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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?"
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I don't think it's one or the other, it's a combination of both

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?"

i have no inner conflict, i know my landscape and i act...with timing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart makes decisions that are inconvenient and altogether at odds with my head.

It's a constant battle between the sensible choice and the choice that will make me happy - however temporarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head, always follow that it's mostly right

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I try and make the right decision even if ita not always benificial to me so head i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gut mostly

Mrs x

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

My head says Italy, my heart says Croatia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I follow my instinct x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?.

I don't think it's one or the other, it's a combination of both"

But when in doubt, reason wins out.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Neither are always right so I try and follow my gut instinct (which is better than both but again not 100% right!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither are always right so I try and follow my gut instinct (which is better than both but again not 100% right!) "

This for me also such a wise lady

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

My head because I'm a clever cunt

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?"

Head obviously.

If we stopped feeling and started thinking then we would manage to achieve a lot more good things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to overthink things and typically end up making the wrong choice might look right at the time.

But having said that. It's best to make choices and don't look back.

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By *IMLIMBIMMan
over a year ago

Redhill


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?"

My cock generally has a bigger say than both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neither are always right so I try and follow my gut instinct (which is better than both but again not 100% right!) "

My gut instinct (heart) has always been pretty good for me.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Neither are always right so I try and follow my gut instinct (which is better than both but again not 100% right!) "

this..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I use both but every once is a while I take the FI option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little card that a good friend sent to me which says "Listen to your head, your heart is an idiot". I consistently fail to follow this advice!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I use both but every once is a while I take the FI option."

hybrid or wheel spin away..?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I use both but every once is a while I take the FI option.

hybrid or wheel spin away..?"

Not F1 (one). FI (F it).

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I use both but every once is a while I take the FI option.

hybrid or wheel spin away..?

Not F1 (one). FI (F it)."

bloody NHS glasses..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have a little card that a good friend sent to me which says "Listen to your head, your heart is an idiot". I consistently fail to follow this advice! "

Hearts help us take risks. It's not all bad. The root of courage is the Latin for heart.

A friend sent me a message saying that when I have those days when I'm talking to myself I should listen as he's never met a wiser woman.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Think about it all logically forever, then ignore logic and follow my heart!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a little card that a good friend sent to me which says "Listen to your head, your heart is an idiot". I consistently fail to follow this advice!

Hearts help us take risks. It's not all bad. The root of courage is the Latin for heart.

A friend sent me a message saying that when I have those days when I'm talking to myself I should listen as he's never met a wiser woman."

The head will always lead you to a rational outcome, but rational is not always right. As you say, the heart encourages risk and bravery, not always right either! I guess all we can do I back our own judgement and never regret our choices but accept them and move forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When making big decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? And which has proved most effective with the benefit of hindsight?.

I don't think it's one or the other, it's a combination of both"

I always consult both - however when they are at odds I tend to go with my head for financial and long term decisions eg, do I really need a expensive holiday.

Heart for emotive decisions eg, does a relationship seem like it will work out? Do I drop everything to see a close friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose heart everytime just be ready for if it breaks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a little card that a good friend sent to me which says "Listen to your head, your heart is an idiot". I consistently fail to follow this advice!

Hearts help us take risks. It's not all bad. The root of courage is the Latin for heart.

A friend sent me a message saying that when I have those days when I'm talking to myself I should listen as he's never met a wiser woman."

I need that friend.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Neither are always right so I try and follow my gut instinct (which is better than both but again not 100% right!)

This for me also such a wise lady "

I shall take that as a compliment!

Thank you

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