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By *inja 636 OP   Man
over a year ago

Grays

hi ladies and gents

eddie here i have met someone and although she is not a swinger i would be greatful for any advice, as she has a submissive nature and wants me to be her master,

i am just looking for tips and advice on how to do this properly because i do not want to cause offence, and it is highly important that even though i have been asked to be a dominee i want to do it so that it is enjoyable and not offensive in anyway

i am asking for help because i am a submissive guy however i do feel that with the right advice i may be able to adapt to both roles, i would like pointers from women on this subject as to what to do and try, but am open to comments from anyone

i know everyone is individual and like different levels i am not asking for a miracle just some suggestions

thank you all and have a great weekend

eddie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be a man with her and do manly things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be a man with her and do manly things x"

What sort of manly things should a Dom do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - You need to understand what she likes? Her fantasies perhaps and her turn ons. Everyone is different. If she's had a Dominant before she will have some ideas.

You said you're a submissive, so think about what about submission does it for you? That will help as some elements may crossover between you.

Depending how far you want to go, Clubs have demonstrations sometimes in Dungeons and the demonstrators will talk to you if you have questions etc.

Take it slow and experlment, not everything will work.

There is lots more but feel free to PM us by all means.

Sarah

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

You can't learn to be a master you either are or aren't. However you can learn to be a top or possibly Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personaly would talk a lot about it and go slowly as always the sub is the one really in charge because they can say no.

unless you are talking slave then thats a totally different dynamic

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Just be a man with her and do manly things x

What sort of manly things should a Dom do?"

Assemble flat pack furniture while I am in charge of the instructions?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh, and my advice to the OP is to talk to her. Find out what she wants and likes and where her boundaries lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, and my advice to the OP is to talk to her. Find out what she wants and likes and where her boundaries lie."

This

She needs to make it perfectly clear what she wants and doesn't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi ladies and gents

eddie here i have met someone and although she is not a swinger i would be greatful for any advice, as she has a submissive nature and wants me to be her master,

i am just looking for tips and advice on how to do this properly because i do not want to cause offence, and it is highly important that even though i have been asked to be a dominee i want to do it so that it is enjoyable and not offensive in anyway

i am asking for help because i am a submissive guy however i do feel that with the right advice i may be able to adapt to both roles, i would like pointers from women on this subject as to what to do and try, but am open to comments from anyone

i know everyone is individual and like different levels i am not asking for a miracle just some suggestions

thank you all and have a great weekend

eddie xx "

you need to spend a lot of time finding what her needs are as a sub its a long and hard journey for the dom and you might find that you suited to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do some reading together..... s and m 101 and screw the roses. Good books for beginners

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Communication is the key. Find out what she needs and wants from a Dom. If you are on the same page... proceed!

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