FabSwingers.com forum: instant turn-off

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

curious as to what puts people off when they receive a message. I don't respond well to guys stating they are looking for a mature lady.

For one I am usually neither and also it makes it sounds as if the main criteria is not who I am but just my advancing years.

What puts you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak, if they've only bothered to put a couple of words ("hey wanna chat") and anything crude - I'll get on to that in my own time thanks, but it's not my preferred way to start a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting cut and paste messages from people i have met who dont remember !!!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Text speak, if they've only bothered to put a couple of words ("hey wanna chat") and anything crude - I'll get on to that in my own time thanks, but it's not my preferred way to start a conversation. "

actually that puts me off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes who write and say you SEEM nice in your pics. Are they recent?

Or the ones that ask if Ive had a boob job.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"getting cut and paste messages from people i have met who dont remember !!! "

omg that is really bad, that puts my gripe into perspective!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

My top 3 too

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I have a foot fetish."

Makes me want to run away and hide!!!

Also, "looking for mature, bbw" makes me want to punch the person saying it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

copy and paste messages, cock avatars,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Blokes who write and say you SEEM nice in your pics. Are they recent?

Or the ones that ask if Ive had a boob job.

whhoops the list of turn offs is getting longer and yes, that would disturb me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna shag puts me off.Its goodbye from me.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

instant turn off are messages that either dont have a face pic attached or their profile has no face pics...

then again if they have attached a face pic more often than not that qualifies lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"copy and paste messages, cock avatars, "

Funny you should say that - cock pics dont bother me in teh right context but if that is all thats on offer like as an avatar with a one liner profile... yes I agree with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy, I don't get that many (hint hint)

Seriously though, text speak and anything which is hard to read, messages etc should be easy to read.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods.

I can totally understand that and my partner feels the same when we are approached on couple profile and they only talk to me!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Wanna shag puts me off.Its goodbye from me."

I cannot see how anybody would even expect a reply to that ...

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"instant turn off are messages that either dont have a face pic attached or their profile has no face pics...

then again if they have attached a face pic more often than not that qualifies lol"

I like to see a person's face more than anything...maybe women are more drawnto faces initially?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

the ones stating they are up here for couple of days working and staying in a lovely hotel .obviouly not bothered reading profile lol! .....delete !!!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

ok have a small list

would you meet on your own .. NO

can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO

can meet tonite, you interested .. NO

can i fuck you .. NO

have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY

what r you into .. not you

more might be added

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok have a small list

would you meet on your own .. NO

can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO

can meet tonite, you interested .. NO

can i fuck you .. NO

have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY

what r you into .. not you

more might be added

Small list, hate to see your big list

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

[Removed by poster at 24/03/11 17:43:45]

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA

There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge in a few minutes, I know it.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"ok have a small list

would you meet on your own .. NO

can i add you to see the rest of your pics ... NO

can meet tonite, you interested .. NO

can i fuck you .. NO

have only joined today, when would like to fuck .. GO AWAY

what r you into .. not you

more might be added

Small list, hate to see your big list

and im an easy going person as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey babe u so sexc"

yeah, thats a fuck off. erm, turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a pic of her pussy opened wide and text speak would put me off....oh and the bit about looking for a sugar daddy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the area tonight, wanna meet?

Fancy a fuck?

You ever considered professional wrestling?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

""Hey babe u so sexc"

yeah, thats a fuck off. erm, turn off."

Love your profile name

And yes, it kind of misses the introduction

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Just a pic of her pussy opened wide and text speak would put me off....oh and the bit about looking for a sugar daddy !

Actually that is really interesting from male perspective... can see where you are coming from

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"the ones stating they are up here for couple of days working and staying in a lovely hotel .obviouly not bothered reading profile lol! .....delete !!! "

Yeap! With you on that one, I just put back....and what part of my profile did you actually read?

They normally come back and say, none, cheeky bassa's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA

There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge

in a few minutes, I know it."

sexy old fat biddie who likes massive cock here ....shame u are so far away i wanted the best sex eva

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"hey if any v u old biddies fnacies a shag mail me ok u r sexy i lik fat birds 2 lolololol i hve a massv cock wanna snd me ur nmber right now saves tiem hun lets meet up 2nite i give u best sex EVA

There, that ought to do it. Now I needn't reply to anyone, they can just read this and form an orderly queue. I'm gonna be knee-deep in clunge in a few minutes, I know it."

If somebody said "i fancy a fat bird" ... I would probably direct the to the local organic poultry farm and ... while I am really quite laid back.. I might block them...

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

no face pic just a cock pic

wana play on cam?no piss off

last minute meets or when their really hard to chat to and im making loads of effort,sod off!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just addressing a message to me when its a couples profile

Asking me if Ill play on my own

Text speak or very crude language

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the word str8.. I don't do suckie suckie twenty dollar lessons to the closeted people.....

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"my m8 just text me sayin he met you and that I had to try you out"..umm....NOT

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

""my m8 just text me sayin he met you and that I had to try you out"..umm....NOT"

lol............ @ try you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in your area Wednesday and am free between 2 and 4pm, we can meet at my hotel or yours if you'd prefer..

I always reply saying their on the wrong site to book a whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for my first experience with an older/mature woman, often from the 20's age group but I've had them from guys in their late 30's and 40's age group too

Guys that when I RAC where they live, its 2hrs 19 mins from me

The guy that thinks he is hot and told me so

The guy with a couples profile that wanted me to join him on cam, guess his "wife" was busy

Text talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One liners that target Siren like I don't even exist, and then they stick a couple of xxx's at the end. I'll kiss another bloke but I gotta get to know him first, cheeky sods.

It pisses me off sometimes when people ignore my role in this JOINT profile as if I don't exist.

(now)

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

""my m8 just text me sayin he met you and that I had to try you out"..umm....NOT

lol............ @ try you out.

made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside it did...lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subject title with just a "Hi", with an equally simplistic one line message in the line of "How's are you?"; "Fancy a chat?" etc...

It shows that they have not bothered to read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock piks with no message annoy me. Just what are people trying to say to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When on a second message they ask am I talking to the m or f.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or "what do you like doing" - read the bliddy profile!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its

Can I spank you...

Hey slut, can I abuse you for your Master.

Wanna Fuck.

Can I piss on you.

That about sums it up for me.. sure there are a few more.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or "what do you like doing" - read the bliddy profile!!!!"

..... and "what you into?" -jigsaws and knitting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes deep breath...

Wanna try black

Wanna stretch my arse?

Hi babe/sexy/hun

Text speak

Young men

Women wanting me to try my non existent bi side

Couples where the male wants to meet

Smokers

Inane messages: ie Subject X, Message xx...why?!!

One line messages with cock pic attached

Men in hotels too cheap to pay for porn thinking I'll do

...and breath!

I've not finished, but deep healing breath, deep healing breath...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

someone wearing clogs..

just not a great look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or "what do you like doing" - read the bliddy profile!!!!"

Yes ive had that and from people that I have exchanged more than the introductory message with too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheaters sending me messages, especially when they claim to have read it twice

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

People who just have to tell you what their job is in their opening message like it is some sort of irresistible bait which will have you hooked.

Do people actually fall for it?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"People who just have to tell you what their job is in their opening message like it is some sort of irresistible bait which will have you hooked.

Do people actually fall for it?"

You mean that all these pilots are fibbing?....

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"People who just have to tell you what their job is in their opening message like it is some sort of irresistible bait which will have you hooked.

Do people actually fall for it?"

'Hey baby I'm a sewer cleaner and part time fish monger'

Nah it's not doing it for me either.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This might be a good time to remind everyone they have more filters now

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Text speak is a put off for us, I hate having to decipher it so I don't bother and they get a No thanks mail.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"This might be a good time to remind everyone they have more filters now

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters"

You mean we can filter the fish mongers now? Get in!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"This might be a good time to remind everyone they have more filters now

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You mean we can filter the fish mongers now? Get in!!!!!

Ok I have had a bad nights sleep and only one cup of tea up to now so my brain isn't on full speed..........what?????

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Strike that, just seen your post lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It doesn't matter the moment has gone.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

lol sorry

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