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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fabbers. What one peice of advice do you know now that you wish someone had told you when you first started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they bolt the door when you enter; you better hope you had a wing person... oh you didn't...

My advice is to have a wing person (a fellow fabber, trusted person), who has the details of where and who you are meeting; applies mainly to singles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they bolt the door when you enter; you better hope you had a wing person... oh you didn't...

My advice is to have a wing person (a fellow fabber, trusted person), who has the details of where and who you are meeting; applies mainly to singles."

Great advice i bet lots of people wouldn't think about that, sounds like you have experienced it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and when talking to couples remember that it's not just the female you should focus on chatting with. Best of luck and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers. What one peice of advice do you know now that you wish someone had told you when you first started "

Better profile pic its your main advert a peraon should not be thinking "wait what is...oh its his pants" when they see it.

"No pics due to job" see that so often what job do you do? Seriously unless it's like tv presenter it doesnt matter. But you're a single male theres thousands of guys with clear pictures on show, why would a woman ever bother to message you to ask to see yours?

Onlynreason she would would be some epic profile text....

Which isn't there it doesnt say anything about you.

Dotch the "newbie" stuff "newbie"= never going to turn up as they'll wuss out.

Be confident and tell people about yourself what you like what your looking for and a few things they can use to start a conversation with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one piece of advice? Don't put up boundaries by presenting yourself poorly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and don't start a referendum thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and don't start a cock size/ body size thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers. What one peice of advice do you know now that you wish someone had told you when you first started

Better profile pic its your main advert a peraon should not be thinking "wait what is...oh its his pants" when they see it.

"No pics due to job" see that so often what job do you do? Seriously unless it's like tv presenter it doesnt matter. But you're a single male theres thousands of guys with clear pictures on show, why would a woman ever bother to message you to ask to see yours?

Onlynreason she would would be some epic profile text....

Which isn't there it doesnt say anything about you.

Dotch the "newbie" stuff "newbie"= never going to turn up as they'll wuss out.

Be confident and tell people about yourself what you like what your looking for and a few things they can use to start a conversation with you."

Many thanks, thats some great advice i will definatly be putting into practice

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they bolt the door when you enter; you better hope you had a wing person... oh you didn't...

My advice is to have a wing person (a fellow fabber, trusted person), who has the details of where and who you are meeting; applies mainly to singles."

This

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By *orn_ball11Man
over a year ago

Portrush

Always Always m&g first ie meet in a public place a asafe Zone ! Stranger sometimes means Danger... that's going for both male/female... stay safe out there Fabbsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it too seriously and manage expectations.

Have fun.

Knitter

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By *orn_ball11Man
over a year ago

Portrush

Wrap up before you slap up... play Safe... Sponsored by durex... lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take it too seriously and manage expectations.

Have fun.

Knitter"

After all we are here for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enjoy yourself "

Thank you x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Run for your lives!

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By *enuineGentlemanMan
over a year ago

herts

Hi guys. I've only had one meet and wondered if there was any tips on how to become of more interest to people? Thanks!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Hi guys. I've only had one meet and wondered if there was any tips on how to become of more interest to people? Thanks! "

Don't do whatever the OP did. He's now gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys. I've only had one meet and wondered if there was any tips on how to become of more interest to people? Thanks! "

That 15th of April picture is like an optical illusion, looks like a bum in the front, took a while to realise it's the thigh and top of the penis. Mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys. I've only had one meet and wondered if there was any tips on how to become of more interest to people? Thanks! "

Change your profile pic.

Keep cock pics private or friends only and send only when invited too.

Use your abs pic as your avatar!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Hi guys. I've only had one meet and wondered if there was any tips on how to become of more interest to people? Thanks!

That 15th of April picture is like an optical illusion, looks like a bum in the front, took a while to realise it's the thigh and top of the penis. Mad"

Lol very true

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

That you don't have to reply to ever message you get and don't be afraid to use the block button

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