FabSwingers.com forum: Insulted much?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In the last few days, certain forum threads have put women down who have A cup boobs, and described 40 as being "an old woman".

I think I'm just gonna give up!

I was in a shit mood when I read the A cup one so it did get to me but the 40 = old woman has me giggling today.

It's so weird, because in real life I got propositioned several times on the dance floor in the club I was in last night. And the guy who owns the club called me over because he wanted to buy me a drink.

Maybe they felt sorry for me. lol

What threads have insulted you lately?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

There's not been too much about black or bi guys so we feel okay at the moment .... to be honest though, I've not been posting too much so I may have missed some insults.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What threads have insulted you lately?

None, I just laugh at them to be honest.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wait till you get in your 50s i love it. Dont think i saw the thread about old women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for goodness sake 40 isnt old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna try being a single guy on the forums and fab at times. Think most women would hang themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What threads have insulted you lately?

None, I just laugh at them to be honest.

I don't mean you personally took it to heart and got upset. I mean threads where people of your demographic or characteristics were criticised in some way.

If I called you a complete and utter ****, it's still an insult, whether you laugh or not, isn't it?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Oh for goodness sake 40 isnt old

Wait until you get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wait till you get in your 50s i love it. Dont think i saw the thread about old women"

It's the OP's most recent comment on the "tall fit MILF in Leeds" thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the last few days, certain forum threads have put women down who have A cup boobs, and described 40 as being "an old woman".

I think I'm just gonna give up!

I was in a shit mood when I read the A cup one so it did get to me but the 40 = old woman has me giggling today.

Maybe they felt sorry for me. lol

What threads have insulted you lately?

Non really... I take the forum with a pinch of salt. Like messages too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not "insulted" as in your reaction, but as in criticised your characteristics in some way.

(I'm going to be repeating this a lot aren't I...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What threads have insulted you lately?

None, I just laugh at them to be honest.

I don't mean you personally took it to heart and got upset. I mean threads where people of your demographic or characteristics were criticised in some way.

If I called you a complete and utter ****, it's still an insult, whether you laugh or not, isn't it?"

I am a single guy

I am bi sexual

those 2 alone would have me sitting crying in the corner with a scraping of self worth if I took to heart the shite that is written on here.

I choose not to allow words on a screen to impact me, I know my worth, I know that my life is a happy and contented one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow,,please,please don't take stuff on here seriously,,large pinch of salt is required

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

People sometimes say things as a joke, not to be taken seriously and 40 is old to a young person, some men i have noticed don't like what they cant have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone says '40 is old' doesn't mean it's true.

Or someone doesn't like small tits, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. I love nibbling on small tits.

In short, don't let someone else dictate how you feel about yourself especially if you have no emotional investment in that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What threads have insulted you lately?

None, I just laugh at them to be honest.

I don't mean you personally took it to heart and got upset. I mean threads where people of your demographic or characteristics were criticised in some way.

If I called you a complete and utter ****, it's still an insult, whether you laugh or not, isn't it?

I am a single guy

I am bi sexual

those 2 alone would have me sitting crying in the corner with a scraping of self worth if I took to heart the shite that is written on here.

I choose not to allow words on a screen to impact me, I know my worth, I know that my life is a happy and contented one.

This nobody knows me personally enough to even begin to bother me on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't get why single guys get such a rough deal. I think they are awesome.

And bi is just... well, bi? It's like being upset someone likes salt AND pepper.

I just love some of the outrageous stuff people criticise specific groups of people for on here. Some of the really extreme stuff is so ott, it's hilarious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm nearly 50, I'm not a BBW, and I'm not thin. I am constantly insulted. Constantly.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Not "insulted" as in your reaction, but as in criticised your characteristics in some way.

(I'm going to be repeating this a lot aren't I...

I get where you're coming from and it happens regularly. I think the only time it has ever remotely bothered me is if there was someone I had a vague 'oh, I might fancy them' thought about who stated that they were categorically turned on by something I'm not in a thread. Well, it wouldn't actually bother me but it would make me make a mental note not to try it on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not "insulted" as in your reaction, but as in criticised your characteristics in some way.

(I'm going to be repeating this a lot aren't I...

In that case, every comment about Americans, pretty much.

I'm not insulted by it because I don't care, but they generally criticize my characteristics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gah, why can't we edit posts?

It would be really useful.

Maybe I should've said "What's the most outrageous thing you've read here criticising a group of people that you are a part of".

Even that doesn't read right.

I'm so shit with words and always multi-tasking when I post. (Plus I think as I type which is why it takes me ages to get to the point - it's the reason I'm not meeting, I bore the crap out of people lol)

Mental note to self - must try harder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm nearly 50, I'm not a BBW, and I'm not thin. I am constantly insulted. Constantly.

Yay someone gets it!

Yeah, you bloody medium-everything women, cluttering up Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies and gents you are truly uniquely wonderful.

You are the best you any one will ever be.

You make pooch and I smile when we felt glum.

You pictures continue to inspire and the ladies tease and tantalise.

Ignore those who try to fit us into boxes . All they are doing is projecting their insecurities on others .

OP your gorgeous

Spread the love chums

Taff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What threads have insulted you lately?

None, I just laugh at them to be honest.

I echo Views thoughts

It's not worth gettin wound up over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously a lot of the sweeping generalisations about single guys get my goat, however a lot of single guys really aren't doing themselves any favours

I think any thread which promotes a particular body type should be instantly closed by the moderators

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Should of read my dont care thread earlier op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the last few days, certain forum threads have put women down who have A cup boobs, and described 40 as being "an old woman".

I think I'm just gonna give up!

If it helps your on my hotlist :p

Along with half the itty bitty titty commite :p

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I don't think i feel personally insulted by any threads,i tend to stay away from the more controversial ones that always lead to arguments.Miss.

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Try being a short, fat, middle aged married bloke in here!

Luckily I have rhino skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get insulted over forum threads. For all I care there could be "tall' "hung" "25+" etc. appreciation threads being started and closed every day.

They don't affect me so I see no reason to get upset over them.

Sorry how you feel about yours OP, but heads high and walk with pride

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm here on fab to have fun, to enjoy myself - there is little I'd let upset me.

Odd idiots wind me up a little when I'm not in the mood, but they are just that - idiots not worth my time.

We are all beautiful in our own ways - even the idiots

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

The only important opinion of you is yours. Don't give a flying **** what anyone else thinks. It works for me and I'm very happy. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All taken with a pinch of salt

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I mainly talk bollocks in the forums , and take no offence at anything , but then again I'm pretty much like that in say to day life

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Oh for goodness sake 40 isnt old

40? It's ancient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow didn't see those threads!

I, Bells, am 40 & I am just about a B cup - I have a extremely hot boyfriend who thinks I'm sexy as

Screw them they don't know what they are taking about

Don't let others preferences get it you x

Bells x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I bet there have been several threads that insult some aspect of us over the last day or so... And 40 is old when you're 20...

Do we care? Nah

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah, why can't we edit posts?

It would be really useful.

Maybe I should've said "What's the most outrageous thing you've read here criticising a group of people that you are a part of".

Even that doesn't read right.

Mental note to self - must try harder."

You describe me perfectly. I confuse myself. x

I can't think of a time I've been offended or similar on here. Irritated perhaps. I don't think I fit into a group so maybe that's why it hasn't bothered me.

Uggh that makes me feel lonely.

Kinda.

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

"I don't get why single guys get such a rough deal. I think they are awesome.

And bi is just... well, bi? It's like being upset someone likes salt AND pepper.

I just love some of the outrageous stuff people criticise specific groups of people for on here. Some of the really extreme stuff is so ott, it's hilarious. "

I am with you on the a cup thread and i reacted too. But since then has thought i need to laugh off the plonker threads, smile and just enjoy the decent forum messages. Fab needs to be fun x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like the new word for us 'left-wing loonies ' - leftards.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"You wanna try being a single guy on the forums and fab at times. Think most women would hang themselves

You wanna try being a 54 yr old bisexual smoker.

It's a good job I like a challenge

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"In the last few days, certain forum threads have put women down who have A cup boobs, and described 40 as being "an old woman".

I think I'm just gonna give up!

I was in a shit mood when I read the A cup one so it did get to me but the 40 = old woman has me giggling today.

Maybe they felt sorry for me. lol

What threads have insulted you lately?

Don't take it to heart, the down side of the inter web is people feel able to say any old shite that enters their heads.

Try being 50+ balding and not exactly blessed in the downstairs lol.

If it helps you're " bang tidy" - in my best Keith Lemon voice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You wanna try being a single guy on the forums and fab at times. Think most women would hang themselves

You wanna try being a 54 yr old bisexual smoker.

It's a good job I like a challenge

Pretty sure I've insulted you to your face anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gah, why can't we edit posts?

It would be really useful.

Maybe I should've said "What's the most outrageous thing you've read here criticising a group of people that you are a part of".

Even that doesn't read right.

Mental note to self - must try harder.

You describe me perfectly. I confuse myself. x

I can't think of a time I've been offended or similar on here. Irritated perhaps. I don't think I fit into a group so maybe that's why it hasn't bothered me.

Uggh that makes me feel lonely.

Kinda.

You can be in my "A bit crap, must try harder" group. The upside is we're rubbish, yet exclusive, so it's unlikely anyone would start a thread slagging our kind off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gah, why can't we edit posts?

It would be really useful.

Maybe I should've said "What's the most outrageous thing you've read here criticising a group of people that you are a part of".

Even that doesn't read right.

Mental note to self - must try harder.

You describe me perfectly. I confuse myself. x

I can't think of a time I've been offended or similar on here. Irritated perhaps. I don't think I fit into a group so maybe that's why it hasn't bothered me.

Uggh that makes me feel lonely.

Kinda.

You can be in my "A bit crap, must try harder" group. The upside is we're rubbish, yet exclusive, so it's unlikely anyone would start a thread slagging our kind off. "

Rubbish, yet exclusive. I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'no pictures of the male' is the most regular thread that I am criticised for, the comments that Mr Iconic is forcing me to sell myself or that he is exceptionally ugly are probably the most stupid comments. People will always make up outrageous reasons when the simple 'he doesn't want to pose for pictures' is the reason.

I am also old, fat and do not squirt, nor have any desire to

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"You wanna try being a single guy on the forums and fab at times. Think most women would hang themselves

You wanna try being a 54 yr old bisexual smoker.

It's a good job I like a challenge

Pretty sure I've insulted you to your face anyway.

Maybe so, you'll have to try harder next time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some may perturb me but I've not been insulted. You generally need to take things with a pinch of salt and be fairly thick skinned.

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