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"Like playing Russian roulette" think they give out prizes now if you say that. | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette think they give out prizes now if you say that. " They do! I've heard it's a site supporters pass for the first Russian roulette post in a bareback thread! | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " Don't meet them then. The only sexual health I can control is my own. | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " if that's the case then use them as a filter to block and move on, but really its up to them what they do... for swingers we really are quite judgemental | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette" One in 6 chance of dying? You have heard of antibiotics I take it. | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " Block and move on... It ain't worth the hassle | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " Yeah, as meeting strangers on a sex site to fuck after exchanging a couple of messages is sooooo risk free! I do find it risible when "deviants" on a sex site saddle up and mount their moral high horses because other "deviants" take more risk than them. Please! | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications if that's the case then use them as a filter to block and move on, but really its up to them what they do... for swingers we really are quite judgemental " Another form of "look at me, I play safe" for some. | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " nope do a search and you will see how many other people feel the same as you | |||
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"What exactly are y'all so afraid of? Genuine question. " If you had to guess? | |||
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"I never jump on a horse without a saddle " I often ride my horse bareback. Such power beneath my legs. But I wouldn't ride a cock bareback | |||
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"I block them and the ones they have met " If you block them then you won't see who else they've been with. Just saying. | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... " Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... " Thanks Joey from friends | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... Thanks Joey from friends " 99%safer than not using one at all though | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... " | |||
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"i get myself checked out for STDs. and no it doesn't bother me if someone fucks a lot of people bareback and i've fucked them myself." Bit late once you have AIDS | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... Thanks Joey from friends " They should put that on the box!!! | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... Thanks Joey from friends They should put that on the box!!!" Bingo | |||
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"i get myself checked out for STDs. and no it doesn't bother me if someone fucks a lot of people bareback and i've fucked them myself. Bit late once you have AIDS " i haven't got aids though. | |||
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"i get myself checked out for STDs. and no it doesn't bother me if someone fucks a lot of people bareback and i've fucked them myself. Bit late once you have AIDS i haven't got aids though." How do you know? Takes 6 weeks to present itself, could not find out until it's too late | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette" Isn't that Shags line on this matter? | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... " If only Ronseal made condoms... OR Carlsberg... | |||
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"A lot of us have probably had sex with people who are hiv positive have herpes etc,without even realising it... As someone said earlier take responsibility for yourself,practice safer sex and no need for hysteria or games of Russian roulette.Allow others to make decisions for themselves. .It doesn't involve you." Horrible thought , but it's true | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " I am selective and take a long time vetting someone before sex. I get tested every month. And yes, I play bareback and am not afraid to admit to it. I'm still standing and doing well. Now you can block me. | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... " Irony detector needed, lol. | |||
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"Because condoms are 100% safe and verifications are the honest and full account of a person's entire sexual history... Condoms are not 100% safe it says on the box... Irony detector needed, lol. " Someone needs a trip to the Sheldon cooper school of sarcasm | |||
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"I block them and the ones they have met " Good thinking batman, might steal that trick ourselves! | |||
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"I block them and the ones they have met " Why stop there ? Block them, those they have met, those that they have met have met and so on ... Until there's just you and a little fat bloke from Plymouth left But he's married so that rules him out | |||
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"Am I the only person who finds bareback only profiles way to risky especially when they have a fairly high number of verifications " Just don't meet them, don't get on your moral high horse. Simples XXX What do you expect to see on a sex/swinging site, nuns??? | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette" If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... " But on the second spin, assuming the first hasn't been fired, the weight is still the same and just as likely to end up in the bottom? This could end up a statistics/probability thread! | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... But on the second spin, assuming the first hasn't been fired, the weight is still the same and just as likely to end up in the bottom? This could end up a statistics/probability thread!" If the gun isn't well maintained, there could be binding or imbalance of the cylinder, adding to the equation... | |||
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"I don't bareback for one reason. There is something you can get from barebacking that's worse than any sti and AIDS.... It's called children... AIDS will kill you , children are forever " Well said | |||
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"Okay, disregard what I said. Don't play Russian roulette, have sex without a condom.... It's safer... " You do realise I'm going to think about this all day now! I'll have an equation written up!! You'll get a ranty message later from the good lady moaning because I've been trying to work out probability! | |||
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"Understand the message fully......but never once heard a lady voice her concern or objection to a bare tongue touching a bare clit . Or is it just evil willies that spread something nasty and all pussys don't ? Or , don't they care ? All aboard the hypocrosy express ! " and the number of females who suck a strangers cock without condom, but hey; they say that's okay, its safe, so if they say it, it sure must be | |||
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"I take it those of you who don't do bareback don't. 1) kiss .......bleeding gums 2) fist........cut on hands/pussy Ect ect... Some of you are so misinformed. You get AIDS from blood to blood contact, not just sex. " You expect people on here to be informed?! These threads are really about people saying hey look at me, I'm a good boy/girl. Nothing to do with reason! Bit like the racism threads. They are often a competition to show who is the least racist, but the subtext is please fuck me! | |||
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"I take it those of you who don't do bareback don't. 1) kiss .......bleeding gums 2) fist........cut on hands/pussy Ect ect... Some of you are so misinformed. You get AIDS from blood to blood contact, not just sex. You expect people on here to be informed?! These threads are really about people saying hey look at me, I'm a good boy/girl. Nothing to do with reason! Bit like the racism threads. They are often a competition to show who is the least racist, but the subtext is please fuck me!" racist | |||
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"I take it those of you who don't do bareback don't. 1) kiss .......bleeding gums 2) fist........cut on hands/pussy Ect ect... Some of you are so misinformed. You get AIDS from blood to blood contact, not just sex. You expect people on here to be informed?! These threads are really about people saying hey look at me, I'm a good boy/girl. Nothing to do with reason! Bit like the racism threads. They are often a competition to show who is the least racist, but the subtext is please fuck me! racist " Sat nav set for Scotland! | |||
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" Sat nav set for Scotland!" Sat nav set for England (meet you half way) I have a hotel booked on the borders | |||
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" I know plenty of people who bareback. Does that make me 'cool'? " Yes I know two people who bare back..my mother and father Does that make me cool? | |||
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"Okay, disregard what I said. Don't play Russian roulette, have sex without a condom.... It's safer... You do realise I'm going to think about this all day now! I'll have an equation written up!! You'll get a ranty message later from the good lady moaning because I've been trying to work out probability! " Obviously if you put one round in a magazine type pistol you get a different result... | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... " Thats why you spin it with the barrel out then do the cool little flick to lock it into place. | |||
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"I take it those of you who don't do bareback don't. 1) kiss .......bleeding gums 2) fist........cut on hands/pussy Ect ect... Some of you are so misinformed. You get AIDS from blood to blood contact, not just sex. " Except of course that the chances of getting aids from kissing are several orders of magnitude less likely than unprotected sex. Just like how there's a chance youll die in a car crash every time you drive so you be sensible not say drivw on the wrong side of the road on a blind bend. | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... " Actually thinking this isnt true. The cylinder is a racheting system. For the weight to bias it to the bottom it would need to be truley free spinning it would most likley stop with the bullet in the 3 chambers on the "up" side of the spin (left for a clock wise turning barrel) as thats where it would lose most energy and most likley to fail to over come the ratchet. | |||
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"Understand the message fully......but never once heard a lady voice her concern or objection to a bare tongue touching a bare clit . Or is it just evil willies that spread something nasty and all pussys don't ? Or , don't they care ? All aboard the hypocrosy express ! and the number of females who suck a strangers cock without condom, but hey; they say that's okay, its safe, so if they say it, it sure must be " No, just lower risk and a level of risk they have decided is acceptable. | |||
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"I take it those of you who don't do bareback don't. 1) kiss .......bleeding gums 2) fist........cut on hands/pussy Ect ect... Some of you are so misinformed. You get AIDS from blood to blood contact, not just sex. " I kiss, yes, but I use latex or nitrile gloves for fisting. | |||
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"Myself and the Mr go bareback... But with others safe sex only! I do suck and lick ect ect. And have regular sexual health checks. But then again when your stood up for a meet your not likely to catch anything other than a cold! " Standing up to shag prevents pregnancy too. | |||
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"Nothing much to be afraid of really just.. Chlamydia. Gonorrhea Syphilis Herpes Hepatitis HIV Thrush Genital warts All worth catching really. (NOT)" All bar three are curable with antibiotics, and two of the other three you can catch despite wearing condoms. A sense of proportion is required when it comes to STIs. Most of them are not the equivalent of a 1 in 6 chance of shooting yourself through the head. | |||
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"Nothing much to be afraid of really just.. Chlamydia. Gonorrhea Syphilis Herpes Hepatitis HIV Thrush Genital warts All worth catching really. (NOT) All bar three are curable with antibiotics, and two of the other three you can catch despite wearing condoms. A sense of proportion is required when it comes to STIs. Most of them are not the equivalent of a 1 in 6 chance of shooting yourself through the head." No worries, we can always use full body condoms | |||
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"Nothing much to be afraid of really just.. Chlamydia. Gonorrhea Syphilis Herpes Hepatitis HIV Thrush Genital warts All worth catching really. (NOT) All bar three are curable with antibiotics, and two of the other three you can catch despite wearing condoms. A sense of proportion is required when it comes to STIs. Most of them are not the equivalent of a 1 in 6 chance of shooting yourself through the head. No worries, we can always use full body condoms " Hazmat suit | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... Actually thinking this isnt true. The cylinder is a racheting system. For the weight to bias it to the bottom it would need to be truley free spinning it would most likley stop with the bullet in the 3 chambers on the "up" side of the spin (left for a clock wise turning barrel) as thats where it would lose most energy and most likley to fail to over come the ratchet. " It was just something I read a little while ago... Not thinking of testing it... | |||
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"Glad you can't catch any of them diseases from being fingered after a man has just fingered another woman. Or do all women make men wear a condom on their hands,as washing does not stop any disease. Just cleans your hands.no such thing as safe sex.just less risky sex" Wait what? Did you really just day that washing doesn't stop disease? This isnt the 1800s any more. Soap or disinfecting gells will kill pretty much everything on your hands. Thats why post operative infections are not a certainty like they used to be | |||
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"Like playing Russian roulette If you are going to play Russian roulette, take the first turn. Once the cylinder stops spinning, the single round is most likely to end up at the bottom due to its weight... Actually thinking this isnt true. The cylinder is a racheting system. For the weight to bias it to the bottom it would need to be truley free spinning it would most likley stop with the bullet in the 3 chambers on the "up" side of the spin (left for a clock wise turning barrel) as thats where it would lose most energy and most likley to fail to over come the ratchet. It was just something I read a little while ago... Not thinking of testing it... " Im already looking at revolver airaoft guns tontest the theory | |||
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"Nothing much to be afraid of really just.. Chlamydia. Gonorrhea Syphilis Herpes Hepatitis HIV Thrush Genital warts All worth catching really. (NOT) All bar three are curable with antibiotics, and two of the other three you can catch despite wearing condoms. A sense of proportion is required when it comes to STIs. Most of them are not the equivalent of a 1 in 6 chance of shooting yourself through the head." Nice to see some people are well informed! And guess what? Your not going to die from any of them!!! This day and age even if you contracted HIV you are very unlikely to get aids due to modern medicine. These threads always make me giggle. Considering we are all supposed to be a big group of sexually liberated adults, most of you are totally ignorant about sexual health. It's the same with the "I get checked every month" brigade. Really? What a waste of nhs funds you are. 2 weeks after unprotected sex and every 3-6 months if your using protection or not having sex with a different partner every day. But I'm guessing if you'd ever set foot in a gum clinic you would know this as this is the advice given! | |||
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"If you catch something off someone through your hands washing them cures it then does it.no need to worry then.we can all wash our cocks in antibacterial soap" O.o What you just said they'd catch it by fingering one woman then another If woman A had a disease man fingers her then cleans hands then fingers woman B woman B wont catch anything. For somone who describes themsleves as "clean" you seem to lack a knowledge of basic hygiene | |||
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"Nothing much to be afraid of really just.. Chlamydia. Gonorrhea Syphilis Herpes Hepatitis HIV Thrush Genital warts All worth catching really. (NOT) All bar three are curable with antibiotics, and two of the other three you can catch despite wearing condoms. A sense of proportion is required when it comes to STIs. Most of them are not the equivalent of a 1 in 6 chance of shooting yourself through the head. Nice to see some people are well informed! And guess what? Your not going to die from any of them!!! This day and age even if you contracted HIV you are very unlikely to get aids due to modern medicine. These threads always make me giggle. Considering we are all supposed to be a big group of sexually liberated adults, most of you are totally ignorant about sexual health. It's the same with the "I get checked every month" brigade. Really? What a waste of nhs funds you are. 2 weeks after unprotected sex and every 3-6 months if your using protection or not having sex with a different partner every day. But I'm guessing if you'd ever set foot in a gum clinic you would know this as this is the advice given! " actually for those of us that meet regular monthly testing is advised... its the same advice as sex workers .... | |||
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"Well done.but have you ever seen anybody in group play keep nipping off to wash his or her hands" Sonnow youve changed your point from wahsing hands doesnt work to it does work but people dont do it.... Well done and thats what antibacterial wipes and hand gels are for my friend. Again for some who thinks thier clenliness is a selling point you seem determined to avoid it | |||
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"If you catch something off someone through your hands washing them cures it then does it.no need to worry then.we can all wash our cocks in antibacterial soap O.o What you just said they'd catch it by fingering one woman then another If woman A had a disease man fingers her then cleans hands then fingers woman B woman B wont catch anything. For somone who describes themsleves as "clean" you seem to lack a knowledge of basic hygiene " lm going to say I've never in all my years of clubs seen anyone wash or use wipes when swapping from woman to woman or guy to guy x or mouths. x | |||
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"Never have I said I didn't wash my hands or go bareback. That is your assumption.will a man washing his hands before fingering a woman stop her catching any disease if already has one.let me answer because I can see you are struggling. No it won't . You still think it is 100% safe" Nobody has claimed any sex act is 100% safe. You said, initially, handwashing doesn't kill bacteria and other infectious organisms. In the most part it does, if it's done properly. Changing your claim now doesn't make your original point less wrong. And defensive bluster doesn't make that less obvious. | |||
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