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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "
my sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from personal experience it was kinda handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?

But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "

It would depend on how trustworthy the person seemed.I'd still insist on meeting in a public place,they might not need me to give them detailed directions about 15 times though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See that's what I think too. But Ive had several women quite local voice concerns over our proximity, excuse? Perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "

never shit on your own doorstep

personally I would rather not know so I block everyone within a 20 mile radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?

But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular! "
yeah entirely different for say a single lady and a couple compared to a single man with the stigma in society.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient

It would depend on how trustworthy the person seemed.I'd still insist on meeting in a public place,they might not need me to give them detailed directions about 15 times though. "

Trustworthiness would apply no matter the distance though surely? And as for directions, surely that's what sat Mac was invented for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient

never shit on your own doorstep

personally I would rather not know so I block everyone within a 20 mile radius "

You can do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "

I'd still apply the same criteria to decide if we wanted to meet them...wouldn't just fuck them because it was convenient nor would we assume they would want us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, I have a 200 mile exclusion zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient my sentiments exactly "

And ours , as long as they are fit and match our criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like the idea. It could be very hot and lead to allsorts of impromptu fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient

I'd still apply the same criteria to decide if we wanted to meet them...wouldn't just fuck them because it was convenient nor would we assume they would want us..."

Oh I couldn't agree more! I was making the assumption that comparability would be there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Compatibility even!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes. Perfect situation as far as I'm concerned xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would skip people within a few miles radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although not via here, I once had a FB 2 doors up for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would skip people within a few miles radius"

For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Although not via here, I once had a FB 2 doors up for a while "

Now that's just showing off lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?

But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular! "

Or very popular in the village where I grew up there were loads of 'wife swapping parties'.

My mum always felt left out and an outsider to the village. Only since her passing I discovered why my and dad weren't in the clique no one dared ask her because she way the village lay reader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It possibly helps though that I live in the middle of a city and in quite a diverse part of town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would skip people within a few miles radius

For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations? "
Discretion....

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would skip people within a few miles radius

For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations? Discretion.... "

That's fair enough.

I just figure, they are here too, so it works both ways. But I understand your reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be perfect in my eyes did meet up with a couple who lived ten minutes walk away a few times and worked really well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!

Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters

I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

I personally wouldn't want anyone to know my address having previously had a weirdo drive by at 3am asking why my lights were still on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!

Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters

I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!! "

I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP about 250 + miles sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally wouldn't want anyone to know my address having previously had a weirdo drive by at 3am asking why my lights were still on "

Well that's just weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP about 250 + miles sounds perfect "

PM me your address, I'll be about 3 hours

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I'd hate for them to see me in drab mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whether they look hot or like a creepy stalker I suppose

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a hot guy who could accomm live near me.. would be so easy and convenient.. any takers lol

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

I think it would be fine IF all went well and was a likely repeat event, but IF it didn't, or worse still you didn't want to meet again but they did, bumping into them in Tesco or the local pub etc could be a little awkward.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP about 250 + miles sounds perfect

PM me your address, I'll be about 3 hours "

Excellent just enought time toget ready

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope, won't meet anyone within 20 miles of where I live. All it takes is one indiscreet person and knowing how gossipy my small town can be, there are things my kids don't need to know about their mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would skip people within a few miles radius

For what reason? Simply not wanting to bump into them in real life situations? Discretion....

That's fair enough.

I just figure, they are here too, so it works both ways. But I understand your reasons. "
Its different for singles,unfortunately thats what 80 per cent of this site is,If i was single and the next door neighbour was then thats different..

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

If you're sitting on my door step, you're too close x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!

Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters

I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!!

I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for! "

Your lucky, the dads at my kids school are mostly awful and then there's their wives!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I'd hate for them to see me in drab mode "

This!! A couple I've met have moved into my village and their daughter goes to the same school as mine now. Awkward!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bump into guys I've been with on occasion, not normally phased by it but if I'm with my kids it's a bit different!!!

Guess I've been lucky to not have met any nutters

I wouldn't want anyone at my kids school tho, that could be awkward!!!

I don't know mind, there's a couple of seriously sexy mothers at my kids school I could cope with the awkwardness for!

Your lucky, the dads at my kids school are mostly awful and then there's their wives!!! "

There are a couple of yummy dads at my kids schools

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

wouldn't be a problem for me,as long as they remember to be discreet around non swingers.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"wouldn't be a problem for me,as long as they remember to be discreet around non swingers."

You could tap your nose... "You ain't seen me... Right!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really on the person located so closely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way!! Lol but if you don't mind people knowing you are on here then why not!?

But as a couple living in a tiny village lol we wouldn't be popular! "

I know every one in my small village that is on here although never played it's fun to share the knowing smile in the pub. Especially when I take a meet in there for a social. We're all adults after all and doing nothing illegal. Well most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within 10 miles is way too close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "

I had a guy mail me who came up as within half a mile, he gave me his address and told me to come round, his street was literally two streets away from me

I said no because it was to close for comfort, he didn't see a problem in fact he saw finding a woman who was only two streets away as a bonus

But I never went, he still mails me from time to time to see if I've changed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a couple that live on the same road as me on fab

We chat. But I have bumped into them in a club. Nice couple.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Next door neighbour once - but I would not do very close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a small town where everyone talks, I wouldn't meet within 10 miles!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It's the perfect option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. Still meet him sometimes. I'm single though and so is he, so nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet a single fem who lives 2 doors away

We introduced her to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dead handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine you found someone on here living within a couple of mins walk of you.

Would you? Wouldn't you?

Personally I think it just sounds extreamly conveinient "

I did and it was someone I shouldn't have got involved with but did....for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its ok if its going well - if it goes tits up could be the worst thing ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl been there. Done that and got the piercing to prove it. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If things go wrong then you'll find out how close your 'neighbour' actually lives and won't like it a bit!

Have been contacted a while ago by someone I found out lives on the same street. I didn't wait to find out anything else. Face photo did it all. Blocked. Sorry... too close to home as they say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone less than 30 miles from me but I don't tell them the town where I live anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been tempted, but it is too big a risk in a small village when someone could say something to your kids. I do cast a wistful glance towards some of the hot mums in the playground and sexy couples in the local.

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