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"There is no need to call anyone a whore or a slut I treat my meets with respect and monnors just the way any women should be treated x xx" well said joe x | |||
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"A regular meet once called me a whore in a fit of passion, shame really as he was a bit of a hunk and the sex was always good.... I never bothered seeing him again" Know what you mean - great guy once decided to call me his bitch-slut. Never spoke to him once again and blocked him so he couldn't mail me on here. Turns me straight off... | |||
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"There is no need to call anyone a whore or a slut I treat my meets with respect and monnors just the way any women should be treated x xx" You're missing the point: the OP is about women calling themselves that! | |||
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"in all honesty if you are talking to me or meeting me i know im a lucky boy so toatal respect all the way,Treat others as you would like to be treated.xxxx" Oh please! | |||
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"in all honesty if you are talking to me or meeting me i know im a lucky boy so toatal respect all the way,Treat others as you would like to be treated.xxxx Oh please! " sorry if u think its bullshit but ive been on here a while now and thats how i am ,like it or lump it | |||
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"in all honesty if you are talking to me or meeting me i know im a lucky boy so toatal respect all the way,Treat others as you would like to be treated.xxxx Oh please! sorry if u think its bullshit but ive been on here a while now and thats how i am ,like it or lump it" There you go: a honest response as opposed to your sycophantic one! Well done you! | |||
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"in all honesty if you are talking to me or meeting me i know im a lucky boy so toatal respect all the way,Treat others as you would like to be treated.xxxx Oh please! sorry if u think its bullshit but ive been on here a while now and thats how i am ,like it or lump it There you go: a honest response as opposed to your sycophantic one! Well done you! " so is that good or bad??? im not sure lol | |||
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"Ive seen loads of womens profiles calling themselves sluts and whores They're happy with it or they would'nt do it " I think like you if happy calling themselfs that fine with me x | |||
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"Many women on here call themselves such things .Good or bad?????" its good if your into that kind of thing Personally i dislike it, and find a guy calling me such names during sex a real turn off I deffo think its one of them things that you have to make sure is ok before you start calling women it lol | |||
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"I would never described myself as either - I'm just a woman that happens to like a lot of sex. I don't need a label and I dislike anyone calling me names during the height of passion ........ especially their wife's name! Amazing how it's the women that get the labels and yet there isn't an equivalent in the English Language for men ....... well apart from tart and poseur." Even then these labels don't all mean the same, "poseur" generally refers to a bloke's vanity, rather than his penchant for sleeping with many women. Daft as it may seem the word "stud" which actually sounds like a compliment means just this, as though long since outdated, it was assumed that for a man to sleep with lots of women he had to be virile, handsome and a great lover as women are extremely fussy about who they sleep with. The female equivalent was just seen as a slapper as generally a women could just lay on her back and say "Who wants it?" as men had a much greater desire for sex with multiple partners than women. I think perhaps more accurately, the word "rake" is used around the Eastyorks area, for a bloke who is none too choosy about where he will stick his schlong..... | |||
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"As you can see from one of my profile pix i can be when the mood takes me everyone knows men loves a naughty girl so if its a fantasty then why not ?" That's the thing though - YOU don't mind, some of us mind very much. It's really about making sure if you're going to refer to someone as such, that person is happy with it. If not, they'll find themselves unceremounsiously dismissed! | |||
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"If it's part of the fantasy then I'll say it. That's why I like getting to know people fairly well beforehand because a misspoken word can really ruin the moment!" yup completely agree with that.. | |||
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"If you are comfortable calling yourself slut, whore, slapper etc. fine go ahead. Me? I call myself a lady........ it drives guys wild when I don't behave like one! " There you go! I look really cuddly and sweet, honest, butter wouldn't melt. I look like I should be offering tea and sympathy. Well, I'm learning to be more generous with the lube and have cut my nails...all ladylike heart and charm me! | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything" even if it was in a fantasy/roleplay situation? id certainly never give it out easily and am very fussy.. however love the idea of playing a character who is my complete opposite when it comes to sex. | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything" Am I the only one that notices the correlation between these woman who call themselves sluts, whores etc and their posts ie men treating them badly, not turning up etc. | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything Am I the only one that notices the correlation between these woman who call themselves sluts, whores etc and their posts ie men treating them badly, not turning up etc." Noticed this also, respect comes from oneself initially, and many men take the cue from you. | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything Am I the only one that notices the correlation between these woman who call themselves sluts, whores etc and their posts ie men treating them badly, not turning up etc." No Sassy. There does tend to be a lot of messing about by those that don't value themselves enough giving carte blanche to others to treat them the same way. I agree with Redhead women are missing the point that THEY are labelled as something dirty for having sex even in this day and age... Can't say it doesn't appeal at times but like others the context and partner matter first and the situation is created aftewards. Advertising as a slut is fine just don't moan when you are disregarded like one. | |||
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" Women are not pink petalled fragile faries....... " You told me I was!!! | |||
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"Oh ....and p.p.p.p.s ! Creeps me out when men say they 'know how to treat a lady' ..Orrrrrrrrr ' I show ladies respect like they deserve' etc etc etc ... Makes me want to puke..... Women are not pink petalled fragile faries....... some of them are bleeing nasty to the core.! " I have a bleeding nasty core....the ointments healing it though. | |||
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" Women are not pink petalled fragile faries....... You told me I was!!! " mmmmm I think I said pig pest n fuckin hairy ..... Wanna lend me hearing aid ?? | |||
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"Oh ....and p.p.p.p.s ! Creeps me out when men say they 'know how to treat a lady' ..Orrrrrrrrr ' I show ladies respect like they deserve' etc etc etc ... Makes me want to puke..... Women are not pink petalled fragile faries....... some of them are bleeing nasty to the core.! I have a bleeding nasty core....the ointments healing it though." blurrrrrrgh ..... | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything even if it was in a fantasy/roleplay situation? id certainly never give it out easily and am very fussy.. however love the idea of playing a character who is my complete opposite when it comes to sex." The op is new,he hasnt been verified yet said women on here, so one would make the assumption he was talking about women having it on their profiles. What someone does in their bedroom is a different thread | |||
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"just let me see if i've got this right. dont call a women,slut,whore,slapper,at any time.oh except for the ones who like to be called slut,whore,slapper. or when the mood takes,the ones who dont like to be called slut,whore,slapper,then it's ok. dont say,know how to treat a lady,or i show them the respect they deserve. oh except for the ones,who like to be told,you'll treat them like a lady,and show them the respect they deserve. oh except when the ones,aah f*** it!! to be honest,it seems like you just have to take,a shot in the dark(no pun intended) or say nothing and hope,the woman is shallow enough,to go on looks alone. sorry ugly guys,oh shit thats my category. is it any wonder guys go about,with a perpetual look of dazed confusion. only interrupted by that look of total shock,when the woman says,thats right. " Simple really, innit? | |||
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"just let me see if i've got this right. dont call a women,slut,whore,slapper,at any time.oh except for the ones who like to be called slut,whore,slapper. or when the mood takes,the ones who dont like to be called slut,whore,slapper,then it's ok. dont say,know how to treat a lady,or i show them the respect they deserve. oh except for the ones,who like to be told,you'll treat them like a lady,and show them the respect they deserve. oh except when the ones,aah f*** it!! to be honest,it seems like you just have to take,a shot in the dark(no pun intended) or say nothing and hope,the woman is shallow enough,to go on looks alone. sorry ugly guys,oh shit thats my category. is it any wonder guys go about,with a perpetual look of dazed confusion. only interrupted by that look of total shock,when the woman says,thats right. Simple really, innit?" my brain hurts. | |||
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"just let me see if i've got this right. dont call a women,slut,whore,slapper,at any time.oh except for the ones who like to be called slut,whore,slapper. or when the mood takes,the ones who dont like to be called slut,whore,slapper,then it's ok. dont say,know how to treat a lady,or i show them the respect they deserve. oh except for the ones,who like to be told,you'll treat them like a lady,and show them the respect they deserve. oh except when the ones,aah f*** it!! to be honest,it seems like you just have to take,a shot in the dark(no pun intended) or say nothing and hope,the woman is shallow enough,to go on looks alone. sorry ugly guys,oh shit thats my category. is it any wonder guys go about,with a perpetual look of dazed confusion. only interrupted by that look of total shock,when the woman says,thats right. Simple really, innit? my brain hurts. " | |||
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" my brain hurts. Stop straining it. " remembering name and adress does that. | |||
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" my brain hurts. Stop straining it. remembering name and adress does that. " Is that why I haven't had you stalk me recently? | |||
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" my brain hurts. Stop straining it. remembering name and adress does that. Is that why I haven't had you stalk me recently? " it's his own he has trouble with Loops, never mind anyone else's x | |||
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"In my opinion a woman calling heself a whore/slut/slapper gives the impression she will sleep with anyone or anything Am I the only one that notices the correlation between these woman who call themselves sluts, whores etc and their posts ie men treating them badly, not turning up etc. No Sassy. There does tend to be a lot of messing about by those that don't value themselves enough giving carte blanche to others to treat them the same way. I agree with Redhead women are missing the point that THEY are labelled as something dirty for having sex even in this day and age... Can't say it doesn't appeal at times but like others the context and partner matter first and the situation is created aftewards. Advertising as a slut is fine just don't moan when you are disregarded like one. " Or reclaim the word slut.Why is it an insult ?Because women are not meant to have sex as freely as men,the only reason it is an insult is because women allow their behaviour to be defined by the fear of slut shaming. The Ethical slut is a must read ,and i am a very proud ethical slut. | |||
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" my brain hurts. Stop straining it. remembering name and adress does that. Is that why I haven't had you stalk me recently? it's his own he has trouble with Loops, never mind anyone else's x" ssssssshhhhh you 2 if the stalkers union gets hold of this,i'll be out on my ear. | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms " do you think i'm spreading myself to thin. | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms " come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx" budge up then | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx budge up then" **lifts the duvet pushes the cushions out the way and makes Diamonds comfy** I'll give to bell to ring No1 son when we want some supper rustled up, | |||
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"and how many people have read "In praise of sluts" slut is a derogrative term to describe a woman. The suggestion being the women is not fussy, is cheap and tacky. Now what you say may well be true but its not the same as other peoples take on the word slut" Yep: agree! | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx budge up then" make room for me in the middle. yes it's my dream threesome,i know one of us will be satisfied. you two can look after yourselves. right who farted. | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx budge up then make room for me in the middle. yes it's my dream threesome,i know one of us will be satisfied. you two can look after yourselves. right who farted. " ...you smelt it you dealt it.... go help cheffy son to cook supper. | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx budge up then make room for me in the middle. yes it's my dream threesome,i know one of us will be satisfied. you two can look after yourselves. right who farted. ...you smelt it you dealt it.... go help cheffy son to cook supper. " Can you pass me the butter laine, seeings it wont melt in my mouth i will have to shove up someones arse | |||
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"psssssssst laine and wendy can i join hes stalking me with pms come hide in my lovely big bed with me....he'll never find us there, last place he'll look. xx budge up then make room for me in the middle. yes it's my dream threesome,i know one of us will be satisfied. you two can look after yourselves. right who farted. ...you smelt it you dealt it.... go help cheffy son to cook supper. Can you pass me the butter laine, seeings it wont melt in my mouth i will have to shove up someones arse" .....ooer I like the Last tango In Paris parties. | |||
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"and how many people have read "In praise of sluts" slut is a derogrative term to describe a woman. The suggestion being the women is not fussy, is cheap and tacky. Now what you say may well be true but its not the same as other peoples take on the word slut" So,should we accept the small minded judgement of other people?if they want to say that women should be afraid of being sexual ,open,available,well i will challenge them Remember dyke and queer were insults too,so long as the world praises men for sexual conquests and attacks women for the same i will be a loud and proud slut. But i realise that is probably too liberal for a swinging site. | |||
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"and how many people have read "In praise of sluts" slut is a derogrative term to describe a woman. The suggestion being the women is not fussy, is cheap and tacky. Now what you say may well be true but its not the same as other peoples take on the word slut So,should we accept the small minded judgement of other people?if they want to say that women should be afraid of being sexual ,open,available,well i will challenge them Remember dyke and queer were insults too,so long as the world praises men for sexual conquests and attacks women for the same i will be a loud and proud slut. But i realise that is probably too liberal for a swinging site." The op asked a question, people answered it, most said negative things about it, you think its good to be called a slut. Noones asked you to change your opinion just dont expect others to change theres. Cant see anyone else up in arms about it. Your happy, comfortable and content calling yourself a slut surely thats all that matters | |||
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"Many women on here call themselves such things .Good or bad?????" I dont think i have ever referred to myself as either, but not adverse in the right situation | |||
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"I found it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In Praise of Sluts,i wrote this after another thread elsewhere tried to say woman should have more pride in themselves and all that crap In Praise Of Sluts... Sluts give of themselves freely, to those who truly appreciate them... Sluts never ask for money, but they wouldn't refuse it if offered... Sluts care more about the pleasure of others than their own pleasure... Sluts get MORE pleasure by pleasing others than if they were pleasing themselves... Sluts are generous with their sexual favors, because that's the most valuable gift they have to share with the world... Sluts are not shy, but they can pretend to be if that brings pleasure to their partner... Sluts are happiest when they know that they are desired, desirable and appreciated... Sluts gladly spread their thighs because it gives pleasure to others... Sluts enjoy playing with themselves, either to entertain others, or to entertain themselves... Sluts love oral pleasures, but they love giving as much (and usually MORE) than 'receiving'... Sluts love to fuck, and they express their love and compassion for others by sharing their sweet flesh, and fucking at every opportunity... Sluts may love to cum, but they love making their partners cum even more... Sluts love to scream 'FUCK MEEEEEEEE.....!' Sluts love to make their partners lose all control, because sex should never be 'controlled', it should be unrestrained, unchained and uninhibited... Sluts keep the world from destroying itself... Which Is Why: We Praise Sluts!" Reading this, replacing the word women for sluts and it almost describes every one of us on this site! | |||
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"Reading this, replacing the word women for sluts and it almost describes every one of us on this site! " . Indeed! I'd like to believe I am a slutty lady! | |||
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