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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it'd be unusual to not have butterflies before a meet or party

That's all part of the excitement, if I didn't get them then I would probably start to think that this would all be boring and routine

Having attended them before, and knowing the organisers, I'm sure you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "

thinks you will be fine once there.Going out on your own is hard but get easyer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a friend you could with from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just natural nerves I think and since youve met the couple and others at the party before I'm sure that you will be fine when you get there.

Feel the fear and do it anyway... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there a friend you could with from here? "

I am going with a single female friend from here but I'm still worried beyond belief xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe message the couple hosting and tell em you are a bit nervous and could they take you under their wing a bit when you first get there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "
its all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets? "

I would sit down and think about who I'm doing this for.

What is it you're nervous about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I'm not new to swinging, I had a previous profile with my ex but I'm finding this so much harder as a single female. I'm supposed to be going to a party Saturday and the nerves are already kicking in. I've been to a party at the couples house before and I know some of the couples that are going. Am I not ready for meets?

I would sit down and think about who I'm doing this for.

What is it you're nervous about?

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Do you really want to go OP? Sex is great but if it makes you feel crap a wank is more fun. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you not ready then dont go OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do want to go that's the thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a friend you could with from here?

I am going with a single female friend from here but I'm still worried beyond belief xx"

You'll be just fine, the parties I've attended have been so down to earth and lovely you all become friends!

The best bit is having a play then standing around afterwards sipping wine and chatting.

Enjoy and please let us know how you get on xx

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