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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If attraction there is, I will def meet;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And then it's gone tits up. Live and learn though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more me worried that I don't love upto expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm/we're attracted online we will meet, if the bubble bursts and we feel differently on the meet we just won't play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of times. But in a few cases, I needn't have worried, the meets ended up being fantastic and quite long lasting. All was good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations "

This

Ftfy btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm really good at telling whether there will be a real life spark or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And sometimes it's much further down the line when expectations aren't met.

That's just life I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations

This

Ftfy btw "

Ftfy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations

This

Ftfy btw

Ftfy??"

Fixed That For You

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??"

You simply can't think like that...

I have a friend whose hubby boutght her a car, his reasoning they would get a decent sized family car for them both and the kids...

She wanted a small car... Thinks this one is too big!

She has proceeded to have at least 8 accidents within a year!

Point is, I think her negative thinking has contributed to her constant accidents...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations

This

Ftfy btw

Ftfy??

Fixed That For You "

Fixed what tho

I'm lost

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations

This

Ftfy btw

Ftfy??

Fixed That For You

Fixed what tho

I'm lost "

Your typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I worry more the better the chemistry and attraction seems! But so far its always been better than expected x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It's something I fear yes,it's why nowadays I don't get carried away sending anything too rude I've learned my lesson

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??

You simply can't think like that...

I have a friend whose hubby boutght her a car, his reasoning they would get a decent sized family car for them both and the kids...

She wanted a small car... Thinks this one is too big!

She has proceeded to have at least 8 accidents within a year!

Point is, I think her negative thinking has contributed to her constant accidents..."

Or simply the car is to big for her to drive

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's nearly always better than 2d online driven hope. Those porn stars are definitely better when you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never dreaded meeting up in case it doesn't work out but have met a few people who I've thought meh it ain't there ~ am pretty sure the feeling was mutual too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never dreaded meeting up in case it doesn't work out but have met a few people who I've thought meh it ain't there ~ am pretty sure the feeling was mutual too."

Blooming well doubt it..

You got ooodles of Bowchakkawowwow x x x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It does happen, but I don't dread it, I like relating in reality so would rather know. Once it happened the other way round - I had dinner with someone I didn't fancy and half way through, out of the blue, wham!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more me worried that I don't live upto expectations

This

Ftfy btw

Ftfy??

Fixed That For You

Fixed what tho

I'm lost

Your typo "

Ooooh

Ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??"

Always....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a slight worry, but if you have had a brilliant time chatting and getting to k ow some.one its always an advantage .

I do get butterflies that I wont live up to expectations, I think we all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my late partner on orange chat and yes we where both worried that it wouldnt be the same face to face tho he was orginally visiting me for a week but ended up not going back home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never dreaded meeting up in case it doesn't work out but have met a few people who I've thought meh it ain't there ~ am pretty sure the feeling was mutual too."

This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never dreaded meeting up in case it doesn't work out but have met a few people who I've thought meh it ain't there ~ am pretty sure the feeling was mutual too.

Blooming well doubt it..

You got ooodles of Bowchakkawowwow x x x

"

Ooooh thanks for noticing ~ I've upped my Bowchakkawowwow recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absoloutly there's always a bit of a worry that things are flat when you meet in person and as some have said before I personally worry that I don't live up to thier expectations too... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never dreaded meeting up in case it doesn't work out but have met a few people who I've thought meh it ain't there ~ am pretty sure the feeling was mutual too.

Blooming well doubt it..

You got ooodles of Bowchakkawowwow x x x

Ooooh thanks for noticing ~ I've upped my Bowchakkawowwow recently "

Couldn't blooming miss it

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"It can be a slight worry, but if you have had a brilliant time chatting and getting to k ow some.one its always an advantage .

I do get butterflies that I wont live up to expectations, I think we all do "

We all feel like that

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets have gone splendidly

There was one exception though, with someone I had chatted to for months before.

He came to stay with me for 4 nights. It was awful. Zero attraction (both ways), little in common both in and out of the bedroom.

We basically got pissed for 2 days to tolerate each other and on the third he met someone and went back to theirs not to be seen again until he needed to collect his belongings.

All I could think was 'thank fuck for that'

Lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??"

My meets always say this happens to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah both ways to be honest. More through dating sites though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??

My meets always say this happens to them. "

You were the meet I referred to

Before you had 'the tuck'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??

My meets always say this happens to them.

You were the meet I referred to

Before you had 'the tuck' "

You were just jealous cos my chest was hairier than yours.

(Still is.)

You were an amazin shag *hic*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??

My meets always say this happens to them.

You were the meet I referred to

Before you had 'the tuck'

You were just jealous cos my chest was hairier than yours.

(Still is.)

You were an amazin shag *hic* "

The chest I can cope with

The fact that even after the tuck you still av a bigger cock than me is the worrying part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had online attraction and dreaded meeting up in case the bubble bursts and it all goes to sh!t@??"

I personally think that it is very difficult to 'meet' and maintain a dialogue online with someone who is effectively a total stranger to start with, so by the time it comes to meeting up with them you should know pretty much if you are going to get on or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time.. The amount of phone sex and Skype sex I have before meeting someone , that by the time we meet.. We don't need a social.... That's why Skype and FaceTime are better than these coffee socials... It saves time.

The people that refused to do a little 2 minute webcam (chat not always sex before a meet) , have usually turned up looking nothing like their pics in my experience.

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