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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Met a girl at the weekend who i have had a bit of a crush on for quite a while!

Now.....should i leave this site because she 100 percent isnt into it and i dont want to cheat on her...

Is it bad if i look but dont touch??? Would Posting a few pics still be a bad thing too???

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you need to ask you know it's wrong in your eyes. That's all that counts, if you feel it's wrong, if you feel it would hurt or upset this woman what we think it irrelevant.

I'm interested in why this is a question for women, are you hoping somebody will say it's ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should stay on here mr D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were me, I'd hide my profile and not sign in and if things got serious then I'd delete. But it depends on you and how you want to proceed, really, and on your relationship.

If I were seriously seeing a guy and he had a profile here that he updated regularly against my wishes then I'd not be happy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would concertrate on the girl you have met and you really like ...take her out..have fun and live in the real world. If it doesn't work out you can come back to this site x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You only met her at the weekend.

See how it goes first.

Sounds like a craig david song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id stay just to chat in here and hide my profile or put not meeting on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how it goes first

You only met her at weekend

She might be regretting it by now and looking for an exit strategy

I would say hide your profile and browse in private for the time being

If things do go great, in time, just delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only met her at the weekend.

See how it goes first.

Sounds like a craig david song"

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"If it were me, I'd hide my profile and not sign in and if things got serious then I'd delete. But it depends on you and how you want to proceed, really, and on your relationship.

If I were seriously seeing a guy and he had a profile here that he updated regularly against my wishes then I'd not be happy about it "

I was about to say pretty much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are truly into the lifestyle you will come back to it so tell her. If she stays, great. If she goes, she is not for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You could always apply the acid test. Imagine that she had a similar account and it was something you didn't want to be involved in.

Most lasting relationships start with honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for comments, someone has given me the right advice and im going to follow it.

Wish you all the best.

Luv ya x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it works out well for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for comments, someone has given me the right advice and im going to follow it.

Wish you all the best.

Luv ya x"

Good luck to the two of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate.. go with your instict.

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