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How to get over an ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I previously joined this site with my ex, had a joint profile. He dumped me last Saturday as he has decided he is still in love with his cheating ex gf. I'm gutted

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Time , and think positive

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

Best way to get over him is to get underneath a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me help you out love, when can we meet up ?

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Lindt chocolates and a new pair of shoes isn't it?

(chin up )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to get over him is to get underneath a guy "

He's not wrong. Find yourself a local fun source and shag him out of your system. Tends to be my MO.

Depends how under your skin he was though, sometimes nothing works but time and an acceptance that he will always be an open wound that you learn to live with

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"So I previously joined this site with my ex, had a joint profile. He dumped me last Saturday as he has decided he is still in love with his cheating ex gf. I'm gutted "

your inbox is gonna explode with guys offering to help you get over him.

well positive is that he was honest and told you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently trying to do the same, it's hard, it's her birthday today and I took the weekend off to take her away, I'm now say at home thinking about her and wondering what she's up to. It just takes time, they reckon it takes two years to fully get over someone. Chin up, I'm sure it's his loss x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What I used to do when a relationship ended I'd give myself three weeks to whinge and whine to whoever would listen then pick myself up and dust myself down (usually take three weeks)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Join a swingers site and get yourself out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka and Abba. Lots and lots of Abba.

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent


"What I used to do when a relationship ended I'd give myself three weeks to whinge and whine to whoever would listen then pick myself up and dust myself down (usually take three weeks)"

But did those 3 weeks involve Lindt chocolates or new shoes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best way to get over him is to get underneath a guy

He's not wrong. Find yourself a local fun source and shag him out of your system. Tends to be my MO.

Depends how under your skin he was though, sometimes nothing works but time and an acceptance that he will always be an open wound that you learn to live with"

He got very under my skin, was planning weekends away and parties etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to get over him is to get underneath a guy "

You mean get under another guy? That makes more sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to get over him is to get underneath a guy

He's not wrong. Find yourself a local fun source and shag him out of your system. Tends to be my MO.

Depends how under your skin he was though, sometimes nothing works but time and an acceptance that he will always be an open wound that you learn to live with

He got very under my skin, was planning weekends away and parties etc. "

Having gone through a lot of it recently, I can relate.

If you want to talk feel free to PM, no tricks, I'm not into using someone's pain to get them into bed, and this is a couple's profile, L would disown me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years together,it hurt beyond belief..but now nearly two years on ive never been happier ,you never forget ,but you do get over it,when i left him i was devastated ,but now i pity him.You never know what you've got until its gone as he found out .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It just came so out of the blue, we were organising meets for the weekend and it was him that set up our profile on here. He had previously said that his ex would never do anything like this and wasn't into bdsm etc. He was a dominant man and I am naturally submissive so we matched perfectly. But I suppose he's made his choice and sadly that's not me but it's not as much fun doing this as a single woman as it was a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"23 years together,it hurt beyond belief..but now nearly two years on ive never been happier ,you never forget ,but you do get over it,when i left him i was devastated ,but now i pity him.You never know what you've got until its gone as he found out ."

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I previously joined this site with my ex, had a joint profile. He dumped me last Saturday as he has decided he is still in love with his cheating ex gf. I'm gutted "

His loss I'd say and better you found out sooner rather than investing time and effort in somebody who obviously didnt care enough for you. Chin up, we are not all scum bags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a new profile on a sex site.

Oh wait - you did that the same day that he dumped you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Icecream, get the girls round, wine, films, chatting, crying and then give yourself a month to be emotional and then pull up your big girl socks and carry on. Go out and have fun

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It just came so out of the blue, we were organising meets for the weekend and it was him that set up our profile on here. He had previously said that his ex would never do anything like this and wasn't into bdsm etc. He was a dominant man and I am naturally submissive so we matched perfectly. But I suppose he's made his choice and sadly that's not me but it's not as much fun doing this as a single woman as it was a couple "
at least with so many blokes on this site you're sure to get another one quite quickly .. good hunting xxx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Get a new profile on a sex site.

Oh wait - you did that the same day that he dumped you."

And then need to point that out was what exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake a load of conversations so it looks like he's cheating on her, or trying to, then find joy in his misery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a new profile on a sex site.

Oh wait - you did that the same day that he dumped you."

Yes I did and the reason that I did was so I could contact the couples we'd arranged meets with and parties etc

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Get a new profile on a sex site.

Oh wait - you did that the same day that he dumped you.

Yes I did and the reason that I did was so I could contact the couples we'd arranged meets with and parties etc"

You don't have to explain yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vodka and Abba. Lots and lots of Abba."
love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they find out the grass is not always greener on the other side ,most come back,my ex did this time and time again,until one day he stood at my door with..But its you i love ..and i replied ..TOUGH..NOT TODAY THANK YOU VERY MUCH TA TA YA SADDO..every time i see that Malteezer advert ,i pee meself ,bye Neil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a new profile on a sex site.

Oh wait - you did that the same day that he dumped you."

So what, it's not like she has to have a year of mourning or anything before she can start her life again?

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"So I previously joined this site with my ex, had a joint profile. He dumped me last Saturday as he has decided he is still in love with his cheating ex gf. I'm gutted "

As much i would like to give you a miricle cure to get over him, imo it takes time, no one deals with things in the same way, some will forget, others will hold on and try and ressurect. Being in a similar situation all i can say is try to find the good in the situation (although it can be difficult). The end always produces a new beginning, what you do with it is completely your choice. Nobody can tell you how to deal with it, only you can do that.

"Be strong things may be stormy now but it never rains forever"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just came so out of the blue, we were organising meets for the weekend and it was him that set up our profile on here. He had previously said that his ex would never do anything like this and wasn't into bdsm etc. He was a dominant man and I am naturally submissive so we matched perfectly. But I suppose he's made his choice and sadly that's not me but it's not as much fun doing this as a single woman as it was a couple "

Then ur doing it wrong!!! It gets better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I previously joined this site with my ex, had a joint profile. He dumped me last Saturday as he has decided he is still in love with his cheating ex gf. I'm gutted "

To get over my ex... I moved counties. Was planning on staying in sheffield after leaving the army, but when we split.. just after new year.. I made the decision to move back north.

Been too busy with work and other stuff to get upset. It will get better.

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