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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen. Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect). She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that). This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them? Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. " you say you exchanged 30 messages there must have been a connection..? | |||
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"Maybe she was bored Did u shag for the full 3 hours? No stopping in between for foreplay etc ? " Yes sometimes it is boring if youre not with the right man. | |||
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"Maybe she was bored Did u shag for the full 3 hours? No stopping in between for foreplay etc ? Yes sometimes it is boring if youre not with the right man." Except she asked for another meet so she must have enjoyed it. Some people are just lazy. I've seen tons of disinterested looking people at clubs,I've even had meets where the guy is pretty lazy and happy for me to do the work. | |||
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"Maybe she'll be a whole lot different next time you meet!" If she isn't on Fab and doesn't read the thread. ![]() | |||
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"Maybe she was bored Did u shag for the full 3 hours? No stopping in between for foreplay etc ? Yes sometimes it is boring if youre not with the right man. Except she asked for another meet so she must have enjoyed it. Some people are just lazy. I've seen tons of disinterested looking people at clubs,I've even had meets where the guy is pretty lazy and happy for me to do the work. " Maybe she wanted to meet him again because shes lonely or cant find anyone else. | |||
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"Some women are indeed lazy fucks and then you get the ones who actually enjoy sex not just going through the motions." Not all women enjoy sex with every man they meet though. | |||
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"Maybe she'll be a whole lot different next time you meet! If she isn't on Fab and doesn't read the thread. ![]() Well yeah there is that ![]() | |||
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"If she thought you were so good...and wanted to do it again then it's a shame she hadn't verified you....or is that just another sign of her laziness? (If what you say is correct about her?)" She is lazy. | |||
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"If she thought you were so good...and wanted to do it again then it's a shame she hadn't verified you....or is that just another sign of her laziness? (If what you say is correct about her?)" Not everyone measures the success of their sex life by the number off verifications they have. | |||
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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen. Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect). She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that). This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them? Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. " yep some people are just lasy ive met a few guys who have just laid there and wanted me to alternate between riding them and sucking them and they have never got off their back or touched me, one guy even passed me the condom, he couldnt even open and put on his own bloody condom i tend to get dressed and leave in situations like there, theres no way i'm still there 2 or 3 hours later you just have to make a note not to meet them again | |||
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"I'm an incredibly lazy fuck. Just push my legs together when you've finished. ![]() Thanks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. " nah some people are just lazy ![]() | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() There are, who doesn't shower before a meet - she probably took one as a way to get undressed as she was shy and get him instantly hard. It obviously worked as he lasted for 2-3 hours without chucking her out. | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() yeah i must admit i did think if he was still at it 3 hours later she couldnt have been that bad, id have left way before them no comment on the shower bit, i always shower before a meet but if ive been sat on a hot train etc i will also shower again when i get there | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() Hes meant to leave his own house? | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() Blimey,you do like to make things up in your head don't you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm an incredibly lazy fuck. Just push my legs together when you've finished. ![]() And pull your nighty down too ![]() | |||
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"sometimes when you meet someone you aren't in the mood or you don't really fancy them but you cant really say so, just hope they cum quick then want to leave. If you aren't really enjoying having sex you cant just say so. Although I have enjoyed having sex with men I didn't really fancy as well a few times. You just never know how it will turn out." ![]() | |||
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"Only one way to really find out OP - invite her back and see how quick she finds an excuse not to come? One of those 'yeah it was great, we'll have to do it again!' replies.. ![]() Haha very true! She may be like "Ah I'm washing my hair all week ![]() | |||
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"After reading your profile I'm thinking after all the mini novels etc when it came down to it she was a little underwhelmed. It's nice to have a bit of a build up to a meet but in reality if there's no spark there it will be disappointing. I do hope she's not on fab OP." Haha that's funny haha, sadly we didn't exchange any novels in the build up. Those brief messages were very to the point. Though you may be right on the spark point, also she's not on here. Definitely wouldn't post if she was. | |||
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"Don't take this as a dig mate as it's far from it. Maybe your growing up. I've been like that for years now it used to be I wanted to have as much sex as possible and any holes a goal so to speak but now I knock back more than I take because I want quality rather than quantity. Just a thought" I definitely hear you on that and that's for the feedback, i'm thinking about that too. I've never been one for sex before I can feel some real chemistry at work. This was my first instance overriding that rule - it may be its just not for me, I'm exploring all things sexual, so I'll give it another few tries I reckon. | |||
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"Mind you a lazy fuck is better than being asked are you nearly finished yet or are you going to take much longer ![]() Haha goodness, I haven't had that yet! She could've done, I didn't cum - I changed condom brand and they robbed all feeling from my penis (bastards - intimate feel my foot) | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() dont be silly ![]() | |||
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"Don't take this as a dig mate as it's far from it. Maybe your growing up. I've been like that for years now it used to be I wanted to have as much sex as possible and any holes a goal so to speak but now I knock back more than I take because I want quality rather than quantity. Just a thought" ![]() | |||
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"She was probably inexperienced and you have your outed her OP, due to inexperience. nah some people are just lazy ![]() ![]() Haha, I accommodated via a hotel room not too far from where she lives. | |||
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex ![]() Haha, I have no issue being used for sex - in fact I'm in favour of it lol, it just this was a new experience for me. I didn't feel used at all, first time having sex where the girl didn't seem to put any effort in. | |||
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex ![]() Too many times I've been on your end,where guys sit on a bed whack out their cock with a sheepish look as if to say.."it's not gonna suck itself" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex ![]() ![]() ![]() Hahah I guess I can finally relate to your pain. | |||
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"Finally a woman "uses" a man for sex ![]() never we don't do that ![]() | |||
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"Phew, I was a bit worried then, coz someone on another thread asked if this post was about me! Lol xxx" Haha, I wouldn't do that to someone. It's only because she'd never see this I posted on here for some perspective. Haha are you the lazy in bed type? | |||
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"I'm an amazing fuck. Just putting it out there ![]() Haha, can I steal you for the weekend? ![]() | |||
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"So I exchanged maybe 30 messages with this girl and we decided pretty quickly we both wanted to hook up and make it happen. Anyway, she came around, jumped in the shower got fresh and then came out in a towel. Very small words exchanged before before I pushed her on the bed and started kissing her... We fucked but for like the next 2-3 hours, she was so limp and lazy, she text me following saying she had a great time and wants to do it again... I said to her, a few times you've got to move (to that effect). She didn't look lazy! She looked great, but she just wanted to lay there, even in doggy style she kept adjusting to be even lazier haha... I ended up punishing her for it (spanks and all that). This was earlier tonight, scratching my head... Are some people just lazy and expect all the work to be done for them? Also, don't think I'm a fan of meets without some form of a connection prior, felt too cold for me. " As you get older you start to notice certain tings..and one thing I have noticed is that I see women saying that "they want to be fucked good and proper" or something similar and when a man doesn't perform then he was a shit fuck etc..but i can count on one hand the amount of women that have actually fucked me in a way that I would call a really good seeing to. Having said that there's a lot men that will turn up and fuck the woman in various positions and not even say anything and then the woman in question can become lazy or maybe she just isn't confident being on top and all that. | |||
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"I'm an amazing fuck. Just putting it out there ![]() And amazing fuck or can you fuck amazingly?..that's the question ![]() | |||
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"Phew, I was a bit worried then, coz someone on another thread asked if this post was about me! Lol xxx Haha, I wouldn't do that to someone. It's only because she'd never see this I posted on here for some perspective. Haha are you the lazy in bed type? " No but I posted a thread yesterday about my FWB falling asleep in the afternoon, I had been on top when it happened though.LoL XXX | |||
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"'this isn't really working for me, not sure if we are sexually compatible'....... that's what an adult may say during the meet" That would be a good idea. | |||
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"I'm an amazing fuck. Just putting it out there ![]() ![]() I'm already fully booked this weekend,sorry ![]() | |||
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"I'm an amazing fuck. Just putting it out there ![]() ![]() Both. I'm amazing ![]() | |||
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"'this isn't really working for me, not sure if we are sexually compatible'....... that's what an adult may say during the meet" I agree with you, up until the "adult" comment, insinuating I assume that less than that makes someone less mature than an adult. However I think a crucial part of being an adult is being willing to admit to mistakes, take responsibility, learn from those mistakes. I'm being pedantic about this admittedly lol. | |||
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"I'm an amazing fuck. Just putting it out there ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha, I want to believe in angels again ![]() | |||
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"'this isn't really working for me, not sure if we are sexually compatible'....... that's what an adult may say during the meet I agree with you, up until the "adult" comment, insinuating I assume that less than that makes someone less mature than an adult. However I think a crucial part of being an adult is being willing to admit to mistakes, take responsibility, learn from those mistakes. I'm being pedantic about this admittedly lol. " cool | |||
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