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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why,when I'm on here in my bi capacity and clearly state that I'm looking for female involvement/friendship, do I winks or messages from single men? Not only are they MEN but, more often than not, they're a couple of hundred miles away too. What's that all about?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block guys, there endeth your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look at winks?

I'd think a man would wink at a gay woman in the hope of attracting her and 'turning' her to liking him.

That's just my thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look at winks?

I'd think a man would wink at a gay woman in the hope of attracting her and 'turning' her to liking him.

That's just my thought."
Gay, moi, how very dare you? Cheerful on occasions, chipper even, but gay? No. Which kind of illustrates my point. People have the attention span of a menopausal goldfish and can't make it to the end of a short profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because according to some men you have no idea what you want,and it's up to them to convince you it's them you really want.

That's the only plausible explanation I can come up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you haven't blocked men from messaging you so they will message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you haven't blocked men from messaging you so they will message."
True, I suppose I should block them. Easily sorted. But I'm still baffled as to why they bother. One bloke just winked at me all the way from Southampton. I'll just get my coat and pop down there. He obviously knows more about me than I do...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just trying it on i think,we get messages and winks from couples looking for bi women which im not.I think couples,men and probably women are guilty of it.Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really not worth getting bothered about. Woman has profile on sex site - men will try their luck.

Even I get mail....

Zero angst here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you haven't blocked men from messaging you so they will message.True, I suppose I should block them. Easily sorted. But I'm still baffled as to why they bother. One bloke just winked at me all the way from Southampton. I'll just get my coat and pop down there. He obviously knows more about me than I do..."

a lot of people haven't upgraded so they've no idea how far away you are.

it's the main reason why i upgrade, as well as being able to keep up with ongoing conversations in the inbox.

but yes you think they'd read your profile or have some clue as to whether on not to message, i just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look at winks?

I'd think a man would wink at a gay woman in the hope of attracting her and 'turning' her to liking him.

That's just my thought.Gay, moi, how very dare you? Cheerful on occasions, chipper even, but gay? No. Which kind of illustrates my point. People have the attention span of a menopausal goldfish and can't make it to the end of a short profile! "

Please don't tar me with the same brush as you do them that winked st you. My attention span is finely tuned, I was simply trying to give an oppinion to your question. Once again, I'm persecuted for somebody else's mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from couples when my profile says I don't meet them, I don't block them because I'm happy to chat with them. It's usually the male tho asking the usual 'free now" kind of thing. Of you don't want any men to message you at all then block them or put up with it, easy choice really.

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