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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Remember when the forum used to be fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I joined Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember chalk hearts fading on a playground wall.

Does that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, this is what it's always been like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It goes through phases, sometimes linked to the moon.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

The forum is what you make it.

It is a lot calmer now that the political threads have been exiled to Siberia.

I hope it doesn't get too fluffy and sugary in the lounge now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forum is what you make it.

It is a lot calmer now that the political threads have been exiled to Siberia.

I hope it doesn't get too fluffy and sugary in the lounge now"

I agree. Group hug.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?"

I've not been on in that long. But it's fun to me. Obviously fun it's different for everyone.

What do you consider it's fun op? Why don't you bring the fun back to it?

MrsSB

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By *illbo BagginsMan
over a year ago

Peterhead

Hardly in it just having a look see what goes on in here

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It can be at times...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?

I've not been on in that long. But it's fun to me. Obviously fun it's different for everyone.

What do you consider it's fun op? Why don't you bring the fun back to it?

MrsSB "

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?"

I remember when all this was fields

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?"

Why don't you make it so, the rest of us will follow your lead

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up. "

No. That was shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember chalk hearts fading on a playground wall.

Does that help? "

They were chalk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?

Why don't you make it so, the rest of us will follow your lead "

It's a question of management.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember chalk hearts fading on a playground wall.

Does that help? "

Do you remember the cherry blossom in the market square?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pepperidge farm remembers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums have always been the same ...

It's the people who contribute that make them what they are..

Some people are fun

Some are just here for aggro

C'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pepperidge farm remembers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up.

No. That was shit!"

Seconded. Very boring I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make my own fun if its not fun i just take a break xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw. it always makes me laugh on forums when one person makes a topic, then someone else innocently makes one, then loads pop up for fun.

although one site i used to used banned people from doing that coz it was considered LQ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ....

But then one says something considered to be inappropriate and the fun is taken away for 24 hours , then 48 ....

So the fluffy love ins are the way forward if you want to stay active .

Now and then a thread pops up and you think ' wow , it's about time someone said something interesting ' and the thread gets hijacked , and the original subject matter is forgotten .

So , in summation ...

Does anyone fancy a fuck ?

Is my cock big enough ?

Kiss , fuck or slap ?

How do we find a unicorn ?

Oh , and our favourite ....

Fab our pics

All of the above are free from controversy - but whether they're fun is open to conjecture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egocentrism

No wonder

Adults eehhh no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

If it's no fun any more,why are we still here I wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's no fun any more,why are we still here I wonder!"

Hoping a few people will decide to pxxx off

Not you a like your posts xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I do ....

But then one says something considered to be inappropriate and the fun is taken away for 24 hours , then 48 ....

So the fluffy love ins are the way forward if you want to stay active .

Now and then a thread pops up and you think ' wow , it's about time someone said something interesting ' and the thread gets hijacked , and the original subject matter is forgotten .

So , in summation ...

Does anyone fancy a fuck ?

Is my cock big enough ?

Kiss , fuck or slap ?

How do we find a unicorn ?

Oh , and our favourite ....

Fab our pics

All of the above are free from controversy - but whether they're fun is open to conjecture

"

ahh the good old days when the tesco thread and the one man shed gangbang, when nocturnal went on for 7 threads a night, the avatar challenges, the..the..and then the long dark winter came...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"It can be at times..."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Egocentrism

No wonder

Adults eehhh no "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been about much lately so they're bound to be a bit shitter because of that i dare say.

Sorry folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remember when fab used to be sexy. But lately it seems you can't even discuss sex on the "swingers forum" without a NIMBY having to shake their head at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been about much lately so they're bound to be a bit shitter because of that i dare say.

Sorry folks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember when fab used to be sexy. But lately it seems you can't even discuss sex on the "swingers forum" without a NIMBY having to shake their head at you. "

A fair and valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfft I even started a crap jokes thread yesterday and everything

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"If it's no fun any more,why are we still here I wonder!

Hoping a few people will decide to pxxx off

Not you a like your posts xx"

Thanks,I won't pxxx off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make my own fun if its not fun i just take a break xx"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up. "

And the happy birthday threads.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up.

And the happy birthday threads. "

Yes,I do believe some of the culprits are on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it was last night when all those appreciation topics popped up.

And the happy birthday threads.

Yes,I do believe some of the culprits are on this thread "

That reminds me, BRB.....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes I do before it went all sort of sickly sweet, where has the killer sarcasm disappeared too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the best time was when show us your face first came about, think it got to something like part 20+

I bumped up a few leaving threads from ages ago and loads of people rushed to say goodbye or say something because they hadn't left, proves how many don't read the OP fully. was pretty funny when people realised they'd been duped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember when fab used to be sexy. But lately it seems you can't even discuss sex on the "swingers forum" without a NIMBY having to shake their head at you. "

Whats a NIMBY?

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"I remember when fab used to be sexy. But lately it seems you can't even discuss sex on the "swingers forum" without a NIMBY having to shake their head at you.

Whats a NIMBY?"

Not In My Back Yard = NIMBY

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"Yes I do before it went all sort of sickly sweet, where has the killer sarcasm disappeared too "

I agree it's either all out let's gun down the op or its like an adult playground.Even when a decent thread comes up it gets hijacked by people with their in jokes that has nothing to do with the threads.I flit on and off the forums and recently it's not even worth posting or starting a thread as some people just like reading their own writing. (Well I can't say like the sound of their own voice).Fun on the forums is what you make it and when it's not fun I don't participate.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

No I don't remember haven't been on them long though. For supposedly like minded liberal people on here it doesn't take much with a simple opinion to offend. I enjoy the challenging and interesting debates though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when it was old school lol and our invasions of Canada chat rooms lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember white chalky dog poo...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think its okay.

if it bores me, I log off.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definately better with out brexit threads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't remember haven't been on them long though. For supposedly like minded liberal people on here it doesn't take much with a simple opinion to offend. I enjoy the challenging and interesting debates though."

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"No I don't remember haven't been on them long though. For supposedly like minded liberal people on here it doesn't take much with a simple opinion to offend. I enjoy the challenging and interesting debates though."

Being "like minded and liberal" doesn't stop some people coming across as a complete cock though

There is a saying that basically being honest and frank is just an excuse to be rude to people's faces, sometimes it's a good idea to stop and think before pressing the buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like the forums atm cos I'm being ignored again! Plus all these newbies are coming in n throwing there wieght around. Bring back the clique. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't remember haven't been on them long though. For supposedly like minded liberal people on here it doesn't take much with a simple opinion to offend. I enjoy the challenging and interesting debates though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember white dog shite

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes, it seems some people just are on the attack constantly and are nasty for the sake of it

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By *halk and cheese 69Man
over a year ago

walsall

is that of the song kayleigh lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it seems some people just are on the attack constantly and are nasty for the sake of it"

Love your avatar xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it seems some people just are on the attack constantly and are nasty for the sake of it"

Toxic people trying to ruin the fun..

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Yes, it seems some people just are on the attack constantly and are nasty for the sake of it

Love your avatar xx"

Thank you very much x

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Remember when the forum used to be fun ?"

it's an online forum some times it will be relaxed and other times it will be heated...

it just seems that for some reason there are a fair few individuals who get angry or kick up an argument over anything depending on the subject or launch attacks at one another some times over nothing...

Things I hate the most is the constant use off the term "white knight" or just the usual petty arguments which surface up now and then..

overall the forum for fab is just....well the forum I suppose some days you like it and others you down right hate it and some off the people in it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

People used to put quizes up and do alsorts then people would argue over the most stupid things. I remember when we started the forum oscars they where brilliant noone would read more into it than abit of fun i know whoever did this years bloody chaos broke out. So people dont do stuff.

If you organized a social you said date and time a d that was enough.

Someone to always argue with everything.

But its still fun else i wouldnt be here. But to many take themselces and the forums to seriously.

Some nights its brilliant when the banter starts and some nights noone can be bothered. Even i have my moments of being funny whats a nimby though

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I do ....

But then one says something considered to be inappropriate and the fun is taken away for 24 hours , then 48 ....

So the fluffy love ins are the way forward if you want to stay active .

Now and then a thread pops up and you think ' wow , it's about time someone said something interesting ' and the thread gets hijacked , and the original subject matter is forgotten .

So , in summation ...

Does anyone fancy a fuck ?

Is my cock big enough ?

Kiss , fuck or slap ?

How do we find a unicorn ?

Oh , and our favourite ....

Fab our pics

All of the above are free from controversy - but whether they're fun is open to conjecture

"

We need a 'how to rock a graveyard and bag a preoperative TS' thread.....

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"People used to put quizes up and do alsorts then people would argue over the most stupid things. I remember when we started the forum oscars they where brilliant noone would read more into it than abit of fun i know whoever did this years bloody chaos broke out. So people dont do stuff.

If you organized a social you said date and time a d that was enough.

Someone to always argue with everything.

But its still fun else i wouldnt be here. But to many take themselces and the forums to seriously.

Some nights its brilliant when the banter starts and some nights noone can be bothered. Even i have my moments of being funny whats a nimby though"

Nimby is NOT IN MY BACK YARD.

And I've seen the most delightful threads spoilt too - I recall one happy one in particular, but won't mention it or it'll probably start another argument!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

[Removed by poster at 30/06/16 16:05:26]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a different idea of 'fun'.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think it depends whose on and whats on television at night.

I dont really watch much television so i come on here instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has a different idea of 'fun'. "

Indeed. There's A few fisherman who like to cast their bait, see who bites then pop them safely into the keep net (naughty step)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do ....

But then one says something considered to be inappropriate and the fun is taken away for 24 hours , then 48 ....

So the fluffy love ins are the way forward if you want to stay active .

Now and then a thread pops up and you think ' wow , it's about time someone said something interesting ' and the thread gets hijacked , and the original subject matter is forgotten .

So , in summation ...

Does anyone fancy a fuck ?

Is my cock big enough ?

Kiss , fuck or slap ?

How do we find a unicorn ?

Oh , and our favourite ....

Fab our pics

All of the above are free from controversy - but whether they're fun is open to conjecture

We need a 'how to rock a graveyard and bag a preoperative TS' thread..... "

I'm halfway there on the happy day thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone mentioned the offended people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People used to put quizes up and do alsorts then people would argue over the most stupid things. I remember when we started the forum oscars they where brilliant noone would read more into it than abit of fun i know whoever did this years bloody chaos broke out. So people dont do stuff.

If you organized a social you said date and time a d that was enough.

Someone to always argue with everything.

But its still fun else i wouldnt be here. But to many take themselces and the forums to seriously.

Some nights its brilliant when the banter starts and some nights noone can be bothered. Even i have my moments of being funny whats a nimby though

Nimby is NOT IN MY BACK YARD.

And I've seen the most delightful threads spoilt too - I recall one happy one in particular, but won't mention it or it'll probably start another argument! "

I can't follow the conversation "Not I My Back Yard" what does that mean is it a northern thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is that of the song kayleigh lol xx"

Well spotted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone mentioned the offended people?"

It's ok to be offended....it's irritating to be offended on behalf of others....especially when they aren't offended themselves

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Welcome To The House Of Fun - Madness

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufBJo8-AvUk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the forums are the same as they have always been. I havn't noticed any change apart from politics took over for a while.

There are people here that are interesting and thoughtful and there are people here who like to belittle and argue. Same as in everyday life.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

They're much nicer than some other places

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"People used to put quizes up and do alsorts then people would argue over the most stupid things. I remember when we started the forum oscars they where brilliant noone would read more into it than abit of fun i know whoever did this years bloody chaos broke out. So people dont do stuff.

If you organized a social you said date and time a d that was enough.

Someone to always argue with everything.

But its still fun else i wouldnt be here. But to many take themselces and the forums to seriously.

Some nights its brilliant when the banter starts and some nights noone can be bothered. Even i have my moments of being funny whats a nimby though

Nimby is NOT IN MY BACK YARD.

And I've seen the most delightful threads spoilt too - I recall one happy one in particular, but won't mention it or it'll probably start another argument!

I can't follow the conversation "Not I My Back Yard" what does that mean is it a northern thing?"

No cause I have a garden lol

Just means not on your own doorstep really x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I do ....

But then one says something considered to be inappropriate and the fun is taken away for 24 hours , then 48 ....

So the fluffy love ins are the way forward if you want to stay active .

Now and then a thread pops up and you think ' wow , it's about time someone said something interesting ' and the thread gets hijacked , and the original subject matter is forgotten .

So , in summation ...

Does anyone fancy a fuck ?

Is my cock big enough ?

Kiss , fuck or slap ?

How do we find a unicorn ?

Oh , and our favourite ....

Fab our pics

All of the above are free from controversy - but whether they're fun is open to conjecture

We need a 'how to rock a graveyard and bag a preoperative TS' thread.....

I'm halfway there on the happy day thread "

I've responded to that one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone mentioned the offended people?"
that's really offensive to the people that get offended over everything, it's triggering me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're much nicer than some other places "

They definitely are. Some forums will tear you to pieces if you do something they disagree with, I've seen it in action.

Here's generally fun. Like anywhere there are days of nothing much and days of comedy gold.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time the forums are fine. There are some real characters on here and I like the laddish banter between some of the men, it's funny to see

Some threads get heated, but with so many people on a site it's inevitable that some are going to say something that cheeses you off or catches you on a bad day.

I enjoy it, on the whole, but then I'm fairly new so don't know what it was like previously.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sometimes some of the most 'unfunny' threads give the best laughs...

the variety is what keeps it alive and although I find most of little interest, you see others enjoy them and that's a positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do before it went all sort of sickly sweet, where has the killer sarcasm disappeared too

I agree it's either all out let's gun down the op or its like an adult playground.Even when a decent thread comes up it gets hijacked by people with their in jokes that has nothing to do with the threads.I flit on and off the forums and recently it's not even worth posting or starting a thread as some people just like reading their own writing. (Well I can't say like the sound of their own voice).Fun on the forums is what you make it and when it's not fun I don't participate. "

I've never known it to have so many 'in jokes' before & I've been posting for 3 years. I feel like a newbie at times.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

*sings*..."do you remember the good old days before the ghost town"?

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