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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you could restart your life again,would you have done things differently from what you have done..I would love to have climbed mountains and lived in the wild..You have to try and do everything you desire,live your life fulfill your dreams ,and look back over your life with no regrets...

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I wouldn't change anything.....but yes, there are things I could of done differently.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As Craig as some parts of it where no I don't think I'd change a thing. Having said that I could have lived without going to the dentist yesterday and having 2 fillings. That fucking hurt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's a lot i could change ,if being brave enough to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As Craig as some parts of it where no I don't think I'd change a thing. Having said that I could have lived without going to the dentist yesterday and having 2 fillings. That fucking hurt "
Aw poor you x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

nope. no regrets. wouldnt change a thing, even the shitty bits, without those, i wouldn't have recognized how to choose or appreciate the excellent bits now. Life is too short for regrets imo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a lot i could change ,if being brave enough to do it "

I wouldn't change anything as everything happens for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you'd still do the same because you wouldn't have the life experience you have now. And there's still time to do things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's lots I'd like to change & do differently...

But if I could go back I'd definitely listen to those ppl who said save your money put it away for the future!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happy with my life ,but to old to climb Mount Everest now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you could restart your life again,would you have done things differently from what you have done..I would love to have climbed mountains and lived in the wild..You have to try and do everything you desire,live your life fulfill your dreams ,and look back over your life with no regrets..."

Hindsight is great but only useful if we use it to change how we do things in the future. Why not climb mountains and live in the wild now?

I wouldn't change anything much because it all got me to where I am now and I'm very happy.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh god yes, I went right off the rails at a young age!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Happy with my life ,but to old to climb Mount Everest now "

Find a smaller mountain

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Happy with my life ,but to old to climb Mount Everest now "

Don't worry, I'll give you a piggy back

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh god yes, I went right off the rails at a young age! "

No way that was the best bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have done without getting run over at 18 but it got me out of a job I hated so every cloud...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy with my life ,but to old to climb Mount Everest now

Don't worry, I'll give you a piggy back "
Your brave then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we all have times in our lives that we regret,but as you get older you get wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to re-start this year, apart from that no real big regrets so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have 'come out' as a teenager and not as a middle aged man.

The lies I have told, the stories I made up, the keeping of some friends from other friends.

I have lived two lives.

On reflection, it is deeply saddening.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd have 'come out' as a teenager and not as a middle aged man.

The lies I have told, the stories I made up, the keeping of some friends from other friends.

I have lived two lives.

On reflection, it is deeply saddening."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'd have 'come out' as a teenager and not as a middle aged man.

The lies I have told, the stories I made up, the keeping of some friends from other friends.

I have lived two lives.

On reflection, it is deeply saddening."

As a straight bloke I can only imagine how hard and proppably painful that must have been but you got there dude

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I wouldn't give up on things so easily, don't get me wrong I do things thoroughly but when the fun stops I stop doing it.

Embrace my feminine side sooner, as I missed out on so much fun.

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

Only one thing i would change and thats my wife dying

If i knew then i would stopped her driving that day. 11 Years on still hurts apart from that nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only one thing i would change and thats my wife dying

If i knew then i would stopped her driving that day. 11 Years on still hurts apart from that nothing "
xxxxx

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I wouldn't have gotten married at 16. However had I not done that I wouldn't have my 3 amazing sons

I suppose my only other thing would be who I fell in love with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope. no regrets. wouldnt change a thing, even the shitty bits, without those, i wouldn't have recognized how to choose or appreciate the excellent bits now. Life is too short for regrets imo x"

Exactly the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope. no regrets. wouldnt change a thing, even the shitty bits, without those, i wouldn't have recognized how to choose or appreciate the excellent bits now. Life is too short for regrets imo x"

My sentiments entirely.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

every jigsaw piece of my life has formed a really content and happy picture of me....

I am glad that I put the pieces together in the way that I did.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"every jigsaw piece of my life has formed a really content and happy picture of me....

I am glad that I put the pieces together in the way that I did....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes wish I could of gone travelling and worked abroad when. I had the chance too!

Doll x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's never too late to do what you always wanted to do

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Honestly I don't think I'd change things it's made me the person I am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make decisions and don't look back.

Done have momentary lapses of regret? Yeah now and then. I have one or two unicorns that are my own doing.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

Yes I would. Only because of 3 years worth of ill health. I would definitely look after myself alot better if I had another chance. I have hated being ill and most of my issues could've been prevented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no jolly regrets I have had a spiffing time and the scars are worn with pride and memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like to say no regrets but i have been through some real shit and would have like to missed out some of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look back, only look forwards,

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

i would have moved to Scotland MUCH sooner. If I had had ANY clue that gender reassignment surgery would have been THIS good - I'd have slept on the doorstep of the hospital every night til they relented, a long long time ago. And I'd have avoided getting HIV too

BUT

You play the hand you are dealt and with aplomb! Well, I hope so anyway. In order to work out where you are from, you have to get the end and work backwards. Keep Buggering On! No tears, no regrets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't have had kids to a control freak, would've ended the relationship with my dad sooner, would've gone to college when it was free.

dealt with loads of shit though and i should be proud of that.

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