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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Untill recently I didn't believed in it but having worked with people with depression I've seen a whole knew light!!! What do u guys think x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Untill recently I didn't believed in it but having worked with people with depression I've seen a whole knew light!!! What do u guys think x"

Did you live in a cave until now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Untill recently I didn't believed in it but having worked with people with depression I've seen a whole knew light!!! What do u guys think x"

I'm glad that you've had your opinion changed but up until that point what did you think? That people were just sad and being dramatic?

Just because you can't see something doesn't make it untrue. Depression wrecked my marriage, blighted my life and stole away the woman that I married and my kids mother. If you want to see if it's true come and talk to me.

And what do you mean what do others think? If you believe that it's real surely you should be fighting against the ignorance not taking a straw poll

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I believe that enough has been said by everyone else, OP.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Many people suffer with depression ....or bi polar ..... but they dont wear badges ....

Thank god more people are becoming more aware ....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This is really worth listening to:

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b07pj2pw

The Inflamed Mind explores the work on autoimmune diseases as a cause of depression and treatments using anti-inflammatory drugs rather than anti-depressants.

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Yet another look at me posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have suffered and come out the other side now working with the Samaritans and the Gloucester centre. What is scary is men who develops depression and go on to commit suicide scary statistics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have suffered and come out the other side now working with the Samaritans and the Gloucester centre. What is scary is men who develops depression and go on to commit suicide scary statistics x"

That's so sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another look at me posting"

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By *r CuddleMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed."

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation"

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I rapid cycle emotionally so I kinda got used to depression and kinda had no choice . Gym helps a ton though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Samaritans, at my lowest point these where the ones that helped most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?"

Have you not heard of a phone?doctors do make house calls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed."

See if your doctor will refer you to Talking Therapies or some other counselling. What about looking online for social groups in your area, there's a website called meet ups which has a whole load of different groups and societies for all sorts of different hobbies. That might be a good way of getting to meet people?

Good luck xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?

Have you not heard of a phone?doctors do make house calls"

Plus he never said he cant bring himself to leave the house,where the fuck did that come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?"

Because, and I know, it's either that or wallow in self pity to the point you do something stupid.

Saying no one wants to help is just that. We have a cracking NHS in comparison to some countries. Help is out there if one is prepared to help themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?

Have you not heard of a phone?doctors do make house calls

Plus he never said he cant bring himself to leave the house,where the fuck did that come from?"

I'm guessing u never suffered with depression. It's not as easy as picking up the phone and telling someone. It's an awful thing for someone to gave to go through. Especially when they feel their is no one they can talk too.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed."

You seem to have struck a good friendship with a couple on here. Celebrate that and use it as a stepping stone to more. Get some professional help and enrol in an evening class.

Good luck

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

I first became Ill with depression/anxiety nearly a decade ago after a series of emotional and physical setbacks within a relatively short span of time..... I went from a happy confident man to an almost empty shell, meds worked to a point but it was down to me to drag myself up again and i had the wonderful help of friends and my ex who were and still are amazingly helpful and protective of me...... if it wasn't for them then I wouldn't be here today

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im bipolar, i have my illness controlled as well as i can.

Today has been a typical day for me.

Got up, felt sick

Sat for about an hour till my meds from last night had settled.

Can speak with no slurring or dropey mouth (good day)

Couldnt get in the shower so had another coffee.

Forced myself in the shower got dressed went out.

Talked "at" my mum for a couple of hours (had gone a bit hypo)

Came home, burst into tears and wanted to go to save the children.

Stopped crying

Trying to start the housework.

This is a typical day for me.

But i live round my illness not through it. Im away at the end of the week so next week will be a bad week.

Understanding your illness and working with it is the key but unfortunatly it doesnt happen overnight. Having bipolar is an ongoing battle every day of your life. Its very challenging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffer from depression. It's like I'm locked inside my head. I have no friends nobody helps me. I message others they push me away. I so lonely if only someone would say to me that they liked me. And wanted me it would make such a difference. Ed.

Have you not been to the doctors and explained you're sutuation

How would you go to the doctors when you can't bring yourself to leave the house?

Have you not heard of a phone?doctors do make house calls

Plus he never said he cant bring himself to leave the house,where the fuck did that come from?

I'm guessing u never suffered with depression. It's not as easy as picking up the phone and telling someone. It's an awful thing for someone to gave to go through. Especially when they feel their is no one they can talk too."

That is where you are very very wrong i have,and i got tinnitus from it

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Untill recently I didn't believed in it but having worked with people with depression I've seen a whole knew light!!! What do u guys think x"

How can you not believe in it. Did you no believe in diabetes, broken legs?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Mind ... is a good organisation to contact to speak to someone ... sometimes a complete stranger is easier to talk to than your GP ....

They are far more equipped and trained ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Mr have suffered with bipolar for years. It can be a very lonely place but attitudes are changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gone through that myself. It is a big step admitting you have it and putting your hand up for help. Nothing wrong with it at all and takes a brave person to do so. Your doctor can put you in touch with therapies and advice groups.

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By *r CuddleMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Thank you for your suggestions. I wish you all well. Ed x

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By *r CuddleMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Thank you for your thoughts. Ed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been there myself! until i read this....life changing

the chimp paradox by prof steve peters

you can get it free with audible if you take up the 30 day trial.

life changing for confidence, anxiety, anger management, being humble and empathetic, revive your emotive thinking...cant speak highly enough of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tube 'Black Dog' a proper eye opener.

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