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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that's the way to go. If one person or couple change their mind about meeting you, never meet anyone again ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep that's the way to go. If one person or couple change their mind about meeting you, never meet anyone again ever."

I didn't say I would not meet anyone again, I said couples.

Most of the couples who ask me, it is only the man who wants to meet.

Also as a single female meeting a couple is more dodgy as its 2 against 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found in the past the ladies got a bit possessive of the men and a couple of the men tried one to one meets with me without the lady's permission. If I want lady loving I'll look for it on a one to one basis as I have a strapon we can use along with various other toys. It's a shame really because I enjoy mff too.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I always arrange to meet couples socially first and have either gone on to play that night or at another time, that way i get an inclination of the dynamics within the couple and also if it's going to work for me... I always meet somewhere local to me and a place I feel comfortable.... I also meet couples at clubs and organised socials who I have then met for fun at a later date ....

I wouldn't give up yet, mff is such fun if with a like minded genuine couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I found in the past the ladies got a bit possessive of the men and a couple of the men tried one to one meets with me without the lady's permission. If I want lady loving I'll look for it on a one to one basis as I have a strapon we can use along with various other toys. It's a shame really because I enjoy mff too. "

I think that is what I will do, I would like to try using a strap on. XXX

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We love ffm. I'm very bi. Actually I rather be with a woman than a man. Except for hubby. Any bifemale interested. Please be in touch

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best experiences have been with a couple, don't let one bad experience put you off

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By *uicyJay1Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Any males or females after hung young stuff for threesomes let me know, I will not disappoint.. Hips moving like you wouldn't believe, I can get deeeep..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are a different dynamic but for me, ffm will.only be fun if ladies click. Only do ffm.if lady initiates it and is bi, and is an eager participant. Too many guys say my lady wants a ffm, then why isn't lady making the contact.

It also helps to know if limits, rules. Too many off limit stuff then I am out cos for me that shows the lady not entirely comfortable with a ffm

Ffms are class with right couple, and with 3 eager participants.

Good luck OP

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Any prospect of hidden issues and I'd just meet at a club.

And id speak to both on the phone and view by cam first too.

I just decide what I want and then get on with making it happen. If there are glitches then I can look at how I'm doing things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX"

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

Bring it to the next clique meet

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples are a different dynamic but for me, ffm will.only be fun if ladies click. Only do ffm.if lady initiates it and is bi, and is an eager participant. Too many guys say my lady wants a ffm, then why isn't lady making the contact.

It also helps to know if limits, rules. Too many off limit stuff then I am out cos for me that shows the lady not entirely comfortable with a ffm

Ffms are class with right couple, and with 3 eager participants.

Good luck OP

Hi, thanks for the welcome advice, it was me who approached them. I will take good note of your advice. The bit that got my goat was they accused me of messing them about but I was all set to go XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

Don't get that comment sorry, their profile says the are looking for "that exclusive single female" I said I was happy to go with what they wanted to do. I was not treating them like circus performers.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post makes me sad that one couple can upset someone so much they don't want to meet any genuine couples like us ever again.

I won't bother to try and convince you that you should try couples again. It is all down to what you want after all. But I do think it is a sad place to be when, especially in this game, one disappointing experience can change your mind so much. If we stopped looking for single girls or couples every time we got stood up or someone flaked we would be long out of the game and missing some great experiences.

But good luck with whatever you are looking for now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

Hang on let me just pop the kettle on I'll quite happily watch this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

I wasn't suggesting you were , more that we would ( joking )

It relates to a thread a couple of days ago where a few single bi females joined in on a tongue in cheek couples and single bi female 2 for 1 fancy a fuck thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

To be honest, a dont meet couples so I'm not sticking up for them, but if somebody I was talking to kept changing their location it would put me off too, seems an odd thing to do for a laugh, maybe they didn't see you as genuine because you keep changing things on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX

Well what am I supposed to do with this seal outfit , the plastic balls , the hoops and the circus ring now then ?

Hang on let me just pop the kettle on I'll quite happily watch this

Checks her profile , yep ... Boxes ticked .

Here's the seal outfit , drink up , put it on and let the fun begin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets might be th way to go then. More genuine people there and less of this uncertainty on both parts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a shame one bad experience with a couple has put you off all of them

We love FFM, especially since I am super bi, but we definitely like to meet the lady socially first, find it is much better for everyone as we can make sure all the right dynamics are there and all are happy to be together.

Good luck, maybe you'll change your mind, but if course of you do make sure it's for the right couple for you

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I certainly don't enjoy FFM with a MF couple, the woman almost always starts getting possessive and jealous (I'm a moaner and tend to talk a bit dirty too). On the other hand, two girls and an unrelated sexy guy can be loads of fun for a change of scene. Personally I enjoy 1:1 with men and women most of the time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Always think it's better for the ladies to set up. Seems less complicated.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I've had a mff experience and it was epic..hard bloody work though but well worth it

It was a fwb so I think that made the situation a lot easier to manage as a previous poster pointed out that a lot of women will be or become possessive of their man,especially if he is thoroughly enjoying himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I certainly don't enjoy FFM with a MF couple, the woman almost always starts getting possessive and jealous (I'm a moaner and tend to talk a bit dirty too). On the other hand, two girls and an unrelated sexy guy can be loads of fun for a change of scene. Personally I enjoy 1:1 with men and women most of the time.

I have found this too

I've had way to many problems with couples in the past so I don't meet them anymore, I got fed up of meeting insecure couples where one or the other kicked off mid play and rather than admit they had a problem put the blame in me

Way to much hassle easier to meet singles

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

And also doesn't help if the single F in question is nicer than the Mrs so takes a woman who is very comfortable within herself to be able to fully enjoy the situation. I'm 9n the hunt for the next mff experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's refreshing to see a couples bashing thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep that's the way to go. If one person or couple change their mind about meeting you, never meet anyone again ever."

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Seems it's every couples fantasy to do mff and you see a lot on here about couples not beeing able to find a "unicorn" single female.

I am finding it the other way round.

Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

I won't bother looking for another couple now.

XXX"

Wish i'd been there, must have been an absolute riot. I can just imagine them..."look babe, that bird we're sposed to be fucking later has moved....she lives miles away now". They must have been pissing themselves with laughter, what fun......grrr, you single bi ladies eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep that's the way to go. If one person or couple change their mind about meeting you, never meet anyone again ever."

Yes it seems a perfectly proportional and rational reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large socials are good for meeting couples.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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Had a couple meet arranged but got cancelled because I undisplayed my verification and changed my location for a bit of fun.

XXX"

If a guy arranged a meet then did this 'for a bit of fun' the couple would likely get suspicious and cancel and the guy would get castigated, called a dickhead, blocked and the rest...

Should the same apply for you?

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I have found this too

Way to much hassle easier to meet singles "

Yup, I agree. The most vulnerable time I found was when I kissed the bloke. I love to kiss especially long passionate kisses. I could feel the wife/Gfs eyes boring into me (Mr. would be in heaven of course). All in all, bad situation. I'm positive not all couples are like that but it's hard for me to make good selections

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