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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there." Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing | |||
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"British accents American accents " We could meet but not talk.....my ideal meet | |||
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"British accents American accents We could meet but not talk.....my ideal meet " That's perfect, if you would answer the door with a blindfold.... That would be better | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing " Did you still shag him x | |||
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. .. Nope not my type. .. X x" an EU t shirt . | |||
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"British accents American accents We could meet but not talk.....my ideal meet That's perfect, if you would answer the door with a blindfold.... That would be better " I'll leave the door on the latch..you'll have to find me | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing Did you still shag him x" That was for a social!! I watched someone in my wing mirror walk towards my car once. He was a 'nope' to | |||
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"Women that think its ok for the to chat/meet other guys but expect you to be just for them " Unheard of on a swingers site surely... | |||
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. .. Nope not my type. .. X x" If they cant hold a conversation and they smell. Though I might let them off if they had a great arse and good legs. | |||
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"Women that think its ok for the to chat/meet other guys but expect you to be just for them Unheard of on a swingers site surely... " Sadly not | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing Did you still shag him x That was for a social!! I watched someone in my wing mirror walk towards my car once. He was a 'nope' to " Did you speed off just as he got there. Lovely pics btw x | |||
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"If they are stood up and I can see right over their head " I've had that happen to me before, wasn't sure whether I should pat him on the head or give him a peck on the cheek | |||
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"Lots of things. From being clearly older and larger than their photo to having a sniggering, school boy /girl attitude to sex and swinging and a whole raft of odd little things in between he he I can see your boobies " | |||
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"If they are stood up and I can see right over their head I've had that happen to me before, wasn't sure whether I should pat him on the head or give him a peck on the cheek " I'd have patted him on the head | |||
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"Jesus sandals and socks" Have you been spending time in Germany lol | |||
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"Beards!!" On women? | |||
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"Arrogant, smug, exceptionally different to their introduction, a disinclination to pursue my satisfaction, rabid swivel eyed right-winger, a flat earth society member in all likelihood, devoid of empathy and charity - amongst the traits I'd be uninterested in." Surely you would have ascertained their interests prior to arranging a social? | |||
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"Scruffs that can not be bothered to make an effort. And guys that try to hard to turn me on, Which completley turns me off. " I'll have you wet in no time. Would you like to see my cock? I have a picture of it when I'm wearing my old joggers and crocs. | |||
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"Scruffs that can not be bothered to make an effort. And guys that try to hard to turn me on, Which completley turns me off. I'll have you wet in no time. Would you like to see my cock? I have a picture of it when I'm wearing my old joggers and crocs." Yes and them too. | |||
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"Beards!! And that's just the women " Snap! | |||
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"Women that think its ok for the to chat/meet other guys but expect you to be just for them " That's my ideal scenario | |||
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"fake people" If I met a mannequin, I'd leave, too | |||
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"oh I left my wallet at home can you buy the drinks.... " What's wrong with this? You can buy a guy a drink or coffee.... It's ok we won't think less of you. | |||
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"Tories :/ Shame, we run the country now " You in the sorry excuse for a government then? | |||
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"Tories :/ " It's like this really cute ginger French guy I used to know. Pinned him down to a rematch and the pre-fuck convo consisted of him going off on a right-wing rant about this n' that... I was just like, dude, shut up, it's *not* sexy. | |||
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"oh I left my wallet at home can you buy the drinks.... What's wrong with this? You can buy a guy a drink or coffee.... It's ok we won't think less of you. " Haha I didn't mind...it was the fact that he had clearly set it up so...That's the part I didn't like. I am all for equality lol...although he was also wearing jeans and white trainers....so was a drink bought begrudgingly as didn't do it for me | |||
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"Voice! I met someone without speaking on the phone. He looked like Daniel Craig but sounded like Joe Pasquale. I don't meet anyone without speaking on the phone now." | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there." Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers " Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... " with a tight crisp white t shirt.. | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... with a tight crisp white t shirt.. " hubba hubba | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... with a tight crisp white t shirt.. hubba hubba " Mmmmmmmm... feel free to make your selves known boys who rock This look | |||
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"What just wondering does anyone have a instant turn off. If you went for a social and you seen the person your meeting what is it that would make you think. .. Nope not my type. .. X x" His shoes, had a meet once and the minute he walked in i was put off, unironed jeans and old non fashion trainers (yup did i mention im picky), he was a nice guy though so carried on the meet til he came 2 mins into it.. never met again | |||
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"Oh god loads of things!!!! Sometimes even the way a guy carries himself can make me think 'nope' " | |||
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"Women that think its ok for the to chat/meet other guys but expect you to be just for them " I think that's more than reasonable....lol | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... with a tight crisp white t shirt.. hubba hubba Mmmmmmmm... feel free to make your selves known boys who rock This look " | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Iv got a little kink for grey Nike joggers Me too, especially when they're worn just off the hips..... " Tight tshirt and some trendy trainers.. oh yes | |||
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"The usual hygiene ones, but boastful/arrogant is a turn-off, we met a guy who kept mentioning how wealthy he was and that irritated pretty quickly" we have met couples that have gone on about how much they have - their huge car - the spanish aprtments etc - great if they have such things but bragging - one to the point of putting down others - no likey | |||
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"A clean shave" I'm never clean shaven. I Like a bit of stubble and facial hair | |||
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"Smelling of cigarettes Wine or cider breath Me, me, me attitudes Grabbing my cock without so much as a 'hello' People who try too hard to please Those that assume a meet, any meet, will lead to sex Mitherers / Needy people Ugg boot wearers Overly flirtatious people There are more ..." I thought i was fussy | |||
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"Smelling of cigarettes Wine or cider breath Me, me, me attitudes Grabbing my cock without so much as a 'hello' People who try too hard to please Those that assume a meet, any meet, will lead to sex Mitherers / Needy people Ugg boot wearers Overly flirtatious people There are more ... I thought i was fussy " ugg boot wearers,,lol,,yea,,shoot them | |||
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"Anyone who uses 'lol'. Massive lady boner killer " lol (sorry!) | |||
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"A clean shave" Does that mean I'd have to show you ma bollocks in Costa | |||
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"Cheap assed high heels..therrs no excuse for shit bed slippers " You'd hate me then. Most of my shoes are cheap. There's no way I'm wearing expensive shoes for shagging. | |||
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"Anyone who uses 'lol'. Massive lady boner killer lol (sorry!)" | |||
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"A clean shave Does that mean I'd have to show you ma bollocks in Costa " I'll be waiting lol | |||
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"Wearing a polo shirt and jogging bottoms. Add a baseball cap and I'm out of there. Someone met me once wearing a skiing base layer thing " Wasnt me was it? :p In summer being on the bike im usualy learher jacket then a proskin long sleeve very thin baselayer ^_^ Although these days ive changed to uniqlo's airsim t shirts. I dont cope well with heat | |||
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"Someone who can't hold a conversation or all they talk about is sex It also annoys me when one sits across the table from u in a busy place and near enough shouts out 'so what bought u to the swinging world' (or something like that); so much for discretion assured, knob!!! " | |||
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"Chatting to a guy , met him in a pub still in high viz from work both of us there ,then he says can we hurry up I haven't got long !, need to get home to the wife!" | |||
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"We arranged to meet a couple. He had no teeth! He said he didn't like wearing them. I said goodbye!" That's funny | |||
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"British accents " Haha...you chose your name carefully didn't you! | |||
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"Women wearing those ridiculous little girl flat ballet slippers.....oh deary me . You are not 6 , put some heels on . They make you walk like Les Dawson ! " | |||
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"Not looking like their photo. Bad teeth 'Things' that they forgot to mention, like body parts missing....." Why what was missing?? | |||
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"Women wearing those ridiculous little girl flat ballet slippers.....oh deary me . You are not 6 , put some heels on . They make you walk like Les Dawson ! " Haha you wouldn't like me very much then, I'm always wearing those shoes, don't wear heels anymore since I fell over and sprained my ankle when I was 15!! Haha heels are lethal...you may slate them but those shoes are damn comfy!! | |||
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"Tories :/ Shame, we run the country now " "Run the country" hmm a matter of opinion | |||
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"Bloody hell I've just read all that I'm scared of anyone meeting me now " You have nowt to worry about xx | |||
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"like body parts missing..... " I'm still waiting to find out what was missing lol | |||
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" Phone/Text Devotee " Anyone that spends more time looking at their phone than talking to me, I just walk away. | |||
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"Just reading all this...wondering how much of this is hypothetical & how much of this has happened in reality? Some things you couldn't know until you met, but a lot of things mentioned could have been anticipated…surely? Its not a very attractive advert for the site " You make a fair point but we all know what we dont want to experience. Personally I dislike bad manners, loudness,and generally lack of class and decorum....I alter my dislikes once I'm in private apart from the manners! There are lots of other things too but that's the gist of it. | |||
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do. Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street. And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. " You measure a woman's feet before you shag them? | |||
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"Women wearing those ridiculous little girl flat ballet slippers.....oh deary me . You are not 6 , put some heels on . They make you walk like Les Dawson ! " I don't know which women you've been watching but I certainly don't walk like Les Dawson in flat shoes | |||
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do. Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street. And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. You measure a woman's feet before you shag them? " No I'm too polite. I ask. "What size feet are you?" Haha. | |||
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do. Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street. And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. You measure a woman's feet before you shag them? No I'm too polite. I ask. "What size feet are you?" Haha. " So you can't actually tell but you have a firm cut off you consider too big? | |||
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"I didn't think j had any but it appears I do. Littering, I fancied a woman till I saw her throw a packet a fags in the street. And I don't like big feet on a girl. Size 6 or below. You measure a woman's feet before you shag them? No I'm too polite. I ask. "What size feet are you?" Haha. So you can't actually tell but you have a firm cut off you consider too big? " Your trying to pick my unreasonable 'put off' to pieces, aren't you? Haha. I feel I should say, "any feet that look like clowns feet." | |||
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"Women wearing those ridiculous little girl flat ballet slippers.....oh deary me . You are not 6 , put some heels on . They make you walk like Les Dawson ! Haha you wouldn't like me very much then, I'm always wearing those shoes, don't wear heels anymore since I fell over and sprained my ankle when I was 15!! Haha heels are lethal...you may slate them but those shoes are damn comfy!! " I fully appreciate your honesty and wasn't having a pop , only you have to admit when a woman wears these totally unsexy footwear she does give it the full unbridled les dawson . | |||
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