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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho?" i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either " cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. | |||
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"Yiu have already done this thread in another forum earlier... he was cucked by the lack of replies " cucked off..? | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. " yeah true, forgot to add that one in, thought I covered it all  | |||
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"I think I understand it as the cuck situ is more about the sub thing, that the cuck is 'made' to watch? I don't know tho. The whole labelling things pickles my brain! "I've seen things on "alpha" cuckolds, who are in charge of the whole things. But yeah generally the cuck is a sub to his wife | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. yeah true, forgot to add that one in, thought I covered it all "that's what it was originally. i think porn has brought some new definitions in? not really looked into it much and forgotten half i read about it a while back anyway. | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. yeah true, forgot to add that one in, thought I covered it all
that's what it was originally. i think porn has brought some new definitions in? not really looked into it much and forgotten half i read about it a while back anyway."I've spent too much time watching porn and reading about pointless shit | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. yeah true, forgot to add that one in, thought I covered it all
that's what it was originally. i think porn has brought some new definitions in? not really looked into it much and forgotten half i read about it a while back anyway. I've spent too much time watching porn and reading about pointless shit "i've found some good 3sums looking for cuckold porn. | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho?" Maybe, although from what I've read the act of watching the partner have sex without joining is cuck, although as mentioned above labels can be a bit of a pickle | |||
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"I think I understand it as the cuck situ is more about the sub thing, that the cuck is 'made' to watch? I don't know tho. The whole labelling things pickles my brain! I've seen things on "alpha" cuckolds, who are in charge of the whole things. But yeah generally the cuck is a sub to his wife "If it follows the same power plays of d/s relationships then it's the sub with the real power anyway | |||
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"I think I understand it as the cuck situ is more about the sub thing, that the cuck is 'made' to watch? I don't know tho. The whole labelling things pickles my brain! I've seen things on "alpha" cuckolds, who are in charge of the whole things. But yeah generally the cuck is a sub to his wife
If it follows the same power plays of d/s relationships then it's the sub with the real power anyway"if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it." See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. | |||
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"I think I understand it as the cuck situ is more about the sub thing, that the cuck is 'made' to watch? I don't know tho. The whole labelling things pickles my brain! I've seen things on "alpha" cuckolds, who are in charge of the whole things. But yeah generally the cuck is a sub to his wife "You know nothing. | |||
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"I think I understand it as the cuck situ is more about the sub thing, that the cuck is 'made' to watch? I don't know tho. The whole labelling things pickles my brain! I've seen things on "alpha" cuckolds, who are in charge of the whole things. But yeah generally the cuck is a sub to his wife
You know nothing."fuck, every time | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me." i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. " Is that not classed as cheating? | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action." Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!  | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? i think humiliation is specific to cuckolding. It seems interchangeable being a cuck or hotwife couple meaning the female fucks other guys. Some even use both and some don't use either cuckolding could just be the wife fucks other people without him even knowing. it's loads of different things really. Is that not classed as cheating?" basically yes. but that was the original meaning of cuckolding. sometimes she had kids to someone else and her husband never knew about it either. | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me." I guess in that instance it's about the dynamic of the couple in question. Maybe that's what it is, the individual dynamic | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying! "thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this. | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!
thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this."The d/s thing intrigues me a lot, but scares me in equal measure! It's something I could only explore with someone I trusted implicitly. Probably not someone I met on here for NSA  | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!
thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this.
The d/s thing intrigues me a lot, but scares me in equal measure! It's something I could only explore with someone I trusted implicitly. Probably not someone I met on here for NSA "i can do some stuff NSA but not much. and it's not the same mentally. you don't get that buzz off knowing you hold power over someone else. | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!
thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this.
The d/s thing intrigues me a lot, but scares me in equal measure! It's something I could only explore with someone I trusted implicitly. Probably not someone I met on here for NSA "In my experience it's really not the same nsa, from what I understand it's something that grows and develops over time | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!
thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this.
The d/s thing intrigues me a lot, but scares me in equal measure! It's something I could only explore with someone I trusted implicitly. Probably not someone I met on here for NSA
i can do some stuff NSA but not much. and it's not the same mentally. you don't get that buzz off knowing you hold power over someone else."Hmm, I'm not sure where I fit on the d/s spectrum. I am not confident enough to dominate someone but equally hate being told what to do! Haha | |||
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"Interesting subject OP. Different people seem to have different views on how it works. As far as I understand, the cuck thing tends to involve humiliation. Without that it seems to be hotwifing? Perhaps I'm totally misunderstanding it all tho? Maybe, although from what I've read the act of watching the partner have sex without joining is cuck, although as mentioned above labels can be a bit of a pickle " Na.. thats called taking a breather.. | |||
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" if i ever find a cuckold he won't get all the power. i'll find out what he likes and incorporate that into sex but i'm choosing who and when i fuck other guys. and he will like it. See that's how I understand the cuck situ to be. That's not my thing. but i get it. I would happily let a partner watch me with another guy, no issues. But there would be no humilition involved at all for me. i'm all for the humiliation as well but i need him to enjoy that. it's why i struggle to find truly submissive guys, they do not want to submit to me but start being all selfish and it pisses me off. going on about all the cocks they want and i feel like they're trying to use me to get more sex/action. Yeh I can see what you mean. That's annoying!
thanks, it is. i took the D/s element off my profile because of this.
The d/s thing intrigues me a lot, but scares me in equal measure! It's something I could only explore with someone I trusted implicitly. Probably not someone I met on here for NSA
i can do some stuff NSA but not much. and it's not the same mentally. you don't get that buzz off knowing you hold power over someone else.
Hmm, I'm not sure where I fit on the d/s spectrum.
I am not confident enough to dominate someone but equally hate being told what to do! Haha "i could be a bit submissive, like lie there and take it.
but my life has revolved around everyone but me for a long time and i'm going for what i want now coz that makes me happy now.
got to go out and pick up one of my kids, sorry for the short reply. i like chatting about this stuff too. | |||
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" i could be a bit submissive, like lie there and take it.
but my life has revolved around everyone but me for a long time and i'm going for what i want now coz that makes me happy now.
got to go out and pick up one of my kids, sorry for the short reply. i like chatting about this stuff too."No worries! I can totally see the attraction from that point of view. It's a similar thing for me, but I've gone the other way. I want to be the centre of attention for a change  | |||
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" i could be a bit submissive, like lie there and take it.
but my life has revolved around everyone but me for a long time and i'm going for what i want now coz that makes me happy now.
got to go out and pick up one of my kids, sorry for the short reply. i like chatting about this stuff too.
No worries!
I can totally see the attraction from that point of view. It's a similar thing for me, but I've gone the other way. I want to be the centre of attention for a change "he's getting a lift now, only found out 5 mins after i set off though lol. yeah i love being the centre of attention and doing what i want, i know it's selfish but sometimes i need that. | |||
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" i could be a bit submissive, like lie there and take it.
but my life has revolved around everyone but me for a long time and i'm going for what i want now coz that makes me happy now.
got to go out and pick up one of my kids, sorry for the short reply. i like chatting about this stuff too.
No worries!
I can totally see the attraction from that point of view. It's a similar thing for me, but I've gone the other way. I want to be the centre of attention for a change
he's getting a lift now, only found out 5 mins after i set off though lol.
yeah i love being the centre of attention and doing what i want, i know it's selfish but sometimes i need that. "a good cuck wants you to be selfish tho right? | |||
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" i could be a bit submissive, like lie there and take it.
but my life has revolved around everyone but me for a long time and i'm going for what i want now coz that makes me happy now.
got to go out and pick up one of my kids, sorry for the short reply. i like chatting about this stuff too.
No worries!
I can totally see the attraction from that point of view. It's a similar thing for me, but I've gone the other way. I want to be the centre of attention for a change
he's getting a lift now, only found out 5 mins after i set off though lol.
yeah i love being the centre of attention and doing what i want, i know it's selfish but sometimes i need that.
a good cuck wants you to be selfish tho right?"one suitable for me would yeah. i did read some good psychological forums where guys talked about this stuff, a lot knew their mrs was cheating on them and not telling them about it but they liked that. well there was all kinds of stuff being said, will have to try and find them again, it was interesting. | |||
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"Its all about tease and denial, without that, it doesn't work. " Clem, would you mind elaborating please? | |||
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"Its all about tease and denial, without that, it doesn't work. Clem, would you mind elaborating please?" Yes, I'm intrigued. Although this thread has kind of become more about d/s than cuck. If d/s is about that then it's slightly different from what I imagined | |||
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"Its all about tease and denial, without that, it doesn't work. Clem, would you mind elaborating please?" When I've got time, or pm me and I'll get back to you. | |||
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"Its all about tease and denial, without that, it doesn't work. Clem, would you mind elaborating please? When I've got time, or pm me and I'll get back to you. " I can't, you've blocked my age range. You should be able to PM tho xx | |||
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