FabSwingers.com forum: Faces and a different kind of attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I was on the train today there was a guy who I saw and I instantly thought "I'd like to kiss him." What got me interested was just that he had a really nice face - or at least one I find attractive.

It happens to me sometimes where I'll just be walking or checking messages here, and I'll see a face that instantly gets my attention. But it isn't necessarily sexual attraction I'm talking about. It's more just the desire to kiss that person (though the sexual attraction is often there as well). It's part of why I like face pic Friday every now and then.

Does this happen to anyone else or am I being weird?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this happen to anyone else or am I being weird?

-Courtney"

A bit. I'd say that a woman can give a smile that makes her 10x more attractive. Likewise there are some natural beauties who walk around with a scowl or a pout looking like someone pissed in their cornflakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this happen to anyone else or am I being weird?

-Courtney

trout pout...*sigh*

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"When I was on the train today there was a guy who I saw and I instantly thought "I'd like to kiss him." What got me interested was just that he had a really nice face - or at least one I find attractive.

Does this happen to anyone else or am I being weird?

-Courtney"
I've never seen your face but I think id like to kiss it, men just see women an think I wanna fuck her. I have a different thing also when talking to attractive women sometimes I struggle to listen to them because all I think is I wanna get you naked an fuck you

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I see lots of men out and about who I like the look of but not on here for some reason. I don't think about kissing though, just sex or mothering and cuddling them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's funny....I was on a train today and noticed a lass staring at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's funny....I was on a train today and noticed a lass staring at me.

(I probably did stare at him a bit. I'm such a weirdo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see pics of some men's lips on here and think I'd love to kiss them.

I have a thing for lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's funny....I was on a train today and noticed a lass staring at me.

(I probably did stare at him a bit. I'm such a weirdo!

Sunglasses

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once asked a man in the street if I could kiss him because I just really really wanted to.

He was a little shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lips of a man do it for me...

I get put off by a man with thin lips and automatically dismiss them as being a (potentially) bad kisser...

I'm never usually wrong either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I once asked a man in the street if I could kiss him because I just really really wanted to.

He was a little shocked

Did he say yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lips of a man do it for me...

I get put off by a man with thin lips and automatically dismiss them as being a (potentially) bad kisser...

I'm never usually wrong either

I've got quite big/full lips and bloody hate them!!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Eyes do it for me, I often perv on then train to work. Nice eyes and smile and I start to imagine snogging them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently. "

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here. "

You can't consider them in isolation, you have to factor in the attitude. A stripper is sexy but she ain't cute. Give me cute any day of the week, twice on Sundays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lips of a man do it for me...

I get put off by a man with thin lips and automatically dismiss them as being a (potentially) bad kisser...

I'm never usually wrong either

I have thin lips.

FeelsBadMan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here. "

It is yes I think, how I view them (cute, sexy,etc) will inspire different reactions.

I tend to go for cute girls because they are the ones that inspire that desire, or almost need to kiss them properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's face is one of the things I find most attractive on them. If I am attracted to that, sometimes there is no turning back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here.

You can't consider them in isolation, you have to factor in the attitude. A stripper is sexy but she ain't cute. Give me cute any day of the week, twice on Sundays. "

Do men tend to generally agree on which women are cute, which are sexy, etc? Or is it personal? I always wondered which category I woukd fall into, if any.

I don't think my OP would be affected by whether I saw the guy as cute or sexy (for the record he was cute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Weirdo."

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently. "

Yeah this is usually what happens with me. I have a thing for cute girls but they almost always have to be brunettes as well. I don't even know what I mean by cute, I just know it when I see it. I think it's something to do with their facial features but it's hard to describe. It does often include sexual thoughts as well because that's just how my mind works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a major part of a sensuous and satisfying meet for us . So we have no issue with wanting it and enjoying it as part of our experience .

However , the desire the op has is an odd one as it seems like a desire from a different perspective and we wouldn't feel comfortable with it .

To see someone in a non swinging environment , and to feel the desire to kiss them is almost like being single and desiring someone as a single would . So we would fully expect that feeling from unattached people .

But as a couple ?

Nah .... See someone and think . ' yeah I could get proper naughty with him or her ' , fine . But to desire on the level of a kiss ? Not something we have at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here.

You can't consider them in isolation, you have to factor in the attitude. A stripper is sexy but she ain't cute. Give me cute any day of the week, twice on Sundays.

Do men tend to generally agree on which women are cute, which are sexy, etc? Or is it personal? I always wondered which category I woukd fall into, if any.

I don't think my OP would be affected by whether I saw the guy as cute or sexy (for the record he was cute

)."

For me, cute is face, sexy is body

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing is a major part of a sensuous and satisfying meet for us . So we have no issue with wanting it and enjoying it as part of our experience .

However , the desire the op has is an odd one as it seems like a desire from a different perspective and we wouldn't feel comfortable with it .

But as a couple ?

Nah .... See someone and think . ' yeah I could get proper naughty with him or her ' , fine . But to desire on the level of a kiss ? Not something we have at all .

Interesting. I don't see it as a single person's emotion. More just different attraction. I've always felt it, whether single or married. I think Marc has as well. I dobt mean I'd like to snuggle up and discuss my future with them. Just a makeout session or something.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I do this.....it's usually a friendly, happy looking person with warm eyes and I will find myself looking at their lips and wondering what they kiss like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here.

You can't consider them in isolation, you have to factor in the attitude. A stripper is sexy but she ain't cute. Give me cute any day of the week, twice on Sundays.

Do men tend to generally agree on which women are cute, which are sexy, etc? Or is it personal? I always wondered which category I woukd fall into, if any.

I don't think my OP would be affected by whether I saw the guy as cute or sexy (for the record he was cute

)."

Yeah its a pretty straight forward categorisation process. Me and Mrs Mixed do it when we're out and about.

Personally I don't have much luck with sexy girls anyway. They tend to make assumptions about me because I got a posh accent. They don't get to know me and find out that I'm straight up gangsta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get that. It happens usually with girls who are really cute. It's not a sexual things but I get the desire to just want to go and kiss them softly and gently.

Ah, is this the whole "cute" vs. "sexy" vs. "beautiful" distinction men often make about women? It's such an interesting distinction. I could see how it would apply here.

You can't consider them in isolation, you have to factor in the attitude. A stripper is sexy but she ain't cute. Give me cute any day of the week, twice on Sundays.

Do men tend to generally agree on which women are cute, which are sexy, etc? Or is it personal? I always wondered which category I woukd fall into, if any.

I don't think my OP would be affected by whether I saw the guy as cute or sexy (for the record he was cute

)."

I think it's personal but then all my friends say I have an odd taste in women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to comment on this thread but it would be sub judical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would like to comment on this thread but it would be sub judical

Oh, go on then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once asked a man in the street if I could kiss him because I just really really wanted to.

He was a little shocked

My dad still hasn't recovered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to comment on this thread but it would be sub judical

Oh, go on then!

Why did she have to be a human rights lawyer? Sod's Law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once asked a man in the street if I could kiss him because I just really really wanted to.

He was a little shocked

Did he accept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes first. Lips a close second. Arse a very close third.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once asked a man in the street if I could kiss him because I just really really wanted to.

He was a little shocked

Did he say yes?

Yes he kissed me right there on the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a major part of a sensuous and satisfying meet for us . So we have no issue with wanting it and enjoying it as part of our experience .

However , the desire the op has is an odd one as it seems like a desire from a different perspective and we wouldn't feel comfortable with it .

But as a couple ?

Nah .... See someone and think . ' yeah I could get proper naughty with him or her ' , fine . But to desire on the level of a kiss ? Not something we have at all .

Mmmm..... Now surely that's a different thing to meeting up for NSA sex isn't it ?

I think I would struggle to cope with the emotions involved if Sabrina came home and said she had ' made out ' with a guy she fancied , and they just kissed etc.....

If she came home and told me she copped off with a fit guy , and sucked him off or fucked him , that would be hot though .... Complicated sometimes isn't it ?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Eyes first. Lips a close second. Arse a very close third.

Eyes are my downfall...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing is a major part of a sensuous and satisfying meet for us . So we have no issue with wanting it and enjoying it as part of our experience .

However , the desire the op has is an odd one as it seems like a desire from a different perspective and we wouldn't feel comfortable with it .

But as a couple ?

Nah .... See someone and think . ' yeah I could get proper naughty with him or her ' , fine . But to desire on the level of a kiss ? Not something we have at all .

Mmmm..... Now surely that's a different thing to meeting up for NSA sex isn't it ?

I think I would struggle to cope with the emotions involved if Sabrina came home and said she had ' made out ' with a guy she fancied , and they just kissed etc.....

If she came home and told me she copped off with a fit guy , and sucked him off or fucked him , that would be hot though .... Complicated sometimes isn't it ?

Yes, it's always interesting to me what different people will find too intimate. It can range from the act of kissing, to the topic of this thread, and yes, even to just having sex with other people. It's part of what makes all this so interesting.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We both think that someone we'd like to kiss is the same someone we'd like to fuck.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Often see ladies on the train or street that I would love to go up and kiss. Alas the threat of a slap in the face and a custodial sentence has made me refrain from going further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes first. Lips a close second. Arse a very close third.

Eyes are my downfall...

Direct eye contact with 'cum to bed' eyes?

*drooling*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally get that. Not necessarily a "traditional beauty" thing, more just something about their face - an expression or an attitude - that makes them oddly attractive.

There's a girl in work who - on paper, at least - is fairly average looking with an unremarkable figure, but there's something about those lips that makes me think she'd be great fun to snog!

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