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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

I've been lucky up to now but it's creeping up on me. Biggest waistline I've ever had 34 inches. Finding it hard to shift. Oh for the days of a 30 inch waist. Tried the Insanity workout out and lost nothing but ended up with knackered knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 34 inch waist. But im happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lost nothing on insanity?! I think I lost a whole person when I did it (about 25lbs anyway).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a slightly wider man. It's beer belly I'm not keen on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have my sympathy op - I'm spreading fast - could be something to do with the sausage butty and daughter's birthday cake I've just scoffed!

May I recommend a basque? Works for women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have my sympathy op - I'm spreading fast - could be something to do with the sausage butty and daughter's birthday cake I've just scoffed!

May I recommend a basque? Works for women! "

Basques do work well however my bosoms have no where to go and pop out the top as shown in pics haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 30" waist, absolute nightmare for buying jeans. I can hardly ever find ones to fit me. Even with most, loose fit jeans I can't bend my leg .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have my sympathy op - I'm spreading fast - could be something to do with the sausage butty and daughter's birthday cake I've just scoffed!

May I recommend a basque? Works for women!

Basques do work well however my bosoms have no where to go and pop out the top as shown in pics haha "

I always thought that was the whole point?

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"You have my sympathy op - I'm spreading fast - could be something to do with the sausage butty and daughter's birthday cake I've just scoffed!

May I recommend a basque? Works for women!

Basques do work well however my bosoms have no where to go and pop out the top as shown in pics haha

I always thought that was the whole point? "

Hehe me too.... It's a design feature

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Basques are great ( ladies only ) love seeing boobs scooped out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this started on me when I was about 12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Corsets are fine till you sit down and your chins sat on your tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have my sympathy op - I'm spreading fast - could be something to do with the sausage butty and daughter's birthday cake I've just scoffed!

May I recommend a basque? Works for women!

Basques do work well however my bosoms have no where to go and pop out the top as shown in pics haha

I always thought that was the whole point? "

Yes yours look great mine look obscene

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Having lost 3 stone in the last 12 months my biggest problem right now is stopping myself constantly pulling my trousers up. Have been a 34" waist for 20 years or more, the shorts I'm currently wearing are 30" !!!

Mr G

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

I much prefer guy who's alittle on the chunky side..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least as a female i can get away with looking pregnant.

my niece has lost a ton of weight doing insanity.

idk why but the belly is really hard to get rid of for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine"

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol"

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest "

what about wholemeal bread? i think it's caused my bloating today but i've also been coughing loads and could have swallowed loads of air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest

what about wholemeal bread? i think it's caused my bloating today but i've also been coughing loads and could have swallowed loads of air."

all bread should be avoided on a low carb excersize, try any meat but the leaner the better and 1 mug size of veg or salad but the veg and salad is really up to you.

I would lay off all fizzy drinks as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest

what about wholemeal bread? i think it's caused my bloating today but i've also been coughing loads and could have swallowed loads of air.

all bread should be avoided on a low carb excersize, try any meat but the leaner the better and 1 mug size of veg or salad but the veg and salad is really up to you.

I would lay off all fizzy drinks as well"

thanks. ok i will avoid the wholemeal bread as well. i don't like any other bread so it's easy to avoid that.

the veg i can eat way more than that easily and already do.

i probably need to do more exercise as well, i don't do much.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

28 waist 41 chest here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on. "

I'm sure I read somewhere (years ago) your body naturally gains weight each year from your mid 30's. So even if you've successfully lost weight in the past with diet & excercise you have to keep upping your regime to counteract the gain.

Trouble is for me I don't have the time or the inclination the older I've got to up my exercise & decrease my food intake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest

what about wholemeal bread? i think it's caused my bloating today but i've also been coughing loads and could have swallowed loads of air.

all bread should be avoided on a low carb excersize, try any meat but the leaner the better and 1 mug size of veg or salad but the veg and salad is really up to you.

I would lay off all fizzy drinks as well

thanks. ok i will avoid the wholemeal bread as well. i don't like any other bread so it's easy to avoid that.

the veg i can eat way more than that easily and already do.

i probably need to do more exercise as well, i don't do much."

and definitely cut out the booze if you do... I (wtf) lost about a stone within 6 months just giving that up

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on.

I'm sure I read somewhere (years ago) your body naturally gains weight each year from your mid 30's. So even if you've successfully lost weight in the past with diet & excercise you have to keep upping your regime to counteract the gain.

Trouble is for me I don't have the time or the inclination the older I've got to up my exercise & decrease my food intake!

"

It's hard to keep it off specially if you love food as much as I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the beer thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on.

I'm sure I read somewhere (years ago) your body naturally gains weight each year from your mid 30's. So even if you've successfully lost weight in the past with diet & excercise you have to keep upping your regime to counteract the gain.

Trouble is for me I don't have the time or the inclination the older I've got to up my exercise & decrease my food intake!

It's hard to keep it off specially if you love food as much as I do "

Keeping it off is a nightmare

I'm your classic yo-yo dieter

I've lost count of the times I lost weight, got to my goal and banged it all back on again only to got round the circuit again

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still 32 waist

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on.

I'm sure I read somewhere (years ago) your body naturally gains weight each year from your mid 30's. So even if you've successfully lost weight in the past with diet & excercise you have to keep upping your regime to counteract the gain.

Trouble is for me I don't have the time or the inclination the older I've got to up my exercise & decrease my food intake!

"

Seems to be working very nicely for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we get older our bodies hormones change, from 35 onwards losing weight becomes increasingly more difficult, your metabolism slows down, so you have to be more careful on your food intake and increase your bodies activity. (If possible of course), I was 32" waisted but now I've found im buying 34", I may have strayed a bit from my diet though, needless to say I'm as active as I can be with running cycling and martial art training, but still the weight is creeping back on.

I'm sure I read somewhere (years ago) your body naturally gains weight each year from your mid 30's. So even if you've successfully lost weight in the past with diet & excercise you have to keep upping your regime to counteract the gain.

Trouble is for me I don't have the time or the inclination the older I've got to up my exercise & decrease my food intake!

It's hard to keep it off specially if you love food as much as I do

Keeping it off is a nightmare

I'm your classic yo-yo dieter

I've lost count of the times I lost weight, got to my goal and banged it all back on again only to got round the circuit again "

This is me too for the last 20 odd years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try a low / no carb diet for a month plus no fizzy drinks.

It's difficult to last a month but once your into it you should be fine

Thanks for the advice.

I bloody love bread tho lol

Yea so do I but once you lay off it for a while it isn't too bad. Honest

what about wholemeal bread? i think it's caused my bloating today but i've also been coughing loads and could have swallowed loads of air.

all bread should be avoided on a low carb excersize, try any meat but the leaner the better and 1 mug size of veg or salad but the veg and salad is really up to you.

I would lay off all fizzy drinks as well

thanks. ok i will avoid the wholemeal bread as well. i don't like any other bread so it's easy to avoid that.

the veg i can eat way more than that easily and already do.

i probably need to do more exercise as well, i don't do much.

and definitely cut out the booze if you do... I (wtf) lost about a stone within 6 months just giving that up

xx"

i don't drink at all, well loads of coffee, but thanks for the advice anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be a 34 waist

It's all about context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stress is good for losing weight, I lost over 6 stone in 3 months due to getting a divorce.

Not recommended tho lol, but obviously it did have it's plus points.

At my lightest I got down to 11 stone and 28" waist.

Now fitter then ever, weight varies from 14/15 stone and put a lot of muscle on currently a tight 34" waist but looking to get back down to 32"

Low carb works for me but it isn't for everyone

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