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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never really mastered it.

What do you do to attract the attention of someone you like?

I usually get tongue tied OR ramble nonsensically until I run out of air or the other person kisses me to shhh me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just tell me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just tell me. "

I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rambling sounds like it has potential

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

As if I'm going to say...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As if I'm going to say..."

You don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this OP, I'm a woeful flirt. Shit at sending signals and reading them too (apparently I've been told later - in truth I can't believe anyone would actually try and flirt with me)

Just doesn't come naturally - yet for others they don't even need to try and come across naturally flirty. S'not fair is it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with you on this OP, I'm a woeful flirt. Shit at sending signals and reading them too (apparently I've been told later - in truth I can't believe anyone would actually try and flirt with me)

Just doesn't come naturally - yet for others they don't even need to try and come across naturally flirty. S'not fair is it!"

Someone told me recently he's fancied me for ages but is awful at flirting.

I'd have to say in fairness he's definitely worse than me as I had NO clue.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G"

That's exactly what I'm like!

I find it difficult to approach.

Gawd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ramble and hope that they finding it endearing and cute.

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world

I didn't realise that someone was actually flirting with me, in a club a couple of weeks ago.

I can flirt online but shit in person

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G

That's exactly what I'm like!

I find it difficult to approach.

Gawd.

"

Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact, a slight touch here and there, more eye contactb then ask them if my bum Looks big

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G

That's exactly what I'm like!

I find it difficult to approach.

Gawd.

Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G"

I can see flashcards working.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't realise that someone was actually flirting with me, in a club a couple of weeks ago.

I can flirt online but shit in person "

I think I flirt through taking the mick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ramble and hope that they finding it endearing and cute. "

it works for me sometimes, others not so much.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G

That's exactly what I'm like!

I find it difficult to approach.

Gawd.

Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

I can see flashcards working.

"

Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ramble and hope that they finding it endearing and cute.

it works for me sometimes, others not so much."

I've found that too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is something we both struggle with every time we go to a club - how to put across your interest, or even register that someone else is interested in us unless they make it blatantly obvious.

We've had some fantastic times, but they've all either been when the other couple/person have taken the initiative, or where we've literally fallen into a situation by chance. Neither of us seem capable of being the one to take the initiative. The times we've driven away saying "why didn't we go and talk to.....".

One of these days we'll get the hang of it, then watch out world!!

Mr G

That's exactly what I'm like!

I find it difficult to approach.

Gawd.

Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

I can see flashcards working.

Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!

Mr G"

I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

I can see flashcards working.

Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!

Mr G

I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?"

Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion "

That's the best kind.

I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

I can see flashcards working.

Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!

Mr G

I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?

Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?

Mr G"

I want them at least semi conscious.

My bike lock is fecking heavy.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


" Perhaps the clubs should forget hosting Bi/Fetish/BBW/Greedy Girl etc nights and have a "Crap Flirters" night.....oh wait that wouldn't work would it!!

Mr G

I can see flashcards working.

Ooohh flashcards, now there's an idea....best I could come up with was the old school sterotype of car keys in a pot but that wouldn't work unless you could keep putting them back till you got someone you fancied!!

Mr G

I don't drive, a bike lock really wouldn't work eh?

Maybe if you went cavewoman style and clonked them over the head with it?

Mr G

I want them at least semi conscious.

My bike lock is fecking heavy."

Maybe just a tap then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion

That's the best kind.

I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move "

Too many jokes = friend zone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell....I'm surprised any of you get past having a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a shoot from the hip kind of girl, if I like someone I just say it, then there's no confusion

That's the best kind.

I'm more likely to make jokes until you take the hint and make a move

Too many jokes = friend zone lol"

Story of my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bloody hell....I'm surprised any of you get past having a coffee "

I prefer wine.

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