FabSwingers.com forum: love???

By *inky24big35 OP Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

yes, with my ex husband and it was love at first sight for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just the once

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

yes, been in lust as well

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I havent, I've yearned for companionship and gone out with guys for the reason even though I didnt really want to be with but never loved them. Lonliness is hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in love and I've been in lust. The trick, and it's a difficult one, is to get the love and the lust with the same person. I've managed that once and it was brilliant. I don't think it will happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, sadly he died of a boating related accident over 2 years ago. However, we did have 4 short but happy years together.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"I've been in love and I've been in lust. The trick, and it's a difficult one, is to get the love and the lust with the same person. I've managed that once and it was brilliant. I don't think it will happen again

But when you get it.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes..after 30 years,still are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, with my ex husband and it was love at first sight for both of us"

Same here. Met my ex husband on the saturday, he moved in with me on the tuesday and we had 20 happy years together

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

yes,with several people,and with kev from the first time i met him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep ........and still together after 30 years ......even though we do have sex with other people

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

yes and hurts like hell when they dont love you any more even worst when your with someone you never loved but cared for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 Years of being married, and the wife still moans if i use her toothbrush.

So if anybody knows a better way to get dog shit off trainers im all ears....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 Years of being married, and the wife still moans if i use her toothbrush.

So if anybody knows a better way to get dog shit off trainers im all ears...."

no, but we do know better things to do with a toothbrush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes once, never found it again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust"

had it but don't really enjoy that kind of love. Prefer the mellower trusting kind of patient, soft and constant love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....... and I still am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer being in lust .

The other four letter word is sooooooo over rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust"

If you don't lust after the person you love - you don't love him.

I watch Siren walk about the house doing household stuff and I think to myself, "Man, she gets me right there! I so want to fuck her." ~ That's lust.

Other times, I see her and think, "She's dealing with littlun, trying to hold down her job, I work away and don't really see the pressure she's under but she's always there when I come home." ~ That's love.

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

lucky for us we are still in love.. met 23 years ago at age 20 married now for 21 years now and still going strong..

ohhh and they do say you get less for murder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer being in lust .

The other four letter word is sooooooo over rated

Not if it really happenned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust"

Totally and unconditionally just the once... luckily for me its now... I am totally head over heels for my Master.... I love him in a way I never knew you could.. its unconditional, and pure as it comes... I never knew it could feel like this.. but its great.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe I ever have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and even worse when they are with someone else and will not leave them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer being in lust .

The other four letter word is sooooooo over rated

Not if it really happenned

Oh its happened...

Just dont want it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once: with my ex-husband. The first time he saw me I knew he'd been hit by Cupid's arrow. When that look faded 25 years later I left.

Thing is the look is back but I've changed. He'll always be special and is the father of my children.

I hope to love that deeply again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes and even worse when they are with someone else and will not leave them...."
- out of duty and family loyalty!

Agreed - but then you think of the phrase "Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all"

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

yes and still in love with hubby after 22yrs married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just the once here. she blew me away. met in August moved in together in October and married November of the same year.

It was good while it lasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never stop loving someone even if they have ripped your heart out and destoryed your trust in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, both love and lust. Wish I knew where to find both at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust"

Totally and utterly in love here.... have been for almost 11 years and can honestly say it gets deeper as the years tick on. What makes it extra special is that our bond involves lust too.... I feel so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep sure is a brilliant feeling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree...its the love and lust combination for me...so lucky to have had it twice in my life....one has mellowed into a deep friendship...but maybe 4 times a year the lust part again overwhelms us (ex hubby)...and my man...madly in love and crazy with lust...but massively incompatable cultures and lifestyles...it will never last long term I guess...but its heaven and hell at the same time...and at the moment I would rather have this ...than not have him in my life...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Only once....and still am after all these years.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, with my ex husband and it was love at first sight for both of us"

Obviously not love at last site though...shame !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...fell deeply in love at 13 and mrs thumb and her four daughters are still in love to this day !

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"yes, with my ex husband and it was love at first sight for both of us

Obviously not love at last site though...shame !

wrong I still love him very much and always will, just no longer IN love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, with my ex husband and it was love at first sight for both of us

Obviously not love at last site though...shame !

wrong I still love him very much and always will, just no longer IN love"

Well as I said ..shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think theres sooooo many levels of love any way..xx.but im a little wary of the whole love and lust thing..ive been so very hurt by the one person who said hed love me for ever..his loss though,coz im having a field day on here..!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes lots of times still love john and its now over 25 years its a deep love.... but loved others too x and lusted them as well x

LOVE LOVE LOVE XXX all we need x

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

What's love??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just the once. I thought I had been previous to that... but when I felt what I felt with him, nothing else even has come close, either before or since.

Can't explain it either... it consumed me.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx"

You will one day babe x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

You will one day babe x"

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You never stop loving someone even if they have ripped your heart out and destoryed your trust in them

Exactly.

So being still in love with someone in after some years , makes it difficult to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You never stop loving someone even if they have ripped your heart out and destoryed your trust in them

So very true. And that makes the sense of melancholy even worse. Deceit destroys the deceived and the deceiver slowly but surely and completely.............[reaches for kleenex]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I look in the mirror

Yip fell in love once when I was 17yrs old....

I'm 50 in a couple of weeks and her head is on my pillow still every morning.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx"

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

Chicken!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

you bring it on yourself you twonk!!!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

Chicken!

I had to say it babe, the world isn't ready for us... yet xxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

you bring it on yourself you twonk!!!!"

hehehe

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

you bring it on yourself you twonk!!!!"

I did warn him but he wouldn't believe me

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"For me just the once and I doubt I will ever feel that strongly about another.

They actually use this very forum xxx

For fuck's sake people I was talking about myself!!! I love me!

Stop with the PMs!

you bring it on yourself you twonk!!!!

I did warn him but he wouldn't believe me

The things some guys do to get mail eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 1 propose to her; but did not wanted 2 get married, after short time we split up: 7 years together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I've ever really been in love! Was with my ex husband for 15 years and when I look back on it now I'm not sure I ever loved him like that.

Not sure I'm ever going to love someone fully other thank my kids. I cant trust anyone enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my daughter if that counts

never been IN love though..

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By *inky24big35 OP Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

thought i was madly in love when i was 14 with one lad, we were onand off for a few yrs and i was obsessed with him.But when i met my husband when i was 17yrs ive neva felt intense love like it,he is the first person i wana tell everything to,the first person i want to be with me when i need them and i can neva see my life without him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have u ever been in love?

i mean head over heels,cant be away from that person love.

i use to get confused wen i was younger think i was in love with certain ppl i was seeing but i see now that it was lust"

£550 quid to renew me newcastle united season ticket.

a love supreme to none other ,constant passion massive highs and deeper lows but something you stick with and cant give up...mores the pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was with my over 18 years only 2 things good come out of it my 5 kids and can make great curry .can say never loved him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think I've ever really been in love! Was with my ex husband for 15 years and when I look back on it now I'm not sure I ever loved him like that.

Not sure I'm ever going to love someone fully I cant trust anyone enough."

that sums it up exactly for me, at the time i thought i was head over heels with my ex husband, now i look back and really do wonder if i ever was.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

yes and still am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"was with my over 18 years only 2 things good come out of it my 5 kids and can make great curry .can say never loved him ."

opps my ex

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