to wear what i felt comfortable in i wouldnt go but not everybody is like me so my suggestion would be to buy a nice wrap to go over your shoulders that you can pull round the front and cover the bits you dont like "

I have thought about not going, it's not my kind of night at all, but I'm the bridesmaid and the bride is my children's aunt. I don't think I can get away with not showing up

The wrap idea is good though, thanks x

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Take a look at Pepperberry. Not cheap but amazing fit. All dress sizes come in a curvy, very curvy of super curvy option. Fits lovely and really shows off curves in the best way xx"

It that part of bravissimo? X

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

There's no way id just wear a little black dress, im not built for such clothes and im awear of that, in all honestly if i wasnt allowed to wear what i felt comfortable in i wouldnt go but not everybody is like me so my suggestion would be to buy a nice wrap to go over your shoulders that you can pull round the front and cover the bits you dont like "

I'd take this view too. I'm really not a 'dress' person so I'd be doubly uncomfortable all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x "

I went to new look for mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look at Pepperberry. Not cheap but amazing fit. All dress sizes come in a curvy, very curvy of super curvy option. Fits lovely and really shows off curves in the best way xx

It that part of bravissimo? X"

Yes same company xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marisota or simply be for dresses too.

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

Oh heck! I'm going to have to go clothes shopping aren't I?!

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

I went to new look for mine "

Do they have plus size in the stores? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

I went to new look for mine

Do they have plus size in the stores? X"

Yeah they have a section for plus size i have a black dress thats got lacy stuff on the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind the key is in your underwear get that right and you'll look fabulous in your little black dress

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Mind the key is in your underwear get that right and you'll look fabulous in your little black dress "

That's a whole other issue! Lol

K cup bras that don't look like/feel like straight jackets are not easy to find. Haha

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh heck! I'm going to have to go clothes shopping aren't I?! "

Yep but must say I've felt sexiest in a black jump suit, bit low on my boobies & some heels! George at Asda have some lovely ones at the mo x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Florence and fred do some nice dresses online and not too dear either.Miss.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I bought a gorgeous 50's style dress of Amazon - was only a tenner and really flattering. Got comments off complete strangers when wearing it

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Oh heck! I'm going to have to go clothes shopping aren't I?!

Yep but must say I've felt sexiest in a black jump suit, bit low on my boobies & some heels! George at Asda have some lovely ones at the mo x"

That sounds gorgeous! I'll have a look there. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet me to it....jumpsuits are great...love mine...george has great value on most things,if i have to wear LBD....then i go to Roman Originals most of the time.x

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By *etes-dragonCouple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

ASOS I got a LBD, as I very rarely wear dresses and didnt want to spend a fortune on one.

Dragon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply Be have some lovely dresses so might be worth a look. Its a shame you're not closer cus i have a skater style black dress. It's not "posh" but i have worn it to a variety of things and it can be dressed up with jewellery and shoes etc. Amazon might also be a good place to look.

X

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

"

If its any help.Had a peek at your profile pics. You will look gorgeous in a little black number and ooze sexiness. Have some confidence in yourself. I am married to a BBW and she buys sexy clothes that turn me on So go for it go out and enjoy your night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mind the key is in your underwear get that right and you'll look fabulous in your little black dress

That's a whole other issue! Lol

K cup bras that don't look like/feel like straight jackets are not easy to find. Haha

X"

I feel your pain when it comes to the bras myself lol

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

If its any help.Had a peek at your profile pics. You will look gorgeous in a little black number and ooze sexiness. Have some confidence in yourself. I am married to a BBW and she buys sexy clothes that turn me on So go for it go out and enjoy your night"

Thanks you.

I will most definitely try

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Mind the key is in your underwear get that right and you'll look fabulous in your little black dress

That's a whole other issue! Lol

K cup bras that don't look like/feel like straight jackets are not easy to find. Haha

X

I feel your pain when it comes to the bras myself lol "

I can see

Magnificent photos! Hehehe

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Simply Be have some lovely dresses so might be worth a look. Its a shame you're not closer cus i have a skater style black dress. It's not "posh" but i have worn it to a variety of things and it can be dressed up with jewellery and shoes etc. Amazon might also be a good place to look.

X"

Aww that's so kind, thank you.

Do you think I can carry the skater style? X

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

You are all so helpful. Thank you very much

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I bought a lovely dress from curvussia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely recommend Asos, they have a plus size range which starts from a size 18 and have shit loads of dresses! I buy from them all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply Be have some lovely dresses so might be worth a look. Its a shame you're not closer cus i have a skater style black dress. It's not "posh" but i have worn it to a variety of things and it can be dressed up with jewellery and shoes etc. Amazon might also be a good place to look.

X

Aww that's so kind, thank you.

Do you think I can carry the skater style? X"

Yes. I think you can carry any style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lindy Bop or Simply Be

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Oh heck! I'm going to have to go clothes shopping aren't I?! "

OP ... I know jusr how you feel

I am a larger lady ... I Hate going clothes shopping ...I tend to go to EVANS .. you can go to their shops or on line ... wide fitting shoes too ....its my sons wedding soon ... so u will find me hunting for a bargain

.. and wear what makes u feel comfortable ... good luck x

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By *rinTampaMan
over a year ago

Tampa


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x

If its any help.Had a peek at your profile pics. You will look gorgeous in a little black number and ooze sexiness. Have some confidence in yourself. I am married to a BBW and she buys sexy clothes that turn me on So go for it go out and enjoy your night"

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Another vote for ASOS here, the fit is always very good and fair, and their next day delivery is great. Have ordered at 11pm on on a Thursday and it's been here by midday on Friday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just bought a lovely lbd from boohoo.com plus size range. Have been very impressed with the whole experience. The dress fits well and I usually struggle to get things to fit around my cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x "

Asos and boohoo.com i get mine from x

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

i got a flattering black halter off empire clothing on ebay shops look great on a curvier figure

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Tesco sainsbury and asda have some nice little dresses usually in larger sizes.

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

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Hi, google " little black dress for plus size"

Some stunning little numbers. I'm sure you'll find somthing nice.

Yes, the choice of underwear is important, but, so is the full package, sexy from your hair down to your toenails

Good luck and enjoy the night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Lady V - I love their dresses xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I have just bought a lovely lbd from boohoo.com plus size range. Have been very impressed with the whole experience. The dress fits well and I usually struggle to get things to fit around my cleavage "

I was going to suggest boohoo as well. I've bought lots there. Plus the price is reasonable too...

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By *ollymoll OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stockport


"I have just bought a lovely lbd from boohoo.com plus size range. Have been very impressed with the whole experience. The dress fits well and I usually struggle to get things to fit around my cleavage

I was going to suggest boohoo as well. I've bought lots there. Plus the price is reasonable too..."

Great, thanks, I'll get looking there too x

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By *imnher65Couple
over a year ago

Morpeth

Getting the right bra is definitely they way I'm the same shape as yourself but when I have my best bra on it hides the bumps I get mine from bravissimo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply be....some stunning clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not that big Op, you would get an 18/20 size dress from most places on the high street.

Go to Next, they have many smart looking dresses.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Gorgeous one on lindy bop. 70% off too!!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I love dresses. My favourite little black dress is a gok wan from Sainsburys. I bought it a few years back and it's so flattering.

I agree with what the others have said about the right underwear.

And definitely make sure you remember to match your lips and nail varnish to finish the look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a hen do coming up and the dress code is classy black dress.

I don't have one and don't know where to start looking for one, I'm not really a dressy kind of person.

I don't want to look ridiculous, all the other ladies going are very slim, petite types, so I don't want to stand out anymore than I already will do.

Can anyone help me?! Please x don't ever not go because you're worried about your size you can find great clothes in 18/20, I shop in next new look, simply be, yours, marisota they have loads of choice I tend to go for something with sleeves as not a fan of my bingo wings, but v neck as have good boobs, dress the areas you like, oh and Spanx are great for flattening lumps and bumps.

Never ever miss out on life because of insecurities one life live it!!

There's no way id just wear a little black dress, im not built for such clothes and im awear of that, in all honestly if i wasnt allowed to wear what i felt comfortable in i wouldnt go but not everybody is like me so my suggestion would be to buy a nice wrap to go over your shoulders that you can pull round the front and cover the bits you dont like

I have thought about not going, it's not my kind of night at all, but I'm the bridesmaid and the bride is my children's aunt. I don't think I can get away with not showing up

The wrap idea is good though, thanks x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops managed to reply Galway through post but hope you get the jist!!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

ASOS have the best selection of little black dresses and they're plus size range is fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another vote here for asos. I love it. I order from it at least once a week!

Doll x

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By *uscious_lips30Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

I'm an 18/20 and I got a nice black dress from monsoon

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I love dresses. My favourite little black dress is a gok wan from Sainsburys.

Sainsburys are discontinuing the Gok range, the last collection is in stores now (i work on the clothing section in my local store)

There isn't anything i would call a classic LBD at the moment, only black sun dresses

"

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