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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people do care!

That's just the way it is xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww do you have green tick envy op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I shan't. It's not anyone else's business and i won't meet anyone who thinks it is.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry its my preference how I conduct my profile

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Because my ex is on here & his partner quizzed someone I'd met to find out if this was my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op if you dont care why do you need to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the green tick thingy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

We're not 'hiding' verifications, we're choosing not to show them.

I got two verifications from a guy I met at two consecutive socials. I only show one because the second is redundant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/06/16 18:59:23]

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I couldn't give two hoots how other people see fit to run their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a request or an order?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met. "
So your Tina Titz

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Because they want to. It's none of your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or hide it so they don't know who you met as many will look at the veris and see what kind of type someone will go for lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met. So your Tina Titz "

Oooh, it all makes sense now!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Aww do you have green tick envy op "
this for single women and couples they don't mean as much but for single guys they are paramount!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met.

So your Tina Titz "

Tina is much hotter than me! I wish I was her.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

Because it's no one's business but my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its their business that's why,some folk like being private

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

Exactly. Well said View.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww do you have green tick envy op this for single women and couples they don't mean as much but for single guys they are paramount!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the green tick thingy "

The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.

The green flag means photo verified by Admin.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

Yeap had this happen just a few weeks ago and some people like to make things their business so I now just keep mine hidden

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "
oh so very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make

Exactly. Well said View."

Yep, I don't like the attention good and bad, that comes with verifications being displayed. No.ones business tbg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are not a public diary. People also have playmates off here.

OP would you like those as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make oh so very true "

Yes they certainly do.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I think the simple answer to your 'who cares' question ..is you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had loads of my verification

Some people are just to graphic and I don't like showing such verification, I also don't show verification if they show my real name

It's not always cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the green tick thingy

The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.

The green flag means photo verified by Admin. "

Thankyou

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have a few veris that aren't on show cause they're no longer on the site and who gives a crap if people choose not to choose veris? That's their business not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met.

So your Tina Titz

Tina is much hotter than me! I wish I was her. "
ive met both scarlet and tina titz... i can confirm they are different people... although.. hmmmm didnt see them together

op I only show one of mine due to nosey bitches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/06/16 19:08:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The politics of fab............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op has even managed to hide his green tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I shan't. It's not anyone else's business and i won't meet anyone who thinks it is. "

Me too ....my life is private and if that's a problem with anyone ...then we wont meet......period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to keep their meets between themselves and those they have met. Be that solely for discretion, for the avoidance of unwarranted drama or attention, or simply because they can't display any due to "unlos" so be it; so long as you know you're having fun what does it matter to someone else?

I know I have a few of mine displayed but that's solely because I feel it beneficial as a single guy to do so.

I read them all regularly and have a good giggle reminiscing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide the fact that I've met one person due to other people attempting to make that their business. I can't be arsed with the silly drama and bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww do you have green tick envy op "

Doesn't my meets happen on cam chat if like each other then meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's not anyone else's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my verie's and show my summary. If you dont like that op you know what you can do

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

we also don't like been mailed telling us not to meet certain people

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I hide my verie's and show my summary. If you dont like that op you know what you can do "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Aww do you have green tick envy op

Doesn't my meets happen on cam chat if like each other then meet."
whay are you ranting about them then if your not bothered about having any?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

Because sadly my verifications get Jealous of each other .

Some of my veries show my verifications so people can still see who I've met with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also OP - users might not be hiding their verifications but the people who wrote them might have left the site.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating"
that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met. So your Tina Titz "

Nope - she's me!

Noticed you never see us both in the same place at the same time?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had almost all mine hidden because some twat of a loser man assumed if a certain lady had had sex with ne then surely she would want him and she didn't. It caused some issues. She's left fab now so they are all on show.

Including the 'Steve is a shit shag' one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit we've never been particularly worried about people on the swing scene knowing who we've played with. Besides so many of our swinging friends have played with the same people as us, and probably at the same parties, so there's very little privacy for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer "

Feel free! I'm also a fan of a bad veri too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there are some right oddballs on here OP, and sometimes it is better to be a bit cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

What's it got to do with you what we do !!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Additionally, some people made erroneous assumptions believing that because I'm bi and from Brighton, that I had had sex with loads of men (based on numbers in the summary), however, most of them were socials so showed them to prove that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

This is very true....I am not going into details, but this has happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you saw some of the creeps we have been with you would hide them as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww do you have green tick envy op this for single women and couples they don't mean as much but for single guys they are paramount!"

I haven't always shown all of mine. Particularly in previous profile.....would have run to three pages lol!

Plus....if a member who verified you then leaves the sute...you keep the green tick but cannot show the wording even if you want to!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I prefer to forget about who I have met though I don't mind having pictures.

That's why I only show one. Also someone blocked me yesterday so its not there anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats the green tick thingy

The circle with a tick in on profiles means they have been verified by a person on the site.

The green flag means photo verified by Admin.

Thankyou "

Might have dreamt this but can you actually verify yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show what we want to show and hide what we want to hide. Just because the site allows verifications and for them to be public doesn't mean we feel like we have to show them.

We do what we want.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Because some people stick their nose into other people's business and mischief make "

Some ppl just like to make up dramas

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I recently moved a lot of veris away from _iew simply because some are old or repeat meets, i think you'll find that the vast majority keeps theirs close to their chest simply because it's no ones business but their own. I've been verified, I'm real, I don't need a trip advisor rating that's a shame and there I was going to give you one purely for Thor's hammer

Feel free! I'm also a fan of a bad veri too"
now who said it was gonna be a bad un? Lol

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins"

Very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of crazy people. That is all

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like secrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins"

I suspect that the OP is just trying to improve his chances of being looked at and contacted by posting something...anything on here. I am certain that a gentleman of his age and experience will be fully aware how this site operates, even if he has only been on here for 8 weeks. A system is in place to show verifications in full, and or a summary or nothing at all, if someone doesn't want to. The fact is, that we all have different reasons for what we share and what we don't and frankly, if someone doesn't like what they see or don't see on my profile, then move along.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins"
*slow clap*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrmmm cause its no one elses business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i must admit i only display my social veris i dont display my playplay ones lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

Oooh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my veri summary so No one knows if I'm hidding any or not. I could have hundreds. xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm only showing my last two cause I like them and I'd lose the will to live if I unhid all of them.

Anyway you still not answered why you want to know if your not bothered

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By *otThrobbingPassionMan
over a year ago

Newhaven

show don't show ......... its your choice ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have multiple profiles. You'd never know who I have or haven't met.

So your Tina Titz "

No, she's Spartacus.

I'm Tina titz.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins *slow clap*"

*joins the slow clap*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not bad 46 replies in 15 mins *slow clap*

*joins the slow clap*"

*starts a Mexican wave......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Listen! Do you want to know a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck-Advisor (tm) style re_iews are certainly not for us... definately wouldn't display such things...

"They turned up on time and look like their pics".... that's the only requirement really.... and you only need one of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck-Advisor (tm) style re_iews are certainly not for us... definately wouldn't display such things...

"They turned up on time and look like their pics".... that's the only requirement really.... and you only need one of those."

What if they were smelly and rude and verified you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see how you feel when you have a verification to show and then you get a message regarding who you met -

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think verifications are a bit tacky.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Because my profile is mine to neglect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show just a few of ours , the site wouldn't have the space for them all

To be honest we have never had any grief from showing them though , as some have eluded to .

Those who show none at all could have just a cam veri and we would be none the wiser ... Which is a negative in our eyes .

But then again , it's none of our business is it ?

So we will leave it there , and carry on having fun - showing a few veris here and there

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

Straight (yeah right) having a veri from a TV or bloke, could stop them from meeting a woman or couple.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

It's no-one's business who I have met.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Instructions disguised as a rant

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You can never win either way... Damned if you show, damned if you don't...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You can never win either way... Damned if you show, damned if you don't... "

Haha! True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instructions disguised as a rant "

And it's not even Thursday.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh when you see the green tick. But not displayed. Who cares if a male went with another male but says he's straight.

Or a woman goes with a man she said wouldn't go with because of previous. But does cause he can accomadate.

Who cares. Display then it gives everyone else disclosure of honesty

Rant over"

Because it's no-one elses business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm for hiding or not acknowledging at all. Would hate to click on one and realise it might be daughter, god I'd have a 'Connery'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Thursday is still 3 days away.

Otherwise I keep some things from close friends and many personal things from people I hardly or don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm maybe because it's no one elses busines who we have met? You can see the summary in case anyone is worried we secretly only play with aliens

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