FabSwingers.com forum: For the love of sex...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I found fab a few years ago with an ex when lived in Leeds. We met other couples for girl on girl and couple of guys for her to oral and wank. Im now in a relationship with pretty much no sex. I have high sex drive and think back to the previous experiences a lot. So my question really is can you be happy with not much sex when once it was quite adventurous. I don't want to split up just want exciting sexual encounters and realise many will not agree with me looking outside relationship! Just wondered what other people's experience was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its understandable what you're saying. Everyone has their reasons for being here - some will scorn you for looking for NSA outside of your relationship, others will understand.

The former tend to be (on the whole) those lucky enough to be in exciting liberal sexual swinging relationships that can experience the diverse side of their sexuality.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don;t understand this fucking question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say yes (but I would).

Seriously you can love someone and know they are your mate, but sex and love are not the same thing. Others my disagree, but you need to be happy in yourself to be happy with others. Like you I have a high sex drive and meeting this need out side of my relationship has kept it strong, and yes she's knows.

Be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say yes (but I would).

Be yourself.

Jx"

And that's what it comes down to. Does ur partner know and would she mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had two sexless marriages before meeting Sabrina .

6 years ago we met , my life changed and we will celebrate our fourth wedding anniversary next month .

We have been swinging together for five years .

Would either of us cope with a sexless relationship ?

No .....

Not in a million years .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've had a long term sexless relationship and I never ever want that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marriage was sexless for the last eight years

I was very unhappy

It's horrible being in a relationship where you are made to feel ugly and unwanted

Being rejected time and time again does nothing for your confidence

I've been single since we split over eight years ago now and although I never have any intentions of being in another relationship if I did ever find anybody I would never allow myself to feel like that again

As soon as the intamacy was gone so would I be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a long sexless marriage and before it was sexless it was really unfulfilling despite trying all sorts to encourage him. He just had a very low sex drive and I've since discovered that I don't! There's no way I could have a relationship like that again, I've tried vanilla dating and that was a disaster, some were ready for the pipe and slippers, so here I am. It's not ideal but it'll do for now.

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