FabSwingers.com forum: On fab for year + no veris??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time waters or what?? When asked I get the usual " had a girl friend but now I don't..." or " not met the right person " ...What's your _iew???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them to book and pay for the hotel room. Soon gets rid of time wasters.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

They're probably married and window shopping.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Time waters or what?? When asked I get the usual " had a girl friend but now I don't..." or " not met the right person " ...What's your _iew???"

Filter them out, delete, and Just chat to guys with veris then.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There is requirement to get verified in any set space of time so it really is of no consequence when or if they ever get verified. People fuck on their time scales. No one else's.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Will answer later.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get them to book and pay for the hotel room. Soon gets rid of time wasters."

I know someone who got verifs easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time waters or what?? When asked I get the usual " had a girl friend but now I don't..." or " not met the right person " ...What's your _iew???"

I've been on here longer thasn a year and no veris, the fact that I've never said I'll meet someone if there is the slightest chance that I would have to cancel, means that no I'm not a time waster, far from it, there is one particular forumite that I want to meet, desperately, but I won't try and arrange anything at the moment because there is a strong possibility that something would go wrong and I would have to cancel, I've gotway too much respect for her to do that

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Get them to book and pay for the hotel room. Soon gets rid of time wasters."

Too true! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am about a month short of a year and I've yet to receive a verification.

Doesn't make me a bad person or a criminal.

I've had offers from women and or couples but travelling 100 miles each way for a meet is ridiculous.

A lot of guys get a pretty shitty reputation for no veris. It's not that easy to just rock up to a club as a single guy. Well it isn't for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest i'm really not bothered about how many people other folks have met and if they are or are not verified

I dont even think about it really, if i chat to somebody and we get on i meet regardless of how many others they have or have not met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple..suggest you speak to the female of the couple. That sorts a lot out ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am about a month short of a year and I've yet to receive a verification.

Doesn't make me a bad person or a criminal.

I've had offers from women and or couples but travelling 100 miles each way for a meet is ridiculous.

A lot of guys get a pretty shitty reputation for no veris. It's not that easy to just rock up to a club as a single guy. Well it isn't for me anyway."

I hear that totally..(mr)..but I'm sure that having no verifications must go against you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me a long time to get verified on my first visit to fab however Id had socials with other non verified members. Perhaps that's a possibility?

There does seem to be a stigma attached to veri's, which I understand if don't condone.

A quick phone call generally sorts the fakes out.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Up to you if you think you won't meet without veris, or not.

I couldn't give a damn, becausevghey mean nothing, and I am able to make my own decisions.

And there are those who don't use this site every day, but dip in and out, and unlucky ones who don't get any action ,

Why punish them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shopping mostly for me, as i don't get a lot of available time, and as a poster has already said - i can't arrange a meet if i have to back out.

However i am as up front as i can be about it, and have never strung anyone along for a meet. Therefore not a timewaster.

Also for a couple meet, there are very few that interest me. I prefer my guys out of shape, but my women fit.

Just because i'm a single bloke, doesn't mean i have no right to be fussy.

Also i'm kinda a niche market too, so my opportunities a lower.

Plus some verifications are for being seen on a webcam ? (Usually with verification hidden)

That's hardly an improvement on photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not judging or punishing ..I'm just opening up a debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am about a month short of a year and I've yet to receive a verification.

Doesn't make me a bad person or a criminal.

I've had offers from women and or couples but travelling 100 miles each way for a meet is ridiculous.

A lot of guys get a pretty shitty reputation for no veris. It's not that easy to just rock up to a club as a single guy. Well it isn't for me anyway.

I hear that totally..(mr)..but I'm sure that having no verifications must go against you?"

It totally does. Frustrating at times too. Most times to be perfectly honest

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

what gets me is people that can accommodate yet have been on for ages with no verifications.. now either there just fakes or they've got a lot of bodies buried in the basement

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

It totally does. Frustrating at times too. Most times to be perfectly honest"

just go to a forum social mate like I did, I'll admit I never really message or pursue people on here or in real life for that matter..

to date I've been here a year and a half all my meets are from the forum social but I'm okay with that I met some nice people that night at the venue..

might check out a club one day to see what it's all about but will remember the rules and what to do/what not to do and if I don't feel comfortable or feel I don't belong in clubs either then well I can always say I checked it out at least once right?

as for meets well hmmm I don't necessarily encounter time wasters as time wasters by definition are people who arrange to meet but don't show up....

I more or less encountered on 4 or five occasions I have spoken to women/couples and their verified and have seen my face and usually both parties (i.e. myself and them) are happy to meet up even if it's for something as simple as a social first their happy with that but eventually they go radio silent and defriend and it's back to square one..

oh well It's not the end off the world though I suppose as it could be worser I suppose so I count my blessings that way...don't let it frustrate you

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

If you are chatting well and seem to be getting along, why not meet in a public place for a coffee and veri him. No need to play or veri if he is not right.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

If you get a verification from someone who then leaves the site, what happens to their verification? Do you lose it? Does it make you look like you have no verification even though you had one?

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

"If you get a verification from someone who then leaves the site, what happens to their verification? Do you lose it? Does it make you look like you have no verification even though you had one?"

You keep the green tick - but not what they have written.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"If you get a verification from someone who then leaves the site, what happens to their verification? Do you lose it? Does it make you look like you have no verification even though you had one?"

The words dissapear; actual veri, but it still appears in your number of veris.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they are probably enjoying the site in the way they choose.

good for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time waters or what?? When asked I get the usual " had a girl friend but now I don't..." or " not met the right person " ...What's your _iew???"

What's it matter if ppl are not verified?

TBH it doesn't bother me that much not having been verified!!!

I go Dogging so don't really need them I use this site because I like the forums & the stories & there's a few ppl I chat too..

Though I know I've encountered ppl off of this site whilst I've been out & about & they didn't ask for verification's when she opened the passenger door to be played with!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

"TBH it doesn't bother me that much not having been verified!!!

I go Dogging so don't really need them "

You can just keep your Car Park tickets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH it doesn't bother me that much not having been verified!!!

I go Dogging so don't really need them

You can just keep your Car Park tickets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be honest i'm really not bothered about how many people other folks have met and if they are or are not verified

I dont even think about it really, if i chat to somebody and we get on i meet regardless of how many others they have or have not met"

This.

I have had a few meets on here, and ive turned up as ive said I would. But I haven't asked for veris, I have found on occasions that some fems and couples set the bar very highly when it comes to criteria required to meet males, almost like a test. Sometimes making it nigh on impossible to meet, and therefore made to look unreliable. Meh.

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