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"I was actually thinking about this the other day. When I was younger I read a lot and quite often I would find books that made a real difference to the way I thought about and viewed the world. However, in the past few years I've tried to read books of this nature but they keep falling flat. I'm beginning to think that there is something wrong with me - that I've lost a bit of my idealism and openness to new ideas. It's a sobering thought. A really good book that I read a few years ago, though, was Humanity's Law by Ruti Teitel. It's well worth a read if international law is your thing and you want a different perspective. " It happens to us all to some degree Courtney. Perhaps this is why I've been delighted to find a book that has so moved me. It's also fascinating, and a touch scary, how someome who can write something so beautiful, so compassionate and appear to have such insight into human behaviour can turn to Fascism. | |||
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"Probably Anna Karenina for me but I think that's because I read it at a particular time in my life and I could identify with the main character. " Identifying with a character certainly helps you along on the fictional journey. I like a good anti-hero | |||
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"A heartbreaking work of staggering genius by David Eggers had quite an impact on me when I read it a few years ago. Essays in Love by Alain De Button also had a strange impact as it also happened to coincide with me falling in love for the first time." Never really got on with "A Staggering Work....", although I do respect his jounalism. I have a similar encounter with "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm | |||
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"There's a YA book called Noughts & Crosses by Mallory Blackman that I first read when I was 13, and at that time I was encouraging everyone to read it - me, my mum, my mum's best friend and her daughter all got through it in quick succession! Basically the world is split into Crosses - darker skinned people - and noughts, who are whiter skinned people who are treated as the lowest of the low. Sephy, a Cross, falls in love with the son of her old nanny, Callum, who's a nought. Absolutely amazing novel which deals with loads of issues. I think even when I was at that age I already knew not to judge people on superficial things but that novel really drove it home. I think it's the type of book that always stays with someone. " That was a book that was in the top 50 of the BBC's Big Read a few years ago. It's an excellently written book | |||
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"A heartbreaking work of staggering genius by David Eggers had quite an impact on me when I read it a few years ago. Essays in Love by Alain De Button also had a strange impact as it also happened to coincide with me falling in love for the first time. Never really got on with "A Staggering Work....", although I do respect his jounalism. I have a similar encounter with "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm " The art of loving has been recommended to me before. | |||
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"There's a YA book called Noughts & Crosses by Mallory Blackman that I first read when I was 13, and at that time I was encouraging everyone to read it - me, my mum, my mum's best friend and her daughter all got through it in quick succession! Basically the world is split into Crosses - darker skinned people - and noughts, who are whiter skinned people who are treated as the lowest of the low. Sephy, a Cross, falls in love with the son of her old nanny, Callum, who's a nought. Absolutely amazing novel which deals with loads of issues. I think even when I was at that age I already knew not to judge people on superficial things but that novel really drove it home. I think it's the type of book that always stays with someone. That was a book that was in the top 50 of the BBC's Big Read a few years ago. It's an excellently written book " It is brilliant And probably all so much more important in the world today. | |||
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"Try: Love in the Time of Cholera is a novel by Gabriel García Márquez" If we're going for Marquez , I prefer One Hundred Years of Solitude - but Magical Realism is better done by Allende imo and Jorge Luis Borges is the best Latin American writer - I love "A Universal History of Infamy" and used to carry it around permanently in my jacket pocket when a student - great for whipping out in coffee houses That book definitely got me a few fucks back in the day | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire." You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in | |||
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"Try: Love in the Time of Cholera is a novel by Gabriel García Márquez If we're going for Marquez , I prefer One Hundred Years of Solitude - but Magical Realism is better done by Allende imo and Jorge Luis Borges is the best Latin American writer - I love "A Universal History of Infamy" and used to carry it around permanently in my jacket pocket when a student - great for whipping out in coffee houses That book definitely got me a few fucks back in the day " Love in a Time of Cholera *isn't* magical realism (which Márquez's signature)... it's a 50-year love story contrasting the chaste boundaries of marriage with anarchic and romantic love. It's tender, touching, sexy, funny and beautifully translated | |||
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"Janet and John by Ladybird " Old Hat - their replacements, Biff, Chip and Kipper were 30 years old the other day | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in " Also just anything by Pablo Neruda | |||
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"Try: Love in the Time of Cholera is a novel by Gabriel García Márquez If we're going for Marquez , I prefer One Hundred Years of Solitude - but Magical Realism is better done by Allende imo and Jorge Luis Borges is the best Latin American writer - I love "A Universal History of Infamy" and used to carry it around permanently in my jacket pocket when a student - great for whipping out in coffee houses That book definitely got me a few fucks back in the day Love in a Time of Cholera *isn't* magical realism (which Márquez's signature)... it's a 50-year love story contrasting the chaste boundaries of marriage with anarchic and romantic love. It's tender, touching, sexy, funny and beautifully translated" Ah - well, it sits at the top of The Guardian's "Best Magical Realism Books" list so argue with them, not me | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in Also just anything by Pablo Neruda " You have seen "Il Postino" haven't you? | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in Also just anything by Pablo Neruda You have seen "Il Postino" haven't you?" I have not. Have you seen Howl? | |||
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"Three men in a boat - Jerome K Jerome Catch 22 - Joseph Heller The Old man and the sea - Ernest Hemmingway The da vinci code - (joke) " Three Men in a Boat is charming. I really enjoyed Catch-22 until the end, which I thought was a bit of a cop out. You can use the Da Vinci Code as kindling | |||
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"Or: Perfume, by Patrick Siskund" My daughter is reading this at the moment. She is loving it. It is pure storytelling and an incredible assault on the senses. The main protagonist has almost literally no dialogue. Suskind has the only voice. But what a voice. I've always loved Possession by A S Byatt. The end made me cry. | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in Also just anything by Pablo Neruda You have seen "Il Postino" haven't you? I have not. Have you seen Howl?" No, what is it?? Il Postino is a beautiful Italian film based around Pablo Neruda's exile on a small, poor Italian island in the 1950's. It's such a beautiful film and Phillipe Noiret plays Neruda wonderfully. | |||
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"Something I picked up yesterday... Daniil Kharms (1905-1942) is one of Russia's great lost absurdists - a writer whose world still alarms, shocks and bewitches more than half a century after he died in prison during the siege of Leningrad. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniil_Kharms Google his (very) short stories. Mental, and in fact he was imprisoned in a psychiatric hospital (where he starved to death) because of his "public displays of decadent and illogical behavior". Fascinating. " Thanks for this - will definitely look him up | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in Also just anything by Pablo Neruda You have seen "Il Postino" haven't you? I have not. Have you seen Howl? No, what is it?? Il Postino is a beautiful Italian film based around Pablo Neruda's exile on a small, poor Italian island in the 1950's. It's such a beautiful film and Phillipe Noiret plays Neruda wonderfully." I may have to check that out. It's a film based on the life and works of Allen Ginsberg. It's really rather good. | |||
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"Acid house by Irvine Welsh is some read I've bought it twice and given it out twice to friends. They then have given it to other friends saying you must read this book x" If you give something away multiple times it's a good sign | |||
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""Never Let Me Go" by Kazuo Ishiguro…the last line is amazing…for me it sums up life in a nutshell-whether we realise that's whats happening or not. I'm not a great fan of modern authors but I found out that this book has become a modern classic-amazingly poignant throughout " Great book. | |||
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"Can I throw in some poetry and say Les fleurs du mal by Charles Baudelaire. You definitely can throw some in - off to read now! I'll throw in "Babi Yar" by Yvgeny Yevtushenko - very apt for the times we live in Also just anything by Pablo Neruda You have seen "Il Postino" haven't you? I have not. Have you seen Howl? No, what is it?? Il Postino is a beautiful Italian film based around Pablo Neruda's exile on a small, poor Italian island in the 1950's. It's such a beautiful film and Phillipe Noiret plays Neruda wonderfully. I may have to check that out. It's a film based on the life and works of Allen Ginsberg. It's really rather good." Ah thanks. I never quite "got" the Beat Poets" - I used to beat myself up because I just couldn't make much sense of Burroughs and found Kerouac dull. It's so difficult being a literary effette sometimes | |||
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