FabSwingers.com forum: problems

By *oantrimcpl2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

ok after reading another thread it got me thinking. At some stage some of us are going to have a problem with some aspects of the scene, and post in the forum for advice, as here is the only place some can get advice about things that happen while swinging, its not as if some can go to there friends and family. Maybe we should have a room dedicated just for problems, where well meaning constuctive advice can be given.

And before anyone says anything i am NOT having a dig at anyone, or being sarcastic.

hope this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought we already had a forum for that in 'swinging support'...isnt that where people post thier problems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with the OP i was thinking just this after reading a thread someone put. At the end of the day who do you discuss your swinging problems with when the problem is with your other half. I cant imagine my family or vanilla friends being able to talk to me or understand. I am in a fortunate position that I have a wonderful g/f who I am able to tell everything to.

The whole reason for the thread the other day from a woman was that she had discussed the problem with her other half, and yet still needed to sort it out with advice from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok after reading another thread it got me thinking. At some stage some of us are going to have a problem with some aspects of the scene, and post in the forum for advice, as here is the only place some can get advice about things that happen while swinging, its not as if some can go to there friends and family. Maybe we should have a room dedicated just for problems, where well meaning constuctive advice can be given.

And before anyone says anything i am NOT having a dig at anyone, or being sarcastic.

hope this makes sense "

Excellant idea...there are years of valuable swinging experience that forum posters can share with others...like a problem page I guess..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

A bit like the 3rd forum down on the list..... 'Swinging Support and Advice'

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"A bit like the 3rd forum down on the list..... 'Swinging Support and Advice'"

I think sometimes people need a new forum entitled....'Swinging Support and Advice, but only if you agree completely with my original post'

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"A bit like the 3rd forum down on the list..... 'Swinging Support and Advice'

I think sometimes people need a new forum entitled....'Swinging Support and Advice, but only if you agree completely with my original post'"

....and i think that is the problem... unless you go "there there there" and agree profusly some people that umbridge to what is posted..

people shouldn't get shot down for telling it like it is... i suppose its the way that information is delivered is the contenious topic....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit like the 3rd forum down on the list..... 'Swinging Support and Advice'

I think sometimes people need a new forum entitled....'Swinging Support and Advice, but only if you agree completely with my original post'"

Aaaah...you beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe people should respond with their honest views and not sugar coat it, but thats very different to nasty bitchy mocking retorts with the rolling eyes smiley attached. Definitely how the information is delivered is key to a good discussion.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I thought we already had a forum for that in 'swinging support'...isnt that where people post thier problems?"

opps forgot about "swinging support"

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

"I believe people should respond with their honest views and not sugar coat it, but thats very different to nasty bitchy mocking retorts with the rolling eyes smiley attached. Definitely how the information is delivered is key to a good discussion."

You can give constructive criticism without getting personal or nasty, but at the same time you expect the receiver to adher to the same rules of accepted criticism without getting personal etc etc.

That often isn't the case and people get drawn into silly arguments.

Some seem to take things a little too seriously. It's the internet, not face to face combat in a locked room.

If you get pissed off, log off, have an icecream, a beer or run around the block a few times and come back refreshed.

You really don't have to engage in the argument.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I thought we already had a forum for that in 'swinging support'...isnt that where people post thier problems?

opps forgot about "swinging support"

maybe some people are posting in wrong forums as well

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