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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One way or another, I'm getting my money

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"One way or another, I'm getting my money "

I'm feeling the same at the minute just unsure of what route to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way? "

Big Ron only charges 20% of debt and guarantees full recovery

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Cut their legs off and ransom them.

Never lend money you can't afford never to get back. Ideally never lend money; gift it or don't give it.

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Send my boys round

Princess xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the small claims.It worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any paperwork?

If not.. Good luck!

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Cut their legs off and ransom them.

Never lend money you can't afford never to get back. Ideally never lend money; gift it or don't give it."

It was earnt not Lent. But after being messed about by the same person over something else I really need it for Friday

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Any paperwork?

If not.. Good luck!"

I have a text conversation confirming the transaction.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Judge rinder..

Not sure of the circumstances op, Not easy which ever way you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be fair with them give them a chance they might have problems but tell them if it's not there for when you need it there troubles are only just starting lol one more point if your gonna owe someone any cash make sure it's a lot of money at least they won't bury you cos they won't get there cash . Don't ask how I know lol

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Judge rinder..

Not sure of the circumstances op, Not easy which ever way you go. "

He was a good friend but not anymore. Not sure I could go on judge rinder for £200. I know it isn't alot but I do need it

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?"

I earnt it. It's commission for selling something for them

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Judge rinder..

Not sure of the circumstances op, Not easy which ever way you go.

He was a good friend but not anymore. Not sure I could go on judge rinder for £200. I know it isn't alot but I do need it "

I was trying (likely failing) to be light hearted..

I've lent money to friends and it's caused issues between us, I've been owed money be others ,

Be polite but firm in your communications, Good luck op, it's not easy .

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Judge rinder..

Not sure of the circumstances op, Not easy which ever way you go.

He was a good friend but not anymore. Not sure I could go on judge rinder for £200. I know it isn't alot but I do need it

I was trying (likely failing) to be light hearted..

I've lent money to friends and it's caused issues between us, I've been owed money be others ,

Be polite but firm in your communications, Good luck op, it's not easy ."

If he owed me £2000 I would go on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always write off lent money before i even lend it, it's easier that way and less hassle to my head.

and i never lend to anyone who has previously not paid me back on another loan. and if anyone gives me the vibe of using for me money they are out of my life.

didn't answer your question but that's how i work. i don't have massive amounts of money to lend so it's not a big deal to me when i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would look for him, I would find him, and I would get my money back !

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

I didn't lend it. I sold something for someone and they keep messing me about over when I will get my commission. Was supposed to be today but they didn't turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CAB would help but they usually have weeks worth of wait for appointments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way? "

I'd hire Liam Neeson as we all know he will find them and then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't lend it. I sold something for someone and they keep messing me about over when I will get my commission. Was supposed to be today but they didn't turn up "

Small claims court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much is it Hun and why do you need it so bad .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much. And to who. I wouldnt lend it unless i could afford to lose it tbh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother has owed me £150 for over a year, not really a lot I can do about it considering he's family haha

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have lent money to my best friend and never got it back. But I knew I never would as she'd never be able to.

I'm not aggrieved by this. She has repaid me in many other ways.

If you don't want to lose a friend, write it off.

Or simply don't loan it out in the first place.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"I have lent money to my best friend and never got it back. But I knew I never would as she'd never be able to.

I'm not aggrieved by this. She has repaid me in many other ways.

If you don't want to lose a friend, write it off.

Or simply don't loan it out in the first place. "

I didn't loan it. I worked for it. He is no longer a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way?

I'd hire Liam Neeson as we all know he will find them and then ..."

Is there an echo in this thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how much is it and why do you need it so bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would look for him, I would find him, and I would get my money back !"

This......... but in addition, I would take something with me as a 'persuader'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get your earnings by Friday there's not a lot legally you can do.

How ever if you're sure a contract has been formed and thee was a timescale for payment then maybe you could charge them costs you incur because of their non payment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it was good worth the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way? "

CAB is pretty much useless.

Depending on amount to an take them to court online and within a month they will have CCJ and a demand for money plus interest owed. You could threaten them with that before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think she's having us all on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a personal loan to a mate then I'd forget about it and them unless they were fairly honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a personal loan to a mate then I'd forget about it and them unless they were fairly honest. "

Under a grand and it's not worth the hassle really if it's a close mate in tough times, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me and I will get it for a fee (standard fee + %age).

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Cut their legs off and ransom them.

Never lend money you can't afford never to get back. Ideally never lend money; gift it or don't give it.

It was earnt not Lent. But after being messed about by the same person over something else I really need it for Friday "

Ah that's different. My apologies for misunderstanding. Best of luck getting it.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Think she's having us all on lol"

Actually no. This started from a situation to do with moving my horses to a new yard. He said he knew someone that owed him a favour so he would sort my transport out and I wouldn't have to pay. Alarm bells should've rang but I trusted him. I have not alot of spare cash I haven't been able to work properly the last 3 years due to illness so it was what I thought a big help. I helped the guy sell something to someone that his business manufactures. The agreement was I would get so much % commission for doing it. The favour fell through. So no free transport. I now need to pay someone who is coming on Friday to move them. Hence why I need the money by then which he was supposed to bring today. With all my other bills I don't have enough money and can't change the moving day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask me and I will get it for a fee (standard fee + %age). "

I've just seen. It's only £200 so not worth the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on who was involved - why it was lent and how much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask me and I will get it for a fee (standard fee + %age).

I've just seen. It's only £200 so not worth the hassle. "

It is if you haven't got £200 to spare.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Ask me and I will get it for a fee (standard fee + %age).

I've just seen. It's only £200 so not worth the hassle.

It is if you haven't got £200 to spare."

Even though I'm working more hours I'm trying to pay off a huge amount of debt my x left me with. It's difficult to just find £130 in a few days when I don't have it to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think she's having us all on lol

Actually no. This started from a situation to do with moving my horses to a new yard. He said he knew someone that owed him a favour so he would sort my transport out and I wouldn't have to pay. Alarm bells should've rang but I trusted him. I have not alot of spare cash I haven't been able to work properly the last 3 years due to illness so it was what I thought a big help. I helped the guy sell something to someone that his business manufactures. The agreement was I would get so much % commission for doing it. The favour fell through. So no free transport. I now need to pay someone who is coming on Friday to move them. Hence why I need the money by then which he was supposed to bring today. With all my other bills I don't have enough money and can't change the moving day "

don't suppose there's any way you can get the money directly from the people you sold something to? and give him the rest minus your cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it your horse box? If so can you not find someone to tow it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I owed someone fifty grand and he sent to guys to my door I said how much is he paying you the big one said a grand each so I said look I will give yous fifteen hundred each but go back and give him a slap then I sent to him and said now I owe you 47 grand lol. But in Newcastle this is just the norm .

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

I would go through small claims, the text confirmation is enough for judge rinder to award the £ to you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know this might sound obvious but ca you really afford to keep a horse

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Is it your horse box? If so can you not find someone to tow it?"

I don't have one anymore I sold it to clear some of my debt a couple of years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chase them with hounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you what if someone stumps up half or a few peeps stump it up I will give the rest no probs it's only money

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"i know this might sound obvious but ca you really afford to keep a horse"

I work hard and don't spend much on myself. My horses are looked after so yes. And I'm moving them closer to me to a cheaper yard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any tips then lol

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Any tips then lol"

I'm not into horse racing. My grandad did have the gift of picking winners but he has dementia now so can't really ask him. I won some money on the national a few years back. He picked 10 horses and out of the 10 8 finished in the top 10. Plus he picked the winner. Jammy sod!!!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The only option I see with you needing the money by the end of the week is asking the guy directly. if you go down the small claims etc it'll take yu ages.

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brother won the lotto a good few years ago five million on a wed night he's gone now but one thing I've learnt don't worry about money I'm up to my eyes in debt but at the same time I'm quite well off lol there's always someone worse off

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"The only option I see with you needing the money by the end of the week is asking the guy directly. if you go down the small claims etc it'll take yu ages.

Good luck op "

I'm not sure it's a good idea but I'm going to his house tomorrow to hopefully collect it

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Brother won the lotto a good few years ago five million on a wed night he's gone now but one thing I've learnt don't worry about money I'm up to my eyes in debt but at the same time I'm quite well off lol there's always someone worse off "

Yes and I have been the person worse off but working hard to claw my way out

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Had to remind myself to not get involved!!!

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Had to remind myself to not get involved!!!"

No please do I know what you think though. Fancy a road trip tomorrow??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?

I earnt it. It's commission for selling something for them "

So it's wages or just a commission for helping sell something?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Had to remind myself to not get involved!!!"

OMG it's naked Bob

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?

I earnt it. It's commission for selling something for them

So it's wages or just a commission for helping sell something?"

He basically owes me £200. Not bob he doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there a date that he said he'd pay it by?

Has he given a reason why he hasn't paid it yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£200. Fuck me I thought it was a grand lol someone give her half and I will match it

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?

I earnt it. It's commission for selling something for them

So it's wages or just a commission for helping sell something?

He basically owes me £200. Not bob he doesn't "

No, though he is owed fuel for driving to the wrong hotel...!

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Surely if they earned the money it's now theirs ando not yours to have back?

I earnt it. It's commission for selling something for them

So it's wages or just a commission for helping sell something?

He basically owes me £200. Not bob he doesn't

No, though he is owed fuel for driving to the wrong hotel...!"

I will take you out for lunch with the change after I have moved the horses

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Is it your horse box? If so can you not find someone to tow it?

I don't have one anymore I sold it to clear some of my debt a couple of years ago. "

Don't you know anyone who could?

I'd do it if you lived closer, I've got a livestock trailer knocking about.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"Is it your horse box? If so can you not find someone to tow it?

I don't have one anymore I sold it to clear some of my debt a couple of years ago.

Don't you know anyone who could?

I'd do it if you lived closer, I've got a livestock trailer knocking about."

They need to travel in a lorry really with someone who knows what they are doing. One has a slight issue with travelling so I have booked someone. I should get the money tomorrow hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your situation I'd go for option A but be prepared to write the money off.

Good luck x

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

pass the hat around.. I'm sure we can raise two hundred between us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And there was a high chance you wouldn't get it for when you needed it would you A) just turn up at their house demanding they hand it over or B) go and ask at the citizens advice on how to get it or C) non of the above or find another way? "

C. Break legs

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